Despite BPers (and women's) wishful thinking "personality" or " human decency " is irrelevant when it comes to women's attraction.

WilliamWyattD · 2021-11-21T00:28:00+00:00

You could have presented some interesting information in a much more nuanced fashion. Instead, you have an overly absolute OP that is basically Blackpill/Incel dogma.

It is OBVIOUS that female mate choice is not 100% decided by male appearance. However, the importance of male appearance to women does seem to have been increasing. Exploring this would have been interesting. Saying that women do not care about male personality or decency at all is silly.

Ruben_the_Fish · 2021-11-21T00:43:10+00:00

So the hottest guy I ever met will appear before me, murder my cat and eat it raw, and I am supposed to overlook all that because Hawt?

Gerpstarg · 2021-11-21T01:11:37+00:00

I am reading a lot of this redpill/bluepill/redpill crap and I agree with some things but I have to say that you guys out here have a very skewed perception of dating and male/female interaction in general.

First, you go on Tinder, get frustrated and build your entire worldview based on your dating app experience. Dating apps do not equate to real life, yes on Tinder only top 1% super attractive men get the pussy, but dating apps are only used by a small portion of women and men, real life is very different.

In real life, average guys easily get average girls and real life dating is less looks-based and more based on your conversation skills / actions / behaviour / you ability to make jokes. In real life chubby anime neckbeards who are funny and nerdy could easily get the same girls would only date GigaChads on Tinder.

Second, all those TV shows are absolutely not connected to the reality, you should not even consider them real, yes they represent teen girls sexual fantasies and a teen girl would like a 30yr old sexy vampire with abs to hug her, but it does not mean anything. In TV shows american highschool teenagers are having sex 24/7 while being played by 29yr old actors, like Sex Education for example. No one has that much sex in high school in real life, this is nonsence. Those shows are just based on fantasies that have nothing common with reality. Its like watching Harry Potter and complaining about your magic wand not working in real life rofl.

You could easily get sex in highschool with a girl from your class if you want, the thing is - it will be gross, awkward and she will get pregnant. You will be paying child support and she will be a 17yr old single mom. Does it sound sexy? Not so much. You are being sold a fake image of real life and you complain about real life not being like a dream of a horny teenager. I know many girls who had sex at 13,14,15,16 yrs old, all of them ended up in a very sad situation - with a child from god only knows who, being ashamed by their parents, being in financially sad situation, failin at school and the guy is in even bigger trouble. But then you have a bunch of 16 yr old guys who are being told by the Hollywood that if they dont have sex 3 times a week like in Sex Education, then they are virgins and loosers lol. And we have half a reddit of frustrated young boys who think they are loosers and who get salty and get into all those retarded red pill communities that are just one big dellusional circle jerk.

You could get a girlfriend EASILY, if you are 18, you have a job, rent a place, go out and ask out a girl that if the same sexual value as you. If you are fat and have acne and you are trying to get a skinny girl with a pretty face, all you need to do is - stop, look in the mirror and either become more sexy be loosing weight and eating less crap to fix your skin or lower your standards and date fat girls with acne. I have seen fat guys, broke guys, short guys, crippled guys, ugly guys, ALL getting girls and all having kids and all getting married and loving each other. Can you get a 10/10 while being fat and short? No? Can you get a chubby short chick that is same sexual value as you? YES. Do you really need to have sex 5 times a week as a 18yr old? NO YOU DONT DUDE, you have been watching too much netflix.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-11-21T01:13:32+00:00

Yes and no

For the men at either end of the looks bell curve, looks are pretty much everything. Those guy on the lower end will face challenges most people can’t conceive of. The men on the upper ends benefit from a halo effect that is almost mind-bogglingly strong

But for the vast majority of men who reside in the 4-7 zone - the ones who pass a girls looks threshold even if they’re not movie stars - personality can hop them up a couple pegs. Or take them down a few

LittyKitsune · 2021-11-21T01:16:45+00:00

It 100% plays a role in the kind of women who will be attracted to you.

Ironically enough the idea that the women who are getting swept up by the asshole Chads are upstanding characters themselves is in itself evidence of halo effect.

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Salt_Mathematician24 · 2021-11-21T00:36:57+00:00

Attraction can be random and out of control but actually having respect for someone and wanting to spend time with them then its shared values and interests.

Attraction can be killed in the long term if you dont actually like someone as a person.

ItIsnt0verYet · 2021-11-21T00:42:30+00:00

Boxing people is going to make you more miserable than you already are. Of course physical attraction carries some importance but what women find attractive differs pretty drastically. And personality is important unless the only goal is to fuck.

Mimoxs · 2021-11-21T00:42:48+00:00

Personality includes being boring. Boring people are... Boring. They repel people. Women definitely do reject people for being boring. Like I get what you're getting at and you're right that being nice isn't really important but that's very different from saying personality doesn't matter

Trp also proposes that personality matters, just not in the same way. "Beta" "alpha" and all that (the male equivalent of astrology obsessed women) is literally a collection of personality traits

Edward Cullen... sneaks into a teen girl to watch her sleep in the dead of the night

Man maybe I should have been into the twilight series....

catchtowards12345 · 2021-11-21T01:20:50+00:00

No incel content. I won't ban since you presented it well.

Wildhouse83 · 2021-11-21T01:24:05+00:00

Ted Bundy couldn't agree more.

Zerofication · 2021-11-21T01:37:51+00:00

Is being attractive sufficient to get women to have sex with you? ABSOLUTELY. Is it however sufficient to get women to love you? ABSOLUTELY NOT. Good looks is a resource just like money, it makes certain aspects of your life easier, but that doesn't mean you're doomed with little of it. Is there any problem in life money can't solve? You bet there is, it's just not being rich that makes you believe money can solve everything, but once you get there, you start seeing the other side of the coin, and the same applies to good looks with dating/marriage.

calfshrug · 2021-11-21T00:31:08+00:00

Appearance is very important. It’s the reason why guys like Jeffrey Dahmer are so effective

reLincolnX · 2021-11-21T00:47:02+00:00

Not true. Charm, wit, and a good sense humor are all personality traits that well make you successful with women. Being able to carry an intelligent conversation and an overall happy demeanor help, too.

Master-Edward-3 · 2021-11-21T01:42:58+00:00

Well I don’t give women anything of the sort with a halo effect. I know that the more attractive a woman is the more likely self centered, deceitful, mischievous and or wicked overall she is.

Which should come as experience to men that are thinking with the right head. Some of the heaviest stinkiest mental sack of shit women also look the greatest. Although not always the constant case it’s likely the case most of the time. For example..

The Stacy is a lot more selfish and not giving a crap about anyone less than Becky. Becky might be selfish and mean too but usually would pale in comparison to her pal Stacy. Hot women believe and most times correctly that they sadly can get away with more wrongdoing because of the halo effect from men or rather the wrong head effect.

Title	Despite BPers (and women's) wishful thinking "personality" or " human decency " is irrelevant when it comes to women's attraction.
Author	reLincolnX
Upvotes	8
Comments	59
Date	November 21, 2021 12:17 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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