This is a bit of a FR and it has a few questions at the end.
The other day I was driving the family home and my car just stalls out at a stop sign .1 miles from my house. It's a 2017 lease and shouldn’t be having any problems as I just got the oil changed etc. Then I find out that when I got the oil changed they “fixed” something which caused the car to basically disable itself if it senses there is something wrong and I could damage the vehicle. At first, I was pissed off that my vehicle wasn’t working but in retrospect it could have prevented something much worse happening on the highway.
It's a feature, not a bug even though it inconvenienced my Sunday.
Women are similar to newer model cars in that they have really annoying features that can inconvenience you and annoy you but are pretty beneficial if you leverage them. Women are bitches, this is a fact. Some women happen to be uber-bitches and they sometimes get labeled with terms like BPD/NPD ect. I don’t think it wise or prudent to allow our conversation to go there (unless the mods are OK with it) because we are talking about how men are to behave, not women. However, the higher the number, the more BPD/NPD tendencies they display. Lets just say the woman has a high level of bitchiness and is up there on the crazy scale, let’s give her an 8. So instead of HB8, it’s a CB8 (crazy bitch 8).
I am married to a CB8 (maybe even 9) and I can tell you, it's a feature not a bug. Having said that, it's a really difficult feature that most men will not have the frame to try and figure out. I honestly don’t have the frame yet either but I am working on it and making daily progress.
Normally when women get bitchy, I just ignore or do whatever to de-escalate her bitchiness. It's getting kind of boring (easy), and sometimes it will extend the bitchiness throughout the day. I will throw in light AA and AM, but I am not trying to get her to be more bitchy or perpetuate her bitchiness. My CB8 has been a nice little slut and did whatever the fuck I wanted so in response I got cocky. Instead of STFU, I added in some pressure flips and ramped her up even more. I couldn’t get her to STFU and walk away so I had to actually go be busy and do stuff to avoid her following me around the house shit testing me. I wasn’t angry, but I was getting frustrated and that is the cousin of anger. I knew I was close to breaking frame and needed to stop escalating. I went out to my truck before I said something stupid and made a phone call. The person on the other end told me to STFU and stop escalating. I listened.
It was the equivalent of someone pushing me in the chest over and over, I keep telling them to stop and they refused. After they push harder and harder they shove me a bit and I have to catch my balance. Instead of walking away, I fired a right straight and crack them in the jaw. Now shit has escalated, and I really didn’t want to but I felt compelled. Typically, a right straight will cause the other person to re-evaluate their decisions, but sometimes it doesn’t work that way and now you have to actually fight them until they can’t continue or stop on their own volition. That was the situation I found myself in yesterday but obviously non-physical. I should have walked away sooner, but I was having fun with it.
In my situation the shit test turned into a bit of a comfort test. It was hard to recognize because it was so shitty. I offered comfort and then went on my way and remained busy. I got the vehicle towed and was given a rental. I took the kids and we rode bikes to a playground. It took about 3-4 hours before the feelz shifted and my attention was desired and the attitude had softened. Dinner was set on the table and all was well again. 3 hours previous, CB8 stormed upstairs to go lay in bed and cry.
Then before you know it, I am fucking her face (her request not mine).
My only concern is that I didn’t give her enough dick last night and I would have to deal with the bitchy residue from the crazy I didn’t fuck out of her. I might have to invest in some boner pills if I am going to go down this road. I fucked her again this morning in hopes it keeps the bitchiness under control (for my kids sake).
If you happen to have a CB7 or higher in your life, do you ever purposely make her bitchy? I mainly did it for fun (practice) and to see how crazy sex would get at night. How dangerous is this and what are the repercussions?