Trigger Warning: Discussion of Fapping and Porn / TMI
I've been on this path for several months now.
One of the biggest changes I've gone through is completely stopping fapping and porn. Like most other guys, I started both when I discovered the internet. Throughout dating, I did both. When I got married, the frequency waxed and waned depending on how the marriage was going. In a particular part of my marriage, when I had a back injury and was a BP bitch, I would use the crutch of porn and fapping daily.
I recovered from my back injury, got back into shape. But I still kept doing the porn and fapping. That is, until about 2 years ago, I saw this video from Gary Wilson.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU
After I saw the video, I told myself that I would do it much less. And the frequency decreased. But it still continued, just less often. I was often overcome by really powerful urges.
Finally, when I got introduced to the Red Pill, I decided once and for all to leave the porn and fapping behind. I think it was Athol Kay's chapter about pumping your wife full of semen that convinced me.
And I've done pretty much stopped for 2 months, with a rare relapse. It was surprisingly easy. Especially because I was having more regular sex due to RP strategies and outlook.
Now, I just feel so much better. I feel rock hard like a hammer, and my wife can't help but notice. Sometimes in the past, if she got in the mood and then we didn't go at it right away, I would lose interest. But now, it's like I'm ready for action anytime, anywhere. I've also added in kegel exercises on my commute to work every day, and I feel like they've made a huge difference in sexual power. (There are a few really good guides to kegel workouts online. I'll let you find them yourself.)
Another thing I notice now. Before I stopped fapping/porn, a lot of the improvement I saw with RP just happened with my wife. But once I stopped fapping/porn, it's like the women can literally smell me when I walk in.
For example, we went to a Superbowl party with a bunch of friends last night, and the host wife, who is a good friend of my wife, came up to me right at the beginning and gave me this huge hug. She pressed her rather large breasts against me inappropriately and held on for way too long. Later, she kept on touching me on the arm the whole night. And when I left, she leaned up and gave me a kiss on the cheek. She has never done anything like this before. Now, I'm not going to do anything with this, because I don't shit where I eat (and her husband is a decent guy). At the same time, it felt so good. And it was like a dread game on my wife that I didn't even have to run. I can't prove that attention from other women is completely related to nofap/noporn, but it seems like it's happened at the same time.
TLDR: No Porn, No Fap has delivered positive results with sex and confidence with women.
[EDIT: I'm posting this here because I'm coming to the conclusion that porn is antithetical to Red Pill]
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