So I met a guy about a month ago and he did show interest at first and asked me out on a proper date.

The first date was really nice, we had flowing conversation and we were laughing and I felt some sort of chemistry.

He did pay for the date and texted me when I got home. We scheduled another date three days later.

The second date went really well too except for one thing. My horny and tipsy self (we shared a bottle of wine at the restaurant) invited him over to my place and we ended up sleeping together and he spent the night. I didnt stay to cuddle with him when I woke up I got up directly and took and shower and prepared my coffee. He left right after after kissing me goodbye and telling me he would see me soon. So I thought to myself ok may be I didnt follow the rules by sleeping with him but it will be okay. Its not.

I didnt hear back from the guy for three days after that.

I regressed and proceeded to ask him out on a park date later this week, to which he answered me that he was pretty busy all week and even had plans the week end. I sent him an oh ok to which he left me on seen.

I didnt hear back from him for the rest of the week. Two days ago I decided to take him off all my social media which in our day and age is a pretty straightforward message.

The guy did like me and was attracted to me but not enough. He only wanted sex and once he got it his interested faded away. Im sure I was gonna hear back for him some time later they always do that, but I dont get breadcrumbed or hit up anymore. If 100% interest is not there since the beginning it will never be. And the fact that he blew me off is a turn off. What kind of woman would I be if I accepted to go on a date with him after he blew me off like that.

I get that he could have had plans or a busy week, but not even a text to say hello or anything is a stretch and that shows lack of interest.

So fds is 100% right. I wont be sleeping anytime soon with a guy until I see commitment and 100% interest, and no more asking men out.

Still learning from my mistakes!