It’s a feature not a bug

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April 8, 2019
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This is a bit of a FR and it has a few questions at the end.

The other day I was driving the family home and my car just stalls out at a stop sign .1 miles from my house. It's a 2017 lease and shouldn’t be having any problems as I just got the oil changed etc. Then I find out that when I got the oil changed they “fixed” something which caused the car to basically disable itself if it senses there is something wrong and I could damage the vehicle. At first, I was pissed off that my vehicle wasn’t working but in retrospect it could have prevented something much worse happening on the highway.

It's a feature, not a bug even though it inconvenienced my Sunday.

Women are similar to newer model cars in that they have really annoying features that can inconvenience you and annoy you but are pretty beneficial if you leverage them. Women are bitches, this is a fact. Some women happen to be uber-bitches and they sometimes get labeled with terms like BPD/NPD ect. I don’t think it wise or prudent to allow our conversation to go there (unless the mods are OK with it) because we are talking about how men are to behave, not women. However, the higher the number, the more BPD/NPD tendencies they display. Lets just say the woman has a high level of bitchiness and is up there on the crazy scale, let’s give her an 8. So instead of HB8, it’s a CB8 (crazy bitch 8).

I am married to a CB8 (maybe even 9) and I can tell you, it's a feature not a bug. Having said that, it's a really difficult feature that most men will not have the frame to try and figure out. I honestly don’t have the frame yet either but I am working on it and making daily progress.

Normally when women get bitchy, I just ignore or do whatever to de-escalate her bitchiness. It's getting kind of boring (easy), and sometimes it will extend the bitchiness throughout the day. I will throw in light AA and AM, but I am not trying to get her to be more bitchy or perpetuate her bitchiness. My CB8 has been a nice little slut and did whatever the fuck I wanted so in response I got cocky. Instead of STFU, I added in some pressure flips and ramped her up even more. I couldn’t get her to STFU and walk away so I had to actually go be busy and do stuff to avoid her following me around the house shit testing me. I wasn’t angry, but I was getting frustrated and that is the cousin of anger. I knew I was close to breaking frame and needed to stop escalating. I went out to my truck before I said something stupid and made a phone call. The person on the other end told me to STFU and stop escalating. I listened.

It was the equivalent of someone pushing me in the chest over and over, I keep telling them to stop and they refused. After they push harder and harder they shove me a bit and I have to catch my balance. Instead of walking away, I fired a right straight and crack them in the jaw. Now shit has escalated, and I really didn’t want to but I felt compelled. Typically, a right straight will cause the other person to re-evaluate their decisions, but sometimes it doesn’t work that way and now you have to actually fight them until they can’t continue or stop on their own volition. That was the situation I found myself in yesterday but obviously non-physical. I should have walked away sooner, but I was having fun with it.

In my situation the shit test turned into a bit of a comfort test. It was hard to recognize because it was so shitty. I offered comfort and then went on my way and remained busy. I got the vehicle towed and was given a rental. I took the kids and we rode bikes to a playground. It took about 3-4 hours before the feelz shifted and my attention was desired and the attitude had softened. Dinner was set on the table and all was well again. 3 hours previous, CB8 stormed upstairs to go lay in bed and cry.

Then before you know it, I am fucking her face (her request not mine).

My only concern is that I didn’t give her enough dick last night and I would have to deal with the bitchy residue from the crazy I didn’t fuck out of her. I might have to invest in some boner pills if I am going to go down this road. I fucked her again this morning in hopes it keeps the bitchiness under control (for my kids sake).

If you happen to have a CB7 or higher in your life, do you ever purposely make her bitchy? I mainly did it for fun (practice) and to see how crazy sex would get at night. How dangerous is this and what are the repercussions?

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Title It’s a feature not a bug
Author Daddy_ThunderCock
Upvotes 6
Comments 29
Date 08 April 2019 05:26 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/225355
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/bawket/its_a_feature_not_a_bug/
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[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children) | Copy

Oh no! You've been reported!

1: It's rude, vulgar or offensive

Whatever snowflake tourist reported that: fuck you. The Wednesday Retard is retarded, but he's well within the bounds.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret14 points15 points  (9 children) | Copy

We're probably married to the same woman. Fellow CB8 husband here too.

You're doing exactly what I did, and honestly I think you have a missing piece to your puzzle. Yes, it's fun to escalate and then see what the results will be. Sometimes my wife gets more slutty or submits more. Sometimes she can't turn off the hamster and crazyness. Most of the time, it's a learning game of frame which you have figured out.

I think what you're missing is providing her an escape. She doesn't want to be crazy. But she knows she is. Her hamster does the heavy lifting most of the time to get to that determination. What you have to do is provide that safe escape from her own crazy mind so she can relax into you.

That doesn't mean escalating, STFU, AA, AM as if it were a mind game. When you purposefully make her bitchy, it's a mind game. She may not catch on at first but eventually she is going to realize that you are gaslighting her and she will rebel with the fact that YOU make her this way. That's not good, bro.

You need to be her escape, and not always by fucking the bitchiness out of her. Yes, you will fuck the bitchiness out of her when she deserves it and needs it, but most of the time you are going to move her from emotion to emotion through your strength, humor and game.

My wife now comes to bed every single night knowing that I am her safe place. She has terrible anxiety about every fucking thing in the world. Any misstep or stressor sends her hamster into turbomode. But when she comes to bed now, she takes her clothes off, puts her head on my chest and wraps her hand around my cock. Sometimes I hold her. Sometimes she initiates. Sometimes I do. Sometimes I just rub her shoulders and pull her in tight. Sometimes I face fuck her. Sometimes I give her emotional sex. Sometimes we fall asleep... she is always guessing but she knows that when she gets into bed I will be her escape and she will relax into my frame.

Find that with your woman. Maybe it's something you do nightly with her. Maybe it's on the couch, or in bed, or at the dinner table that she finds her escape daily with you. Then, you can train her to let go even more and escape into your masculinity.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

Yes, you will fuck the bitchiness out of her when she deserves it and needs it, but most of the time you are going to move her from emotion to emotion through your strength, humor and game.

Explain this bit. I fucked her like crazy Friday night and Saturday. We had sex probably 4-5 times before Sunday morning hits. Im downstairs making everyone breakfast, and bitchzilla rolls up and decides she wants to shit test me. At first, it was fun and I was playful. Then it continued all morning and I was less amused as it ramped up. Then I flat out said "You are being a bitch and you need to stop." Usually, this does the trick and she will chill out. She did not, she fucking upped the ante instead. Normally, this does the trick because she doesn't even realize she is being a bitch and I am giving her the chance to stop before it escalates even further.

Back to the pushing analogy. I say to her "If you keep pushing my chest, I am going to stop you." Normally, she doesn't even realize she is bumping into me. Its more like a drunk person at a bar bumping you without realizing it just because they are drunk, its not malicious. If you look directly at them and tell them "Hey, you are bumping into me, you need to stop," they usually will. Not so with my sweet like CB8. She is the type of drunk person who gets pissed at you for calling them out on being a drunk asshole with no sense of personal space.

IRL outside of marriage instances, I would just stare at the person and they usually stop. I rarely have to use forceful overt language to get people to stop shitty behavior.

How do you de-escalate that situation aside from STFU and walking away etc? Also, how does she settle into your frame if she is currently being a bitch? She did escape and relax into my frame, but it took a few hours of ignoring her.

Edit: I forgot to mention the bit about her jumping into bed and grabbing your cock for safety. I don't know why but that gives me all the good feelz. I hope to reach that status one day with my little crazy girl.

Edit 2: Pretty much every night she gets me. Its either on the couch with a glass of wine or in bed etc. She is such an anxious little fuck and generally needs "daddy time" every night similar to your CB8. If I feel like going out I will ask her "Do you need daddy time tonight?" or "Are you feeling needy?". If she admits to needing me, then I see it for what it is and provide comfort. If she says no, I go out and she is almost always waiting in bed for me to come "tuck her in".

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret11 points12 points  (7 children) | Copy

Fuck man – you still don’t get it. Your response is full of needy and judgmental behavior directed at your wife.

Explain this bit. I fucked her like crazy Friday night and Saturday. We had sex probably 4-5 times before Sunday morning hits. Im downstairs making everyone breakfast, and bitchzilla rolls up and decides she wants to shit test me.

Because you didn’t really pass the test, ever. You think you’re great at fucking her worries away 4-5 times before Sunday. That’s not really what the test was about. Fucking your wife is the result of passing a test with humor, strength and game. Your idea of game through your whole post is to dick her down good. Sure, that asserts dominance and that you’re in control of the sex life, but it asserts dominance in no other way.

You’re operating out of the following frame: I’ll ignore your ass, or shoot some witty line back at you, or smirk and slap your ass if you keep this up. You better know who’s boss, woman. I’m the Captain, so get in line, bitch. By the way – the harder you push me in the chest the harder I’m going to push you later in bed.

Do you see what kind of frame that portrays? You’re in phase 2, but still operating in phase 1.

This is a great quote from that post:

And if you're taking a Phase 1 approach in Phase 2, all you're doing is setting your marriage back to a Phase 1 relationship. Your wife didn't want to fuck you or follow your lead, but she liked you. Now she doesn't even like you. …

… not everything coming out of your wife's mouth requires an aggressive counter-response, and is often just anxiety over the behavior you're expressing while building your own frame in Phase 2.

Your wife is not operating in your frame. You

Not so with my sweet like CB8. She is the type of drunk person who gets pissed at you for calling them out on being a drunk asshole with no sense of personal space.

Because you’ve failed to condition your wife to do anything but this. You’re still keeping score, and every time she attempts to subvert your frame you put a little checkmark in this imaginary box that next to it says “Dick her down tonight”. Sure, your wife responds to you fucking her because she needs that also but in addition to that she needs a man that knows can handle her.

IRL outside of marriage instances, I would just stare at the person and they usually stop. I rarely have to use forceful overt language to get people to stop shitty behavior.

So why don’t you do this to your wife? STFU, and look at her with the impression that she’s a 4 year old screaming a tantrum. That’s not an angry look. That’s a look of a man who demands respect with no wiggle room.

I forgot to mention the bit about her jumping into bed and grabbing your cock for safety. I don't know why but that gives me all the good feelz.

Pretty much every night she gets me. Its either on the couch with a glass of wine or in bed etc. She is such an anxious little fuck and generally needs "daddy time" every night similar to your CB8.

We are different, not the same here. Your wife is needy. Mine is not. I will try to explain because you clearly think that fucking your wife is all that she needs. You read MMSLP, right? You may need to re-read the chapters on the importance of some beta in your relationship. Face fucking your wife into submission isn’t going to help you here in the long run. What she needs is to feel safe – that there is no one else in this world that gets her, and you do this by really passing her tests. Does your wife switch from shit test to comfort test in your scenario on the couch with wine? I bet she does. And I bet you fail to recognize it quickly and offer your entire core to her as a man. Instead, you think about how you need to dick her down. This makes your wife a needy woman – and needy women attract needy men. Otherwise, non-needy men do not have the time or day to deal with needy women. We have better shit to do.

My wife on the other hand knows that if the shittiest day ever came along, I’d be there at the end of it as her oak – in bed – with zero judgement. She knows that is a constant in her life – a man of true worth and strength, and she desires that more than anything. That is attractive, and that lets her be vulnerable.

If I were you, I’d try to start being vulnerable in small ways that don’t matter much. Don’t puke shit on her, but keep your intentions authentic. Have fun with it. As an example, I haven’t talked to my mother for 6 months. The other day I told my wife, “Babe, you know what? I miss talking to my mom.” That’s all I said. Did it matter much? No. Did it reveal something human about myself without exposing me? Yes. Keep them short, and sweet. Try it. I guarantee you that you will see a mood shift in your wife like no other and she will begin to be extremely vulnerable again. She might even shit test you on them, but if she likes you it’s unlikely.

If I feel like going out I will ask her "Do you need daddy time tonight?" or "Are you feeling needy?". If she admits to needing me, then I see it for what it is and provide comfort. If she says no, I go out and she is almost always waiting in bed for me to come "tuck her in".

And this is where you fail the test. I can feel the judgement in your statements right here about your wife. Who the fuck says this? Men who cannot lead. You wife wants you to know the answer to that question before you ask it. You should be able to feel your way into and through her to know if she needs that. That’s the type of man that women desire. Someone they can be vulnerable to and not be judged, ever.

You need to stop keeping score and judging your Crazy Bitch 8 wife. When you can stop doing that, you’ll have better sex and a much nicer partner in the long run. She’ll start directing her crazy energy into other things and use you as a sounding board of truth rather than the backboard that she slams your balls against every day.

[–]RPeed2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

I enjoyed your comments here dude. In fact your thinking seems to have evolved from your previous posts on this subject. Inspired me to track down another Jack10 quote I've been looking for, for a while, and turns out it's actually the one above the one you linked:

Theater gals be crazy.

Context: my wife was an actress when we met, as were many of my ex's, and I used to wear taming the crazy like a badge of honor with my friends. In hindsight, it was probably an advanced level scarcity mentality but at the time I just liked sex with crazy chicks.

As an aside, I had a friend who did too. I used to bust his balls and question the odds of them all being crazy or if it was something he was doing to them. But I guess we were all operating at Dread level 10 back in the day.

Anyway, it gets old over time. And I agree, your mature CB is most likely looking to you for a steadying hand. She probably was from the outset.

You nail down the highs and lows of it well.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

This is where I think you and I differ from OP. I'm not saying we're playing at a higher level, but we have more experience dealing with crazy bitches.

What boggles my mind is guys like OP that bounce in here like a bull in a china shop with what they think is a strong masculine frame... when in reality it's just another layer of ego that shields them from life. There are two paths you can take in a situation with a crazy wife: You can pour gas on the fire ocassionally to get it burning red hot, or you can offer an escape from the fire.

It takes just as much energy to gaslight (purposefully make her crazy) your wife as it does to build a fire escape ladder. Either way, the building is going to burn down. When the flames and smothering smoke finally reach her she is left a choice: Jump off the building or climb down the ladder you've built. You're still at the bottom waiting on her to come down. She's coming down either way.

The difference is that if she jumps, she will likely land in a safe spot but she had to do it all on her own. If she climbs down the fire escape ladder you built, she knows that you build that ladder for her. She then begins to realize it's much easier to use you as an escape rather than jump.

Both escapes always result in good sex in my opinion. But when she takes the ladder instead, she won't realize it, and when she arrives she turns to you and says, "Honey, thank you for building that ladder for me. I didn't have to make that scary jump again. What are you doing down here? Waiting for me? You've been here the whole time while the building was burning? You chose to build a ladder instead of busting your way into the burning building? Why did you build a ladder instead of busting in or making me jump?"

And that's when you reply, "Because I only have to build a ladder once. Welcome to your new escape plan. I'll be here down at the bottom doing my own thing from now on, but if I see the building burning I know where to go to meet you."

Which one do you think results in more desire, passion, and gratitude? Jumping on her own, or using the ladder you've built?

[–]RPeed2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

What boggles my mind is guys like OP that bounce in here like a bull in a china shop with what they think is a strong masculine frame... when in reality it's just another layer of ego that shields them from life.

I remember another Jack10 comment where he explained he thought following canon TRP over a long enough time line would increasingly play out as bagging more and more dysfunctional, narcissistic women that you plain didn't like. Actually a similar notion is what has always turned me off the main sub - although I've always found the praxeology resources effective - I think OP is probably chasing that dragon.

In my own words I guess I'd call it a form of beta game with it's roots in a scarcity mentality.

Which one do you think results in more desire, passion, and gratitude? Jumping on her own, or using the ladder you've built?

Here I think either you are either way ahead of me or we're taking different paths. For me, there is not a lot left after the codependency, or whatever anyone wants to label it as. I am not interested in carrying a dysfunctional adult. But I recognize my responsibility to fully explore being a functional adult myself in the interim. That's really where I came in, in the first place.

All this boils down to sidebar anyway.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Here I think either you are either way ahead of me or we're taking different paths. For me, there is not a lot left after the codependency, or whatever anyone wants to label it as. I am not interested in carrying a dysfunctional adult.

Do you have to carry her after you build the ladder? No. If you build it, she will cum.

You have to build the escape ladder, man. Otherwise:

I remember another Jack10 comment where he explained he thought following canon TRP over a long enough time line would increasingly play out as bagging more and more dysfunctional, narcissistic women that you plain didn't like.

You will get that result.

Question is: Are you strong enough in your core and have enough patience to build that ladder for her? You have to like your wife to do so.

[–]RPeed0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I get what you're saying dude. I really do. And I hope it works out for you.

But you flirt with proposing extreme ownership, pushed to irrational extremes, in the assertion that it will make all right with the world. I find that to be a real case of solipsism.

I think there needs to be some balance with "presenting-as-alpha" as a sexual strategy and MRP as a quest for the Ubermensch, The latter, the whole vision of "Alpha doesn't lie/sneak around", "Alpha is the unconditional leader", "Alpha heals the blind crazy women": I struggle with.

I don't get it.

Either as a sexual strategy or as a strategy for a happy life.

If it works for you: good stuff. But some people are married to low quality women, that they like but will always be low quality, and I think it is naive to assert the right kind of mindset will rebuild them.

[–]BarracudaRP2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

+1 for the Jack10 post on the 3 Phases of Frame (and scoreboard keeping). The twist in bold at the end hit me square in the jaw, this needs to be required reading for anyone starting to build a frame at home.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

/u/HornsOfApathy gets it. I have a lot of work ahead of me. I am going to keep reading these comments until I can internalize.

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Women are like cars - if they don't get regular maintenance and a good service, they cause you problems. Once you find a car you really like, it's easy to get attached to it. Never stops you looking at newer models though and in the back of your mind, it's always comforting when you know that you have the means to trade your car in if the occasional problems or bugs become too frequent or annoying.

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have my eye on a bunch. Please believe me, it's always an option if this model were to have certain recalls or performance issues that proved to be repeatedly problematic. In fact, there is a new model I have my eye on that comes out in April. My lease is up in January though. Going to give it some time.

[–]ImNotSlash3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

My wife is certainly a CB7, maybe an 8; I wouldn't go further as I'm sure it could be a lot worse. My wife is diagnosed BPD which is something else I've never had to deal with. Add to that an oopherectomy three years into our relationship (side affects include cognitive impairment or dementia, ..., decline in psychological well-being, and decline in sexual function) and, well, it's been...a ride.

do you ever purposely make her bitchy?

Not originally. I would just do what I wanted. She'd react, we'd fight, I'd apologize, we'd fuck, sign a peace treaty, rinse and repeat.

Since MRP I've tried to turn more to identifying signs and taking it into my own hands. I've been decent lately getting her to talk about shit on her mind. But, I've realized she still doesn't open up to me about shit I do; i.e., about my "changes".

I always refer to a comment from /u/Persaeus,

i'm sticking my finger down her throat so she'll barf all over me and get it over with.

If she's going to go, I want it on my terms, not hers. This allows me to think ahead. After 13 years, I know just about all the bullshit that's going to run out of her mouth, including that one time I looked at a latina's ass in the grocery store on November 3, 2011 at 3:59PM CST.

But, I don't go out of my way to piss her off. I just don't want to. I have better things to do with my time. And, if I have to piss off my woman in order to fuck her I can find other women to fuck and be happy. Anger-fucking is good, but at what cost?

I'm reading your post like you're this guy. Definitely not my style.

You need to be her escape

I like this comment from /u/HornsOfApathy.

[–]simbarlionRed Beret3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

This was really interesting until you stopped talking about cars.

Personally i think uber has the model down pat. You pay upfront for the ride, but you don't really know anything about the car you're gonna get. And once you're done, you never see that car again.

[–]Maximus_Valerius1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You might pay a little more, but uberselect is a better quality ride.

[–]RPeed0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I love Uber. I would gladly never own a car again and use it full time. But anecdotally and from a few close calls, it's just not safe as the primary mode of transport for a woman.

There's probably a lesson in there too.

[–]NordicVikingKing2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dialling up a woman's crazy is like a kid playing with dynamite. We all know crazy bitches offer the best sex, however by dialling it up you are setting yourself up for greater and harsher shit testing (and perhaps even a main event) in the future through operant conditioning.

You are rewarding and reinforcing her shitty behaviour with sex. It may be fun for now seeing how crazy things can get in the bedroom, but there may come a time when it becomes self defeating and you think in the future, ‘how the fuck did I get here'? You'll want to have a rock solid frame by then, because dialling it back down from there could be an absolute head fuck for you.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

So when I have started new jobs, I usually end up started getting handed the "difficult" people to work with.

Sometimes by luck, but mainly because I volunteer. I've always seen that as an opportunity to build solid relationships and also look good to whoever I report. I'm actually now working for one of those people and leveraged a 20% bump to come work on their team.

And 99% of the time the "difficulty" I identify is simply a difference in communication style. Or the people complaining are lazy fucks and once you label a person a particular way you can mollify your brain into thinking "I'm not failing: they're just shitty."

So yeah, chicks who tend to run hot on the surface can be quite the dynamo to play with and I am admittedly drawn to spice as well.

But the CB 1-10 designations are a bit of a sidetrack to me. There's women. There's AWALT.

If a woman is high in one negative characteristic that comes out when you are beta... the other will have an equally detrimental-to-your-psyche trait.

Case and point: my current wife wears her displeasure on her sleeve if I ever get lazy. Argumentative, snipes, black cloud follows her around...etc. What you'd call a high CB designation or what my friend calls says "you got a difficult one".

My 1st wife would bicker playfully but always deferential in the end and never serious. She would keep any and all things that bothered her bottled up, and when I went beta long enough, she just jetted and I was like "What? We were having issues?". So what is her label. CB1? Equally as bad (if not arguably worse) situation.

Regardless, I should have been doing the same job as captain all along. It's fun but I think we get sidetracked when we start changing the meta AWALT to create more granularity. Might be a lot more relevant to PUA as it puts the focus on them. Really when turning a marriage around they are the just the barometer.

Be happy you have one with easy to read markings in bold.

And the dance of purposefully pushing buttons can be an outlet to let steam off. But you really have to know your shit and be well ahead of the curve so you can steer it back or let it spin off into the next room and reset itself.

It's also a good way to remind them and demonstrate you dngaf. And kind of like a controlled burn to keep the forest edges clear. But wayyy outside the scope of marriages currently going through a turnaround.

That being said...some bitches be crazy , those are marked by erratic behavior and talking to voices in their head, should be easy to spot like any other crazy person. We did have one Indian guy who came in here a few years ago...after a while I think we all gave up that he could do shit and that his wife was legit insane.

[–]Maximus_Valerius1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

do you ever purposely make her bitchy?

Occasionally. She usually does it on her own then I run with it. So long as I keep my own emotions in check, it really doesn't matter whether it is positive feelz or negative feelz. If it creates tension, it drives attraction and keeps things from getting boring.

[–]InChargeManRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like she needs spankings.

[–]ReddJiveRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

And it's not even Wednesday....

If you happen to have a CB7 or higher Woman in your life, do you ever purposely make her bitchy?

You've clearly not read much of the material. All the time. It's called black knighting and when you get good at it. The fun begins.

Boys tease girls. It's been true since day one.

I mainly did it for fun (practice) and to see how crazy sex would get at night. How dangerous is this and what are the repercussions?

For you? Bad bad bad. Like don't even try. Have Chad come over. he will solve it because for him that shit is gold.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you happen to have a CB7 or higher in your life, do you ever purposely make her bitchy? I mainly did it for fun (practice) and to see how crazy sex would get at night. How dangerous is this and what are the repercussions?

Synthetic drama manufacture is a known tactic. Doing it with an emotionally volatile woman should mean it's easier to get her wound up, and will be harder to get her to chill out, but, as you have discovered, the intense feels can be leveraged for some super-hot hate-fucking and/or make-up sex.

The only downside to this may be that the two of you desensitize to anything approaching normal seduction and start to need to create a shitstorm so you can chase the dragon of that emotional intensity.

Oh, and it takes two to tango, CD7 (crazy dude 7).

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh, and it takes two to tango, CD7 (crazy dude 7).

I am bat shit crazy, just fortunate enough to have a dick.

[–]JudgeDoom691 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Some cars just aren't worth fixing. The cost to repair is more than the car is worth.

A woman with bonafide BPD or NPD isn't worth salvaging. Better to scrap the bitch and go shopping for a newer model.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How many times in the past have you told unicorn it’s ok not to blow you ?

[–]Redpillbrigade170 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

You saved yourself with the face fucking. Good job. Otherwise a bit too much male hamstering.

Sounds like you just need to keep upping the ante. If you haven’t already , hand cuff her arms behind her back as you face fuck her next time. Simply enjoy it, and the view right there. She craves that submission.

Then keep escalating, with things like dildo strap on you for double penetration.

Ties under the bed and drive her crazy some more.

Labia clamps. Completely expose that sweet pussy of hers and have your way with it. Slowly so she completely understands and feels your domination.

Basically turn her into your private sexual enjoyment doll. Take pleasure in the fact that she submits to you in a complete way. And of course, the enjoyment is for you as well but keep in mind the psychological effects of all this are much stronger. That’s in my view something with tremendous benefits in the relationship.

Bottom line, spice it up a little bit don’t get too concerned about the hard pounding, focus on the psychological stuff.

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Book suggestions? I like where you are going with this and want more info.

[–]Redpillbrigade170 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Read through 50 Shades of Grey or similar women romance novels - it’s women’s version of porn. Read it to understand how it’s a best-selling book and how women (most of them, that is) crave to be dominated by and submit to a strong man. It’s a need they have, not simply a wish. Learn how imagination and fantasy gets their heart and emotions going, and ultimately their actions.

Follow r/BDSMAdvice

Go to XR University and watch some of their videos, listen to their podcast. Lots of material there. Open your mind.

Start telling her how you’d love to see her make out with another girl. Then both of you fuck that girl. Or you and that girl both fuck your wife. You can approach it slowly, and innocuously like “I had the craziest dream last night.” See how she responds (which fantasy she’s more attuned to, then elaborate from there).

Or tell her you had a dream you were fucking her in the ass while she was grabbing the bed frame with all her might, was ball gagged etc. (the ball gag is a must in your toy chest for a bitchy woman!)

Timing is everything. Don’t talk like this when she’s changing a diaper, but when the two of you are connected, as lovers, over a drink or something.

Escalate from there. Plant seeds like these, then make the female hamster work for you- let her start imagining these things and how much fun they’d be.

Then execute. Have fun.

In all of this, remember you’re the alpha. It’s your life, your world, she’s like a toy to enjoy. Her feminine energy complements your masculine energy. To paraphrase Friedrich Nietsche: at the end of a day, a hard-working, mission-driven man desires play, and thus he desires woman, the most dangerous play thing. And dangerous toys require skills to enjoy. Otherwise you get burned/ seriously hurt. So go build those skills, and enjoy your woman-to the fullest.



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