Question about OI. So last night, my wife and I had what I thought was a great night. Ordered in some food, and watched a great movie. Throughout the night I was pulling her in close, rubbed her mound about, etc. Well she didn't really make any pleasure noise at all, or move much to indicate sex was on the table.fair enough.

It was time for bed and I did a harder initiation, after which she said she's too tired. I simply said, "okay, night baby", kissed her in the forehead and rolled over.

She said "let's cuddle, thats good to do when tired", and I simply said "good night. She asked me to not be mad, and I simply stated that I'm not (I was definitely cool and calm throughout this whole thing)

What do you do late at night like this when you can't simply leave the room? Do I initiate on the morning? Wait for her to initiate? I'm trying to get over my OI issues.

This morning, she indicated to me that she is feeling sick and won t be going to the function she was supposed to and woll stay home. Not sure if this is covert on her part.