FR: Catch & Release

The_Litz · 2017-01-24T06:53:21+00:00

Good outcome independence. You took a risk, got nowhere and did not miss a beat.

You did not DEER your marital status, you gave her some cocky AM by suggesting you go out for drinks as friends.

GargantuaBlarg29 · 2017-01-24T13:20:54+00:00

No need to play it differently. The goal isn't to always achieve a number. It's simply to polarize the girl one way or the other. And you did.

saint_chalet · 2017-01-23T22:43:13+00:00

I wouldn't have done anything differently, given her preference. You didn't plead with her, you moved on. That, in and of itself, is a win. You proved abundance to yourself

stonepimpletilists · 2017-01-24T14:09:10+00:00

I like daybang. old man conversation is a great tool. Women build rapport and comfort through words. Don't let that dinner date fool you, most of the time, she has to talk herself into it.

Only difference is I would have her run her mouth.

Beyond that, honest, OI, needs more pleasurable denyability. If she would want a married guy or not, she still needs to believe she isn't a home wrecker, and I don't know if you gave her a way to hamster it.

trp_ocd · 2017-01-24T14:22:36+00:00

I disagree with my brethren you making a good move by ditching.

Your opportunity to have her qualify herself is when she said she wasn't like "that".

Young lady, you're not like "what"? And she would say she wouldnt date married men, it's not a date, just a drink, yadda yadda...

If she says she doesn't want to fuck you, she has already given thought to fucking you. She was into you, ring and all, because she continued to fish the hook with compliments.

Improve yourself by seeing opportunities to have her qualify her statement to you, especially when it's turning sexual... because she already imagined it.

redmountainpill · 2017-01-24T15:26:23+00:00

"I want a relationship too. What kind of guy do you think I am?"

Something along those lines to keep her engaged. Just keep her talking. Also, nothing wrong with flirting and not getting a number. If you don't want to cheat, abundance mentality can be achieved just by conversing.

downvotesanimals · 2017-01-23T22:37:33+00:00

I wouldn't be trying to fuck other women if I was married, but that's just me.

Nyquil-Junkie · 2017-01-24T02:34:58+00:00

Sometimes these topics make my skin crawl.

Title	FR: Catch & Release
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	4
Comments	42
Date	January 23, 2017 10:32 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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