I don't let anyone tell me how to live my life. [Method]

NormalAndy · 2019-03-17T10:58:00+00:00

Well, me first- for sure. But still, I have kids and a wife- they are my assets and I want to look after them. Friends too.

It’s to my benefit to be surrounded by good people so I like to maintain that.

So be sure to watch and listen to others. It might be to your benefit.

simbarlion · 2019-03-17T09:07:40+00:00

I miss the good old days when a man showed respect to those who deserve it, and earnt it through his actions.

Too much me me me here, this is a mental ego post that rivals a tweeny posting a selfie.

Show some respect.

framelessglasses · 2019-03-17T04:20:19+00:00

Feel better?

You might consider offering some, "how I got there" in your travelogue.

Edit: OP don't double down your faggotry and remove this post. Own it, it's important.

RPeed · 2019-03-17T08:35:31+00:00

It’s a mindset bro, I can dig it. In what way does this vary from your original thought process?

Also, when can I expect my dick pic?

InChargeMan · 2019-03-17T13:51:29+00:00

Said the guy spending the night at a motel.

amalgamator · 2019-03-17T14:05:27+00:00

Be wary - there is a difference between a collaborate leader and a selfish dictator douchebag. A captain leads by example and takes into account the morale of the 1st mate and crew.

Additionally, It takes strength to hold onto yourself and your values in the face of invalidation without using weak techniques like withdrawal (being butthurt).

Persaeus · 2019-03-18T20:44:26+00:00

sometimes i think the quality of a post can be determined by how much dick waving it engenders. by this standard; this post is standout.

with the very unhealthy exception of

I have no expectation of others to live by my own personal values.

i have pretty much lived most of my adult life per this method. i will tell you that results are a very mixed bag. as long as you have the competence and drive, gotta say being a

Sociopathy, Anti-social personality disorder, Narcissistic personality disorder

to quote chuckfrank works pretty darn well at work. big-corp likes bulldozers that get the job done no matter the feelz count.

outside of that, you're not going to have a lot of long-term friends/GFs that are either not using you (the "useful asshole" to quote RZD), or are very thick skinned and probably sociopaths themselves. that's not to say you can't get girls/friends easy because this type of personality is attractive. it's just your relentless me first wears people out.

i've known several "natural alphas" in my life. men women want to fuck and other men want to be. i would say the single universal trait they all have is magnanimity. they pulled this off while most definitely acting on their own will; and not being particularly open to the influence of others that was counter to their own values.

the key is you have to really value others while not devaluing yourself. for me, whose natural tendency is utter self-centered-ness , i consciously think about how i can add value to those around me. for someone whose tendency is always to please others, the self talk you prescribe is probably correct.

HornsOfApathy · 2019-03-17T10:33:23+00:00

Why would you write this with little to no context? Something tells me your need to write this to validate your own ego is.... immature emotionally at best.

Good luck Mr. Bigdick McEgofag.

doubleoseddon · 2019-03-17T22:31:54+00:00

Read OP in THIS voice: https://youtu.be/-ZYlXEUo-Lo

Grundlestiltskin · 2019-03-17T11:54:04+00:00

How edgy.

Tldr: You're not the boss of me!

chuckfrank · 2019-03-17T08:10:03+00:00

Dude, if you need to say "it's only MY values that matter," or "I can't live by everyone else's values," or "I don't owe anything to anyone," you need help. What you describe here is a lack of empathy, and it's a sign of low emotional intelligence. It is also a symptom of certain behavioral disorders, including Autism, Sociopathy, Anti-social personality disorder, Narcissistic personality disorder and Historonic personality disorder.

If you feel the need to write something like this online, and make these pronouncements, you need to go and find someone to talk to.

Lifting, grooming, and the other levels of dread aren't sufficient. You need to engage in some talk therapy, and get yourself some help.

These can be pre-criminal thoughts.

Srsly, dude, in a social society, with civic norms, and expectations, and one that provides tremendous support, institutional, educational and otherwise, these are regressive and dangerous thoughts. coming from a point of love, go get some help. Talk to someone.

BobbyPeru · 2019-03-17T05:50:10+00:00

Good on you! This is an important step to reaching human understanding. Many don't get to your point. Keep going. There is so much more. The ancients wrote on this extensively, back when people cared about humanity (Red Pill is just another extension of this, the ancients were also mocked and ridiculed, just like RP). In modern times it is not a thing to be upheld and understood. Today I would say more like, "How can you help your neighbor clean up their yard when yours is a trash heap? " Take care of yourself first. Then you can fully give of yourself to others. Now, I'm off to take care of my own yard. Thank you, I needed that.

fuckmrp · 2019-03-17T14:50:10+00:00

Did you convince yourself?

paterfamilias78 · 2019-03-17T06:45:22+00:00

Marcus Aurelius FTW.

gixxerthouguy · 2019-03-19T16:50:16+00:00

I get what the OP is saying, but I think it's more suited to TRP than MRP.

[deleted] · 2019-03-17T18:25:28+00:00

Are you sure you didn’t take half a RP?

Title	I don't let anyone tell me how to live my life. [Method]
Author	DownVoteForDickPic
Upvotes	23
Comments	31
Date	March 17, 2019 3:53 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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