Hey I know I can't control my Partner, but she is very slobby. Won't do her dishes, clean up her clothes, and leaves little messes everywhere basically. I will not clean up after her though. I am a clean freak, always have been, so I always do the majority of cleaning, which is fine with me, but I will not clean up after her.
Anyways I know I can't control her and I just started this journey last week and got through a couple books and read alot of posts on here so I don't want to go rambo.
Is my best course of action to just go to my ltp everyday and go hey clean up your cloths/dishes/ect please. If she says no or shit tests ignore and leave it until the next day or do you bros have any other advice worth sharing.