A couple of weeks ago I went out with a bunch of my co workers to support another one who was doing a gig singing downtown.

My co workers are pretty much all early to mid 20’s. Female.

One asks if I can pick her up on my way. No big deal. Her fiancé is at home and has been drinking so she doesn’t feel like he can drive.

No problem. I pick her up.

Later that night I drop her off. Fiancé still drinking with his buds.

After a few minutes we chat and he gets drunk angry and starts yelling at me about “was it worth it, T?” And getting in my face.

Interesting.

Dude is twice my size. Younger. Fitter ( maybe ?)

But he is in my face because he thinks I’m trying to get the girl.

“Dear dude - I’ve already had your girl, it was a few months ago. You didn’t notice then and you’re not gonna do anything about it now “

That was in my head.

In real life I just got up and stood there as his fiancé ( my co worker) was getting between him and I.

I haven’t moved. I haven’t pushed. I haven’t met him in he stupid chest to chest thing he wanted to do.

So she gives him back her ring.

Lol.

Repeat of “ was it worth it ?” As he goes on and on.

I asked her if she was ok. She nodded. I left.

Gents. Don’t be the guy who has to drink to try to force a confrontation.

It’s weak and sad looking.

Even to a beta who is older than you.

Yes we both lift.

But he is he only one with The beer belly.