So I am dating a girl that doesnt shave her asshair.

I told her to wax it. She said she will go to the waxing salon but after a month she still doesnt have made an apointment. She says I should shave mine too plus my armpit hair then.

Also she doesnt give blowjobs and says I should lick her pussy too. She says she needs to be stimulated by fingers or tongue in order to cum.

I am kind of confused, in theory her reasoning sounds reasonable, like why shoukd she do something that I am not comfortable doing?

But still I feel kind of disrespected by her behaviour.

So what is the take on this situation?