So here it goes. I've been a beta faggot for much of my existence. I've swallowed the pill earlier this year after learning of my wife's emotional affair. I've been reading the prerequisites (1 X NMMNG, 1 x WISNIFG, 1 x The Rationale Male, 1 x The Way of the Superior Male).
I've been lifting and watching what I stuff down my filthy pie hole and lost almost 40lbs since February, with another 30-40lbs to go. I was a fat fuck who enjoyed eating twinkies and pizzas while guzzling down on Pepsi. I've completely changed the way I eat, and it's starting to show. My lifts are as follows: BP x 185lb, Squat x 225lb, DL x 225lb, OHP x 105lb. I still have a lot more work to do and improvement to go.
I'm on my second marriage, heading to what looks like an imminent divorce. I've been married for almost 2 years. I was the drunk captain for the majority of this sh*t show of a relationship. My inability to lead my family is what has led me to this place. There are no excuses, I'm responsible for this mess. I own that, and I will get better. I have no other choice. We have no children of our own, but we are a blended family (I have 2, she has 1). I own the house, as I purchased it before the marriage. I make twice what she makes (I bring in 120k, while she brings in 60-65k). She sucks royally with money, I'm the more prudent one with the finances.
Which leads me to the main event. She recently asked for a divorce, and I responded with "well if that's what you want, that's what you'll get". She of course has no money saved. Her parents who live 30 mins away, don't want to take her in. Her grandparents don't want to take on the responsibility either. So she's "stuck" here in a spare bedroom until there's movement on the legal front. Of course, she wants "help to get back on her feet". After reading some posts today, yea screw that. Why in the world do I have to bend over backwards financially to facilitate this? She has been texting me non-stop that she has a feeling that "I will kick her out" and she will be left homeless. I just STFU, and said simply reply with we will talk about this some other time. In the meantime, she's "petrified" about her fate. She has even at one point mentioned that if we divorce it will be business as usual for me, implying that I have all the leverage and I don't lose anything. I just reply with yup. I've talked to several attorneys and have money to pull the plug on this fiasco, but at the same time I don't need to make this any easier for her, after all she is the one who wants this.
This shit sucks...I need guidance, where the hell do I go from here?