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[–]bsutansaltRed Beret[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
Smells like a troll. Removed.
[–]BobbyPeru11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
1) What is your evidence she’s cheating?
2) Never abandon the residence
[–]hystericalbonding15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She had a 15 minute conversation with someone when he wasn't home.
He's obsessed with the idea of her cheating. Maybe she is, maybe not. It doesn't matter.
Plus, she's doing things that he doesn't like, and she isn't showing much gratitude for the improvements that he has made, which are clear violations of his covert contract with her.
It's much easier to have someone deliver divorce papers than to state your expectations. Hell, even the divorce papers are a covert contract!
I’ve read about wives turning things around after they’ve been served,
[–]TheUltimateShitTest 1 points1 points1 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
From his first post:
I didn't plan on fucking her for a few weeks after the trip in case Maui Chad had a disease or something. I decide to initiate anyway on the first night because I'm horny despite all of this. Low and behold she's got a shaved pussy with 4 day old stubble. She never shaves her pussy.
[–]Thomaskingo 1 points1 points1 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
He should've appreciated the positive influence, that Chad had on her.
[–]dandar46002 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's not that positive if there is stubble.
Having said that I can see why she shaved going to Hawaii. Beach, bikini, hair sticking out. My wife always waxes before we go to the beach.
[–]bigOlBeta[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I won’t be abandoning my kids. It’s not the 99 circumstantial things that point to the cheating, it’s the complete and utter emotional disconnect. It’s unmistakable.
There was an incident 6 months ago where her cousin made a drunken slip about her dating other people
[–]BobbyPeru4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I’m more interested in the shaved pussy thing /u/TheUltimateShitTest mentioned
Did you ask her about it? What did she say?
[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Devils Advocate: She was in Hawaii. Maybe she had a bush (nasty) that showed from her swimsuit.
She clearly isnt attracted enough to OP to groom herself, but if she got there, saw some pubs popping out the sides like sasquatch she might have hit it with a razor real quick.
[–]-FIVE-SKIN-3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Her pussy isn't shaved. I'm still picking hair out of my teeth
[–]rasgaroht6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
isn't one of the rules in this case something like : "don't leave your home"
[–]bigOlBeta[S] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I’m just giving her the night to cry it out alone. I plan on staying in the home with my children.
[–]creating_my_life14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely not. If she wants to cry she can get her cheating-shaved-pussy a fucking hotel room. NEVER GIVE UP GROUND.
[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If youre going to avoid 100% of the lessons, advice, and strategies here, you can stop coming.
No one wants to read the fanfiction of your garbage fire of a marriage
[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your weak as fuck. Never give up the marital home.
[–]AlphadustBeta5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Fortunately I am not experienced in these matters, but it seems to me you rationalized an excuse for leaving. I hope for you, your kids and, yes, your wife, that you do become a better self. Maybe that long stretch of sobriety will help you determine what you want.
[–]drty_prRed Beret3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's your house. Why would younot go home to it?
[–]Alphaphux 1 points1 points1 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Why do I feel like you’re trolling all of us?
[–]AustralianArm1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Feels a bit off to me as well.
I don't think this dude has internalised anything from the sidebar. Or OP is a blue pill troll.
[–]InChargeManRed Beret0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He has been posting his dear diary BS for a while though, it would have to have been a pretty long con.
[–]AustralianArm0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's not as if all those BP deadroom folk have anything else to do with their time
[–]simbarlionRed Beret2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I remember oily balls.
This move will at least flush out her true intentions. Try to keep a straight head on for all of your interactions from this point on.
Let her do the talking. Don't accuse. Ask her what she sees in her future.
Best of luck.
[–]thatboyjeff0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just dont get where her going into the backyard means something is up.
I also feel like we're missing more of the back story. Guess I gotta go through your post history, but I wont, because something feels off..
[–]screechhaterRed Beret0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey man congrats on your direction
I can only imagine the thoughts racing in you mind with the lie that finally did it for you
Stay strong and don' let her manipulate you. And, she is fucking someone else, from all you have written
Good luck
[–]chachaChad0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, good for you that you decided to do something even if that something was burn it all to the fucking ground in a messy display of childish emotion.
[–]IndependentKirk0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I am divorced and went through the whole "Is she cheating? Is she not" (she was) thing that you have been going through. Luckily I had no children with her so it was a clean cut. You have thrown an awkward poorly timed grenade into the relationship. You can at least hang your hat on that simple act of will and take the last remaining shred of dignity that it will give you and begin to build a new life. For myself, I held onto my principles that divorce was wrong, I made a commitment, and we could work it out. She left me. I should have dumped her whore ass at the curb when I discovered the cheating but I didn't and it really affected me for a long time. So good for you, at least.
But you really need to cut out the substance abuse.
[–]bigOlBeta[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not a troll, just slow at implementing
I’m a shit head, a douchebag, a dumbass, and an asshole with the same problems that everyone else has
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