Meet Britain's worst wife - and she's proud of it: Kate won't cook, won't clean and only makes love to her husband

MidAgeOnePercenter · 2013-09-19T11:01:26+00:00

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dnietz · 2013-09-19T11:18:02+00:00

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Savun · 2013-09-19T12:01:05+00:00

I don't know if I'm more angry at her or ashamed of him.

2013-09-19T10:35:29+00:00

It was Ben's touching gesture of sending boxes of Krispy Kreme doughnuts to the office that made me realise what an excellent husband he'd make.

"It was Ben's subservient gesture of sending me food when I was busy being an independent woman that made me realise I'd caught a beta provider to support my life."

Jack_Sophmore · 2013-09-19T12:47:02+00:00

As soon as I read Kate is too busy with her career as a writer I closed the tab.

johnetec · 2013-09-19T14:19:55+00:00

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Cyralea · 2013-09-19T11:14:10+00:00

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whiskey_bearfist · 2013-09-19T14:08:44+00:00

i wonder who (and how many) shes fuckin.

the guy is shameful. he is the perfect archetype of male in the feminist society. works hard at his job and around the house, raises his kids and doesn't complain. only needs to fuck once every few years.

doesnt even mind being humiliated by his wife in a letter to a widely read (although garbage) publication website.

but i guarantee you she is sleeping around.

RedBigMan · 2013-09-19T12:03:04+00:00

Problem is even if he divorces her she'll still get half of everything plus alimony and child support.

Still she should not count on the vag holding him to her. Everyone has their breaking point.

EDIT: Reading through it and looking at the pictures she's maybe a 4 or a 5 now but she was maybe a 6-7 in the wedding picture. He's certainly gotten better looking since the wedding.

JamieValentine · 2013-09-19T13:07:03+00:00

She makes my ex-wife look like a saint...and I did my ex-wife's homework.

Kronos6948 · 2013-09-19T12:16:27+00:00

Remember, this is the Daily Mail. The kids ages should tell you that this article is bullshit. There's articles written like this in the Weekly World News, right next to Batboy.

2013-09-19T14:27:56+00:00

For those who are American, the Mail is a UK rag that is full of garbage "news" and fictionalized stories.

FeelingSassy · 2013-09-19T16:09:50+00:00

Well well well, this article is either bullshit or there is some serious stuff going on here behind the scenes.

Kids are 4 years apart in age, they have sex every 10 years. IE they are not his or she is lying.
She doesnt do anything for her kids yet on her website - "Now I am a mum of two young boys and combine writing for newspapers, magazines and books with changing nappies!"

The situation is an illusion at most levels, there either has to be some underlying sexualisation here like FEMDOM, in which case the male here is willingly doing this for sexual gratification, in which case you do in fact have a healthy symbiosis occurring: her getting to practice out her inherent selfishness and him his sexual fetish. But that would be the exception but not the rule for relationships.

Looking here we have three options:

-This is sensationalised bullshit.

-This is Sexualised symbiosis.

-This is an example of what feminists see as 'ideal'.

If it is the third point what we also have is a 'stars aligned' situation, where the natural tendencies for women to shape their male partner into something they think they want is combined with total male submission. The usual route that takes is the women changes a man into something she wants and the male does so with an underlying edge of resentment from the process.

This normally produces a result of the women not being happy since what she wants is not the end product and she mirrors the resentment that the male is giving her, doubled up with issues of zero respect generated from him adhering to the process....usually signals the beginning of the end of the relationship with a combination of affairs and/or divorce (usually terminated by the women).

What can we take away from this article? If it is based around point 3, then for anyone that gets into the general beta marriage, to maintain it you have to submit totally to the process and acknowledge total surrender of identity, self respect and embrace indentured service.

I have read and expect alot of hostility to this article as this is the polar opposite of TRP in what you are taught here and how to behave as 'males'.

Interestingly enough while it is from the opposite end of the spectrum that is to say from a females point of view, this article should not be looked on with anything but interest as it IS TRP theory.

Why? How? Gender/Sexuality/masculinity/femininity is a grey area, in Psychology there is ongoing debate as to what these entail, the roles within and how they come about. What makes a man a man and a woman a women, is there a difference between your sex and your role, are we inherently pigeonholed into 1 sexual role or is it on a sliding scale etc etc. There is NO academic consensus on this and is one of the reasons we are blighted with aggressive feminism. What you have in this article is TRP. Reread the article but do one thing - change the genitals of the protaganists around, and suddenly you will have a feminist shit storm in the making(excluding one thing I will bring up in a bit).

General rule of thumb and the practice of TRP reinforcements, bioloigcally and socially is ideal Partnerships are made of up a Dominant (male) and a submissive (female).... (but is that REALLY the case for betas hehe) What has happened here with admittedly a few quirks is the same but between two people where the roles are reversed that is all.

The only Jarring family dynamic that upsets me here is that both roles allow for the other to take ascendancy in certain areas not going into too much depth here, which sure will be a good start for the nitpickers but... the dominant role is filled by the breadwinner and masculine participant the submissive is charged with bringing up children and keeping the household in order. This is a process of give and take, were giving up independence etc is balanced with being provided for. You get the idea I hope.

But back on topic the issue I have with this article is with the endorsed provider role which is taken up by the female participant in this relationship, however she does not fulfill this role and nether provides or contributes, THAT is the issue I have most with this, it is not total role reversal it is 'broken'. So while the over-arcing situation is actually in a sense TRP, the applied feminism breaks it...equality indeed.

LaserSoundMusic · 2013-09-19T12:47:27+00:00

This dude obviously gets off on being humiliated and dominated.

propernaughtygeeza · 2013-09-19T10:09:29+00:00

Disgusted. How could a man allow himself to be treated as such without some kind of response?

Meterus · 2013-09-19T15:03:53+00:00

And if you think I reward his sterling domestic efforts with treats in the bedroom, I'm afraid I fail in that department, too.

Maybe the "husband" doesn't like girls.

dnietz · 2013-09-19T16:45:52+00:00

That article makes me want to vomit.

There is no way the husband here had a father. Something is seriously wrong with him.

replyaccount · 2013-09-19T17:02:24+00:00

Never have I wanted to punch someone's stupid fucking face over the internet more...

t21spectre · 2013-09-19T18:11:15+00:00

only makes love to her husband...once a decade

She's having sex more than once a decade

donxjohnson · 2013-09-19T10:38:46+00:00

Only has sex every decade? The kids are 2 and 6? spent 8:30 am to 11:30pm "launching a magazine" (yeah alright...) this guy is doting on someone elses kids who also don't look anything like him. Hmm... This is why we have to be better men. This buffoon has been taken for a ride while shes out doing god knows what. Where are his friends? Someone to shake him about a bit?

mescalineeyes · 2013-09-19T10:05:34+00:00

I didn't know one could dry heave for so long without throwing up.

phathack · 2013-09-19T14:13:26+00:00

Gentlemen I give you the modern man that feminist have wanted for years.

PerniciousOne · 2013-09-19T15:36:03+00:00

The Title which says only makes love to the husband, she cannot even do that well. She does not do that, apparently every 10 years. I do not know what he gets out of the relationship from her.

VZPurp · 2013-09-20T03:17:13+00:00

Don't link to this trash.

heruskael · 2013-09-20T20:00:53+00:00

I'm surprised he didn't handle breastfeeding, too.

2013-09-19T19:55:38+00:00

Is Wayne Brady gonna have to choke a bitch?

2013-09-19T20:19:12+00:00

It's not like a husband shouldn't do chores, but she has to do SOMEthing in the relationship.

euneaux · 2013-09-19T20:48:41+00:00

(S)he who wants it more loses.

Indifference and options are power.

Miamiheat87 · 2013-09-19T22:23:46+00:00

Look at Ben in those pictures. He looks oh so happy and filled with pride being in this role! I don't know.. maybe there is something to this sex once a decade thing... he might be on to something!

FortunateBum · 2013-09-19T23:14:09+00:00

At least she's honest. There are plenty of women who behave this way and delude themselves into thinking they're doing all the housework.

incraved · 2013-09-19T23:57:43+00:00

This article is written solely to provoke the readers. I don't understand why we are discussing it here.

finalfantasybrownies · 2013-09-20T00:02:02+00:00

There's not even any sense in a lot of the comments. One was even trying to rationalize that Ben's wife is in the right because she was pregnant for 9 months with each of their kids, and going on about "how hard it is on a woman's body" and they "can't drink alcohol".

LasherDeviance · 2013-09-20T00:23:07+00:00

Honestly, Ben looks like a clown. And I'm pretty sure that the only thing she's ever written was this shitty article. You can just see him oozing beta juice in the pictures, and I wouldn't fuck that shitty looking hag with someone else's dick. Also you notice how the Daily Mail has a female section but not a masculine oriented section.

2013-09-20T05:13:03+00:00

Ben is more likely to arrive at our home and find me having a manicure or checking Facebook than slaving over a hot stove. . . .

The truth is that I'm just too busy and involved in my career as a writer to be a traditional, caring wife.

Hamster gonna hamster.

I decided to leave my job and pursue a career as a writer after being offered a generous redundancy package.

I set my alarm for 6am so I can squeeze in an hour of work before the school run and I often write until midnight. . . .

My job often means being away from home during the evenings and weekends . . .

Even when I am home, I keep one eye glued to my iPhone

I must earn more than Ben. But no, I don't.

my work is so all-consuming there's little of me left to go round by the time I switch off my laptop.

After being shitcanned at work I decided to be self employed! Yes, getting manicures and browsing facebook all day is SOOOOOO hard!

Ben bemoans my inability to achieve a work/life balance. He sees the word 'driven' as a negative, while I think I'm aspirational and ambitious. Now, I know what you're thinking - that I must earn more than Ben. But no, I don't.

he mooted the idea I might one day be a 'stay-at-home mum', I bristled. 'But my mum stayed at home for the first five years of my life,' he said. 'That's never going to happen,' I replied sharply. The matter was never raised again.

Ben claims he doesn't mind the way our life is set up.

Ben is a very very unhappy man and possibly extremely passive aggressive.

Intimacy is reserved only for his birthdays - and then just the ones with a zero.

seven years we've been married

our children, Ronnie, six, and Stanley, two

I do think madam, you mean YOUR children. How the fuck do you get two children 4 years apart from having sex ONCE with your husband in that time? Hamster gonna hamst.

2013-09-23T17:46:48+00:00

He's gay. Not even. Blue polled beta would put up with that. 10 years? No fucking way

JohnnyWall · 2013-09-19T14:36:06+00:00

This can't possibly be real?

Mightyskunk · 2013-09-19T14:43:43+00:00

This has to be fake. I can't believe a woman like that exists.

MrStinky · 2013-09-19T16:49:39+00:00

He literally looks like the archetypal faggey UK beta

2013-09-19T21:56:21+00:00

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Title	Meet Britain's worst wife - and she's proud of it: Kate won't cook, won't clean and only makes love to her husband
Author	deepaktiwarii
Upvotes	59
Comments	118
Date	September 19, 2013 9:59 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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