Even if you don’t watch porn, you inhale it as you live. Soft porn images are everywhere from on your apps, to tv, to movies, to the billboard advertisements on the streets to the games your kids play. It’s unescapable.

Often men consume this by choice, going back to it with a purpose. Women are often forced to consume it, even the ones that don’t want to.

It absolutely does cause mental illness, And no one is talking about it. There is a lot of science behind this. It’s well documented scientifically that hours of exposure to explicit material (not just porn any explicit material) is correlated with reduced gray matter in the prefrontal cortex. This is the part of the brain that among other things is responsible for impulse control and rational decision making - basically what differentiates is from animals.

As you see more and more men shooting schools, murdering their wife and kids, raping their sister in law, etc etc. the link is there, both with common sense and with documented science. Why isn’t anyone talking about it?

I tend to at least do my part and vote with my wallet. If I see a brand or a company over sexualizing women, and girls, I stop buying from them. I sure hope more women start doing the same. And spread the word to your pick me friends And family. Talk to them about this.

Obviously I would never date a man that has a habit of scrolling through soft porn on Reddit or elsewhere. (The last one turned out to be a Pedophile and a narcissistic abuser). But I wish there was a sure fire way of knowing without ever even dating them at all.