I hate “sex positivity” with all of my heart and soul

Fullofsurprisess · 2020-08-23T17:33:51+00:00

Don't get me wrong, im one to enjoy sex, but these kind of things of tying a woman up or handcuffing just always felt rapey to me...

UnitedHoney · 2020-08-23T17:47:50+00:00

It’s the mimicking of slave-like shit for me 🥴🥴🥴🥴

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-08-23T19:41:22+00:00

Figuratively tying us up wasn't enough for them anymore. Now that we've gotten some rights they want to literally tie us up. Depriving us of sexual satisfaction, orgasm and adequate foreplay wasn't enough sexual abuse for them to enact on use.

sadpourtoujours · 2020-08-23T19:10:56+00:00

Sex positivity should be about learning to enhance each others pleasure, improving your emotional connection during intimacy, etc. Instead it’s been hijacked by the kink community, and also bastardized into “yes sis, be a hoe and screw as many strangers as you want 🤪”. Yuck.

_tinyimp · 2020-08-23T19:04:22+00:00

I guess she’s trying to be funny but it simply isn’t. A lot of these types of jokes wouldn’t land anywhere else but on social media. If anyone said this in person...everyone would stare at them like wtf?

AyemHerself · 2020-08-23T19:50:11+00:00

That girl looks underage...

MalloryDame · 2020-08-23T19:37:06+00:00

This always felt very demeaning to me... Any type of submission feels like that and I would panic if someone so much as held my wrists above my head (has happened and I was terrific, but they stopped once I told them that was NOT cool).

People who say they feel empowered by this - well all the more power to them but I just personally don't see it.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2020-08-23T19:54:27+00:00

It’d demeaning

Title	I hate “sex positivity” with all of my heart and soul
Author	SansaDeservedBetter
Upvotes	48
Comments	18
Date	August 23, 2020 5:29 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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