I've seen a lot of posts about this on here and IMO many of them are full of bad information or just give false hope to young guys who think one day they're going to get older and get the pretty looking college girls they couldn't in their college days. A few members on here have also PM'd me about it so I thought I'd post this. As a guy who was in a fraternity back in college, slept with a lot of college girls, saw how they grew up from their freshman to senior years, and talked to a lot of them I feel like I have some authority on this issue. I have also known more than enough older guys who've tried to get with college girls and had varying degrees of success. This is what I have learned and felt the need to share with all of you.

Since this is the red pill reddit, I feel like I have to be straightforward and honest with you guys instead of giving you false hope. This only applies to America, I cannot speak for Canada or some other countries and I would like to keep this about the USA only.

Can older guys (25+) get college girls?

Yes but it is not that simple, a lot of it depends on: the type of college it is, the types of college girls they're pursuing, how deeply connected they are to the college scene, and how old they look. Most older guys should be able to get college girls if they put themselves in a favorable situation and are smart with it. Now that we've answered the main question, lets talk about the different factors.

The type of college it is.

Older guys have a significantly difficult time getting reasonably good looking college girls at traditional college campuses where almost everyone is 18-22. You won't see too many older guys having success at schools like Syracuse, University of Florida, or UW-Madison. Think of it this way, if it has a big name football/basketball program or is likely located in a major college town where it is the main university, it is going to be a lot harder to get reasonably good looking girls that go there. On the other hand, older guys can do quite well at community college type settings, colleges located in major cities, and colleges with more commuters rather than a dorm community. The older guys I know that had success with good looking college girls often met those girls at colleges which were socially like community colleges rather than colleges like the University of Florida where most students are in the 18-22 range, Greek Life is huge, and the community is more tightly knit.

The types of college girls that older guys can and cannot get.

You will not get the reasonably good looking sorority girls at major schools like say Syracuse for example, as a guy who was in a fraternity I've seen many older men try and fail. Sorority girls are very clannish and their entire life revolves around what their sisters think of them, hooking up with an older guy or "random" (someone that doesn't go to the university) is going to destroy their status in the Greek crowd. Not only will their sisters do everything to prevent you from getting with them, many frat boys can become massive cockblocks. Getting sorority girls at traditional universities where almost everyone is in the 18-22 range (ie: Syracuse, University of Florida, etc.) is out of the question, it won't happen. The only exception to this rule is if you are one of those guys who didn't go to college after high school, did military service or something like that, came back to college, rushed and got a bid for a big name fraternity (most important part), and became a brother.

Now lets talk about the kind of girls older guys can get. I've seen older guys having a lot of success with girls who aren't in sororities, are typically involved with a lot of on campus activities/volunteer work, and are upperclassmen (junior and senior) most of the times. As mentioned earlier, you're going to have a much easier time at community colleges and commuter campus type of settings as opposed to your typical state university with a major sports program and most people in the 18-22 range.

Being connected to the scene.

Don't be a random! "Randoms" are practically guys (older) who aren't students at a university. Most college girls stay away from "randoms". You have to be somewhat connected to the college scene in order to have any luck there. Volunteer work is an excellent way to get involved outside of the obvious, taking classes there. Others can elaborate more on making yourself a part of the scene, getting a job at a college bar or club is probably one the best ways to gain status and maybe even access to some of the hottest girls on campus (you still won't fuck sorority girls if you go to a school like Syracuse though).

How old you look.

Most older guys who get college girls can pass for early to mid 20s, they don't look old enough to be their dads. Not much more I can say about this.

Other factors.

People like to talk a lot about how money will make up for it when it comes to college girls but I don't think that is as true as you may think. Driving a fancy car and showing off your wealth won't really help as much you may think because college girls value status more than money. If you are a random rich guy who shows up to college thinking that his BMW or Mercedes is going to get him a night in bed with the pretty looking sorority girls, take my word for it, you will be very disappointed.

Your SMV in the real world will not be the same on a college campus, especially if it is a school like Syracuse or UC-Santa Barbara (where most kids are in the 18-22 range). You can be a guy getting laid left and right in a place like NYC but the second you go to Isla Vista, you will hardly have any success. It's weird but it is just how it works.

The summary and important things to those that couldn't read all of it.

  1. You will have a much harder time getting reasonably good looking college girls at major universities like the University of Florida or Syracuse which are big schools where almost everyone is in the 18-22 range, have major sports programs, and Greek Life is huge. Older guys have a much easier time at community college type of settings or 4 year schools which are in major cities.

  2. It is practically impossible to get sorority girls at colleges like Syracuse or UC-Santa Barbara if you are not in a fraternity or a popular guy on campus (usually an athlete) so don't even bother trying, at best you'll settle for an ugly one. Go for girls that are not involved in greek life, are typically upperclassmen, and spend a lot of time volunteering

  3. You need to be connected to the scene to have any luck, being a bartender at a popular college bar is a good way to do it and could give you access to a lot of the better looking girls on campus.

  4. It helps a lot to look young enough to where you can pass for early to mid 20s.

  5. Money/showing off your wealth will not help nearly as much as you think it will, you have to be connected to the scene.