Nature is on your side. At one point, she was hot for you. She liked your smell and your vision. Your game worked with her, really well. So well that she wanted to fuck you, and to marry you. She wanted to follow you. She thought you were all that.
Then, something happened. You got too comfortable. You mated with her, and produced offspring. For a while, the babies were all over her, she was overstimulated and didn’t want you to touch her. She seemed to know what needed to be done, for the babies, and you didn’t. So you deferred to her. You said, “whatever you need me to do.” Sound familiar?
Then it spiraled down from there. You lost the reins. You started taking orders, and you lost your purpose. You lost value and gained weight. You did whatever she asked, but she was never satisfied. She lost interest in sex. She started complaining more, and nagging.. She shut her legs tight, and you had no idea why.
Then you realized. You stumbled onto MRP, and you awoke from your long slumber. You realized it wasn’t your wife who lost her sex drive, but you who lost sex appeal. You hit the gym. You started on the sidebar. As your physical frame gained strength, so did your mental frame. You lost weight, you gained focus. Until finally, you rediscovered your vision, and she took notice.
She softened. Shit tests became comfort tests. She started to caress your chest and arms. She breathed you in, and opened her legs for you. She started wearing outfits to bed for you to peel away. Your found her breaking point. You passed her SMV, just by a little, and her juices flowed again.
I am a year in, probably 85% committed. I have lost 20 pounds and gained muscle. I have stopped being angry and indecisive. I have read 5 sidebar books, and had numerous epiphanies. I have regained my vision and frame to a degree, but I have a long way to go. Six weeks ago, I found her breaking point.
But I made a mistake. As the sex increased, the motivation to improve decreased, and I could feel my frame slipping away with my resolve. Within two weeks, she shied away again. I had barely broken through, so I didn’t have to slip back far to be under the ice again. I realized what was happening, and got back on track. Making decisions, counting calories, pushing plates. Now I am back in the hot zone, and I will not relent. I want to see how hot this can get.
Keep at it gentlemen. Maybe you are just starting and you have a long road back to awesome, but keep at it. Maybe you have made big gains, and she is all over you like she was in the beginning, but keep at it. Maybe you just reached her breaking point, and she is surrendering to you again, finally. Keep at it. No matter where you are, just keep going. This road never ends. Just start walking, keep going, and walk further. There is no end to the journey -- so don’t forget to have fun along the way!