No bs answer where can I find all the information I need about game while practicing?

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-07-02T11:40:40+00:00

Just search “books” in this sub you will see a lot. The most common ones are “Mystery Method” by Mystery, “The Game” by Neil Strauss, “Models” by Mark Manson, “Mode One” by Allan Currie.

Or you can read the top (of all time) posts in this sub. Just change its setting in “feed options.”

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-07-02T18:51:29+00:00

Im someone who learned on the fly and by making mistakes, just a few tips:

- it's ok to make mistakes, just understand what you did wrong and learn from it.

- Understand even if you get good, you will get more rejections than successes. Like im willing to bet most guy's sucess rate is like 5% if you are good at it. Thing is they talk to most women even if it's not flirting.

- Understand that there is no "flirting mindset", just enjoy the cnversation but also be open to leading it to a potential date, number, etc once you feel you have entertained her well. When you try to get into that flirting mindset, you wont be genuine and she can read that. Women already know what we want, so they always have their guard up. Best way to get them to put it down, is to show them that you are fun, that they can have a fun time around you and you dont care if you get with them or not, you are having fun and that is your main priority.

- Practice iwth men (i mean that). What i mean by it is, i have found that men who struggle with women really struggle with meeting new people in general. So for me i used to go to networking events, meetup events, etc and id just walk up to everyone. and try to just enjoy the conversation and find common ground. With guys it was a bit easier because, 1. i did not care to befriend them. 2. most guys like sports. So my genuine self was coming out. I realzied that i was actually pretty funny and witty, i could shoot the shit with men because i understood men better. Then i decided to transfer that to women. I was already getting rejected so why not try it. What i realized was when i used to be afraid of shooting the shit with women out of fear of them hating me, they loved it. THey took it better than most men. So i started treating them like bros.

- Read body language, a women will let you know what she is ok with you doing to her and what she is not ok with through body language. If you get a foot close and she raises her hand like "back off", you know she still isnt comfortable with you yet. Dont go for the side hug with a girl that is clearly not close with you yet. Start light and increase it. Handshake, hand hold ,etc. You gotta read the situation. SO for me, i try to get in through conversation, once i feel like im in, ill make a few jokes and then try to find common ground and introduce some light touching. But also depends on sitaution, club is a bit different because of music and noise, sometimes you just gotta see which girl is the most active and mostly enjoying the music over being with the group and just go up to her and dance. The girl that is circled aroudn her friends and just dancing but keepign herself closed off, leave her be or approach differently, the girl that dances away from the gorup and just wants space to dance, she might be more open to letting you get in on that.

- Dress well. Looks arent everythign, but they do play a factor. Social skills are #1, but a woman will decide she will never fuck you if you look bad. It's literally just 4-6 hours, so prioritize looks over comfort if needed. Buy some nice jeans, bomber jackets, etc. BUy some cologne and wear it. Dont be afriad to spend a pretty penny on cologne, because smell goes a long way. I recently bought a new cologne and even after showering the next day i didnt wear any and a girl i knew got close to me and was like "dman you smell good". As for clothes, there's plenty of ncie deals in old navy and amazon.

messias94 · 2026-07-02T07:47:40+00:00

Lese Bücher diesbzühlich

Special_Rice9539 · 2026-07-02T12:21:57+00:00

Owen cook’s stuff is pretty dialled in now.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Od9mMJoMbO8&t=456s

This video is pretty hardcore, it mainly dives into how you create the frame in an interaction where you’re an opportunity for them, not a sale. But he has a lot of lighter stuff.

jackthehat6 · 2026-07-02T12:36:49+00:00

there's many different answers based on which guru you follow. That's the difficulty in answering this quesiton. And they all disagree with each other and contradict each other massively (the fact they all disagree with each other should give you a bit of a red flag by the way lol)

It's essentially a numbers game. Whatever you are already doing and saying when you appraoch is very likely already perfect, according too at least one 'model' of 'game'

rocksos · 2026-07-02T14:01:07+00:00

'models' is supposed ot be the main one recommended on this sub. Don't pay for it though. All books are free to download if you look around. Every book mentioned in this thread/sub can be found for free.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-07-02T08:33:33+00:00

The best approach is problem-based learning. It works like this:

You go out and you practiced, then you failed.
Figure out the problem first. Really spend some time to nail down what it actually is. Because your first hunch is often wrong. Think about it for a while.
Once you are reasonably confident know the root problem, you can find the solution here on this sub by searching, asking questions, or you can see which books talk about that problem in which chapter - and then find those chapters and read them. You can also search to see if there are any scientific studies on it.

The benefit of this approach is that you only spend time learning what matters to you right now. You don't spend any time learning stuff which you don't need.

OpinionThink481 · 2026-07-02T12:03:46+00:00

You just need to read the book Daygame Code which has everything you need to know both in terms of conversational seductive skills and in terms of confidence and mindset to be more attractive.

Title	No bs answer where can I find all the information I need about game while practicing?
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