The standard of the Family Alpha is so fucking low right now it’s pitiful. The family and I went to the mall and decided to grab lunch at the food court (did anyone else have a flashback to their teenage years reading that?) as someone who keeps their head on a swivel, I start observing everything and everyone around me.

9/10 guys had these nasty guts, shit haircuts, and fucking horrible posture. It was normal to see them sitting with their legs crossed, incapable of holding eye contact, and just generally looking like a bag of smashed weaksauce.

This should NOT be the norm. This is a disgusting trend and epidemic that has hit the Modern day family ‘man’. When did it become acceptable to allow yourself to fall to such depths?!?

Gentlemen, just because the majority of the population accepts this mediocre existence, you need to be better. Do not follow the path, walk your own. These ‘men’ are forcing their wives to fill the leadership role and that’s why a majority of Marriages are shit.

Stop justifying your weaknesses, whether they are physical or mental and just put the work in. Lose the fucking weight, read the damn books, take action.

If you want the most optimal existence, then you need to be your Family’s Alpha, the leader who refuses to conform to the mundane subpar cookie cut role that most others are living.

Set the ‘new’ norm, where fathers are fit, intelligent, owning their shit, and leading their family.

EDIT - Don't just refuse to lower your standard because everyone else is, but also continue to raise it.