My 8 year old just told me mom’s “friend” is coming to beach with them

XingTianMain · 2026-06-12T17:21:28+00:00

Going forward I wouldn’t say all women are like this… but this was always the risk of signing that marriage contract.

Let her take the full brunt of being a 40yo single mom. She’s already getting run through. It sucks for the child though. There’s no chance of you keeping them away from all the boyfriends that’ll go through the house until they’re 18. Hopefully once they’re a teenager it’ll click what their mother did to your family.

UrAristotle · 2026-06-12T15:36:03+00:00

FWIW, it wasn’t GLP-1

I know that doesn’t help

It’s the modern woman who decides “I deserve more” or “I deserve happiness” and takes zero accountability for what that selfishness does to her family

ConfidentHyena2662 · 2026-06-12T14:23:17+00:00

Every lawyer in America has an article on their website about the ozempic divorce. It’s really an epidemic.

They have to stay on the peptide to keep their results. Once the stop all the weight comes back.The problem these women are going to have is once you separate your insurance. Then they are on their own insurance or paying out of pocket $1000 of dollars to keep on the peptide. Most can’t see the forest for the tree or think about the long term consequences of this experimental drug that originally set-up for diabetics and the morbidly obese.

My exes hair is falling out from the shot, but hey as long as she is skinny someone is trying to bang her. And that’s all the validation she needs.

soupsandwich00 · 2026-06-12T13:33:45+00:00

Another thread in this sub among many where she turns into a different person after using GLP1's.

ForQueenandCountry82 · 2026-06-12T10:55:52+00:00

Women do this shit straight after you separate. They get a guy who they think is going to be the perfect second husband but they soon realise once he's bored of fucking her he'll drop her in a heartbeat.

HuskerMedic · 2026-06-12T05:27:14+00:00

She's lying because she wants to keep her job. Most employers frown on the boss fucking the subordinates.

upvotersfortruth · 2026-06-12T02:37:12+00:00

First, she knew she was going to divorce you probably at least 6 months before she told you, so none of this is new to her - it's only new to you. So if you view things from her trajectory - 8 months after she decided it was over she's seeing someone else. Doesn't make it right and i'm not defending her - just highlighting the psychological differences.

For you, 2 months from the bomb being dropped on your life - you can easily still be in shock, denial, anger stages of grief. The bottom line is that you need to accept you cannot not expect anything from her in terms of honesty, reliability, emotional support - nothing. She is your opponent (even enemy), not your wife anymore. And you shouldn't act like her husband.

If she's after a "boy toy" - so be it.

Jamescovey · 2026-06-12T02:30:49+00:00

Get a lawyer.

She’s fucking him and trying to replace you.

Learn to grey rock her. Don’t speak to her unless it’s about the kid(s). Period. She’s now your mortal enemy. Treat her as such.

Separate your finances. Redirect your paychecks to new account. Cut her off your credit cards. You have no friends anymore. No one gives a shit about your problems and half the people are glad you’ve got problems. Tell them nothing.

When they ask what’s happening - “things didn’t work out like we planned and thank you for respecting our privacy”

Move on. Protect your peace and find/multiply your purpose. Stay active in this community.

Title	My 8 year old just told me mom’s “friend” is coming to beach with them
Author	SwanInitial7493
Upvotes	35
Comments	22
Date	June 12, 2026 2:18 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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