Hey, I've been reading the red pill and married red pill for a while now and I just wanted to ask for advice about how I should act in certain situations that I find myself in quite regularly.

Tl;dr:

  1. What should I reply if a girl calls me a nerd?
  2. How to deal with passive-aggressive friends of people I like?
  3. How to tell people that they're wrong/should I tell people that they're wrong?

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I'm applying to Oxford University and studying a fair bit to make sure that I accomplish my goals, additionally, debating is one of my favourite hobbies. I'm athletic and around a 7 or 8. What should I do if a girl calls me a nerd or tells me "wow I wish I had the motivation you have". If this happens over text, I usually agree and amplify by sending the nerd emoji as a reply but this happens so regularly (I often have several of my girls tell me something similar every day) that I would like to ask for some advice from guys that have more experience than me.

One of my girls' best friends has quite a toxic personality and is often passive-aggressive, I usually just deflect it and stay cool by completely ignoring it but sometimes one of her other friends mentions that she should cut the shit and it always ends up in an argument (I usually don't participate, messing with my girls' friend is a lost cause). Whenever she is criticized she says things like "I know you have no faults" what would be a good response to that?

This is something that happens quite often as well. I'm having a conversation with someone and they're spouting obvious bs e.g. "No one has ever died from smoking pot". I usually tend to tell them that they're wrong (one of my hobbies is debating so I would actually like to keep telling people that they're wrong but preferably make sure that they don't feel like they have to defend their shit position to prevent losing face) an example response to that statement from me would be "I've heard that while healthy people do not die from overdosing on weed, smoking pot can be lethal in the long-term as it is a risk factor for lung (Aldington et al., 2008) and laryngeal (Bhattacharyya et al., 2015) cancer). Sometimes I just ignore it if I believe that it will lead to the other person being embarrassed or offended though. How should I respond to someone spouting bs?