This question is for those that are divorced and have kids (though I welcome answers from anyone.)

My kids are my life right now. I love them dearly and I enjoy spending as much time with them as possible. The separation/divorce is moving full steam ahead. I intend to file for full primary custody based on the actions of my wife. I don't see the courts leaning in my favor though. Based on other guys I know and their circumstances.

Once you realized that you would have to split time, how did you handle it? I hate the idea of not reading them a book and not tucking them in every night.