This topic comes up all the time. The standard advice is some variation of Dread game, aloofness or refusal.

That advice is sound when compared to the faketalk out of Askmen or Dead bedrooms BUT from time to time when I need to soak the sheets and hear screaming while getting nails dug into my spine....a different approach is needed.

Its something I learned not from men talking around the TRP water cooler, but from women.

Start a fight

Bitches do it all the time. They do it to feel important or loved or to get attention. Most men would never do it out of fear. Most men are afraid of womens emotions. Most men are scared little boys.

So now, sometimes, I do the same as women and relish the act of inciting melodrama. The exact opposite of Billy Beta who will massage feet to avoid conflict. The exact opposite of rational, normal man who doesnt quite understand the point of deliberate provocation. He wonders why women enjoy reality TV which is nothing but emotional violence. I know why and now you do too.

I call her a bitch, just like her mother. Or I tell her lots of women can be her replacement if she keeps whining.

Or tonight, in the middle of so-so sex, I grabbed her face and left tit and asked what deleted text messages I would find on her phone if I looked? Said are you my good girl or bad girl?

Boom. Instant change and the starfish became a porn star. I literally felt her pussy open wide and clamp down while moaning. From something I said

Use emotion and sex gets much much better

I dont mean emotion like..."You are my everything!"

I mean "Fuck me like its the last time, you know, before I move out and start fucking your hot best friend"