What do you and your plates chat about when you're hanging out and not fucking?
I feel like I talk so much shit, boring and cringey topics when I'm with some girls and they don't like it but just tolerate. Normally with the ones who I fuck well and feel comfortable with I feel okay speaking my mind yet I get the impression I'm boring them or they don't care.
[Eg. We were talking about movies cos she brought up she saw that Avenger's Movie recently and I told my plate how I showed Pan's Labyrinth to my little sister to traumatize her a little bit as an intro to "deeper" movies as it has a taste of everything good in psychological horrors but wrapped up in a fairtytale plot. I also mentioned how I liked the pacing and the casting of the characters and that film pacing is very good and I went on to give examples of badly paced films and films were the narrative was well timed.]
I get passionate about mildly-complex topics like this and start talking about them at length obliviously but then I saw her eyes glaze over like "wtf is he talking about" and realized I needed to stop. This has happened other times with other girls, even if I have a lot in common with them, I feel the need to carry the conversation but I'm into nerdy/"lame" stuff in their eyes so idk.
Sometimes we talk about relationships and stuff but I've learnt from Tomassi not to give away too much information and to keep it all a bit mysterious on that end. Besides this idk what the hell other people discuss.
I don't want to bore my plates to death. I know I fuck them well cos they orgasm a lot and they're eager for sex, and I do tease and play with them like kids often, but during these gaps idk what the fuck we're supposed to discuss without scaring her away. I like deep topics and even the smartest girls get bored after 10 minutes of discussing these.
But I also don't know what to do if I'm not saying anything, we can't just sit in silence can we? What do "normies" talk about with each other all day, and what should I keep the topics of conversation with?