I have been on my red pill journey for about 4 months, and can honestly say its improved every facet of my life.
Yesterday my long term SO(5 years, bought a home 1.5 years ago) came home from a short business trip and told me she cheated and it was the second time. I wasn't shocked as Monday night she was no contact which is very un-common for her.
First time was a year ago, at the same event with the same guy and at the time i was a huge faggot(fairly fit, run a business, zero frame, no drive or vision.). Since going RP my relationship was improving steadily and i thought we where both happier people.
She did it again Monday night and came clean Tuesday(told me about both times then) when she got home, said she wants to be honest as she want our relationship back and she will do anything. (just words.)
I feel as though you guys have prepared me for this moment and i held frame better than I ever have in my life while she was a mess, and just took the information and left.
Last night i returned home around Midnight and she was still up crying and i chose to sleep in the guest room. She again said "Ill do anything to fix this, and if i could take it back i would."
This is just a thank you for helping me be ready for the enviable, and handle it with grace. I told her late lastnight that she can keep trying in the relationship but i have no plan too. But if im going to cheat i would tell her first, but I plan to list the house on the market in 30 days(im a realtor). Get it sold and start my life over with nothing but dignity.