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Tips for Threesome Game

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August 5, 2019
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Last night my LTR and I went out to a low key late dinner, close to our neighborhood. This after our workout, and an otherwise fun and sex filled weekend. Our waitress was hot, and I immediately found myself attracted to her - nice body, face, legs, tank top, shoulders, ass - you name it, she had it. I start chatting up with my LTR about how I find her attractive, and asked her if she did too- turns out yes. (My LTR and I have dabbled in such action ever since we went out a year and half ago with one of her girlfriends, and after several drinks the two of them were making out profusely.- but nothing concrete since).

So we start talking a bit more with waitress every time she came to our table, and gaming her. Surprisingly my LTR although initially nervous, got into it quickly and was really good at teasing info out of her, building connection, even did some nice kino! when a mosquito landed on waitress shoulder, she reached out, touched her to waive it off umm yum. Anyway - I end up pushing the envelope, and toward end of dinner ask her if she’d like to join us for a glass of wine after work. She politely declines. We shrug it off, say something like maybe another time.

Later then as we’re in bed, the two of us kept fantasizing about the waitress, vocalizing what we would do to her, how she would join in, all the positions all of us would get in. All while my LTR is wearing some hot lingerie I asked her to wear, a neck choker / collar and we put on some nice porn online with 2 hot girls and a dude. We had a lot of fun, and I see it as part of priming my LTR to get really comfortable for when we do land that one third for some three way action.

Anyway so here is my question: what are some good practical tips you fellas have for getting that much dreamed of threesome with you &two girls.


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Title Tips for Threesome Game
Author Redpillbrigade17
Upvotes 13
Comments 28
Date 05 August 2019 01:13 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/250186
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[–]itiswr1ttenRed Beret11 points12 points  (3 children) | Copy

I've been running an OLTR with a bi girl for about 6mos now, focusing the majority of my game on adding girlfriends to the mix.

There are 3 key elements: acquire appropriately, triage, and always own the seduction.

Acquire: not the waitress, my guy. I don't blame anyone for shooting their shot but you'll do much better by fishing in a place where they have the option to walk away.

Anyway, if you're under 40ish use dating apps in addition to approach in the wild, set the app to woman seeking woman.

In the wild, pick them up just like you would if you were single. They're all gay from the waist up and many girls are "heteroflexible". Same deal as solo approach - develop enough emotional frenzy and the feelz take over.

Triage - if or when you get good at this you'll have to learn to identify when your side chicks or gfs are starting to wander off. The majority of these encounters will be one or two offs - girl fulfills fantasy and moves on. ACTUAL bi girls will start to get emotionally invested just like all girls.

They'll pick one of you to fixate on and make the other an accessory, unless they are REALLY sexually fluid. Identify who the favorite is and reciprocate some investment or they're gonna fade out. Please be aware that if there is any time for the original relationship to be pressed by the outsider, it's right here.

Own the seduction - if your wife is even vaguely on the hot side of the spectrum, she has no game. It will always be up to you to set the frame and convince the girl to get in your bedroom. Never get comfy no matter how much wifey insists she wants to pull.

[–]470_2_700_nm4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’m very impressed in the depth of your understanding here would be interested in reading a longer well thought out post. You have some knowledge here.

[–]Redpillbrigade17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good points and thanks for the insights. Yes she is on the hotter side, and I hadn’t realized that because of that (or correlated with that), she is likely to have no game. She’s used to be hit on, not other way around.

[–]helaughsinhidden10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

Full disclaimer.

The threesome talk with the LTR is often just part fantasy and part shit test. I have no idea what the percentages are, but I'm comfortable enough to say that often times if you are too eager to run with the idea, you've just failed a shit test and they've lost some sort of long-term attraction for you that probably won't recover. Think of the question "which one of my friends do you think is the hottest?". Under those same circumstances, taken to fruition, the threesome ends up being a swan song and/or monkey branch. I've known lots of men IRL who tell a similar tale "first, my wife invited her friend into the bedroom for a threesome, then we started swinging, then she wanted to open things up, then left me for the guy we were swapping with, WTF happened?". Obviously, not 100% but FFM or FFMM can be an LTR killer and for that reason I don't even recommend if you have incurable oneitis or kids together.

[–]JameisBong2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've always thought about it from this perspective,it can't lead to anything positive for the relationship. Maybe before the commitment when she's on her best behavior.

[–]Iammrp21 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is true 95% of the time so most people here should pay attention. There is a such thing as bi chicks but most are not actually bi. If you have a bi chick more power to you. You may be lucky enough to have LTR with two chicks. If your girl is straight this will not end well for you.

[–]ke3bsf616 points17 points  (10 children) | Copy

Just keep in mind she could flip the script after you landed a few MFF threesomes and want to try it with you and another guy.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is a complicated question because we don't know you or your GF. Girls are a big talk when it comes to this shit (see: barsexual) and can your girl handle watching you fuck another female is the real question. Not many girls can.

If you think she is going to be OK with it, and not have a meltdown during the activity if you actually pull this shit off (which is harder than it looks because a lot of girls don't want to be a "third") then press on.

I've had a bunch of threesomes with my girl (MRP guy here) and we actually dated a girl together last year for a few months. My wife is bisexual so it's a little easier on my end but you can still fuck this up.

Best way to accomplish this is having her hunt/lead which is akward for most girls since they have no clue how to game. This is what I learned muddying through these waters. Girls aren't programmed to know how to game men so when you have two girls trying to figure out logistics it's like two monkeys fucking a football. She has to seem like the one who wants it when you are approaching or talking with girls at clubs and bars. Alchohol helps here but not too much since the intended target might bail or get too drunk to actually do anything. You can also go the app route with her making a Tinder profile as a girl, seeking girls but Tinder is now saturated with couples it seems. (see: unicorn hunters). Make sure theres a photo of both of you in there so it's not a bait and switch for anyone interested. Just note you will waste a lot of time on Tinder because most girls match, don't reply or flake on an actual meetup and want to just chat as girls are orbiters hunters by nature. Another option is subtly dropping hints to her friends while you are drinking. Have you girl kino women. It's not hard.

So if you actually make it to the bedroom with two girls whatever the fuck you do you need to focus on your OWN GIRL MOSTLY. Let the other two play with eachother etc. You can fuck this up easily and then the whole thing blows up and now your girl is mad at you and you blew your opportunities for good. Me and my girl never had a problem but I knew what to do before I made it to the game so it helped. We still bang girls together but be forewarned it's hard to go back to normal sex once you open pandoras box.

Vasilly has a good guide on this as well.

[–]Helpme1230000 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Well damn.... what’s sex one in one like after a threesome? I’m in reconciliation and wondering if it’ll backfire on both of us.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I opened Pandoras box, there is no closing it. Remember that.

[–]JudgeDoom6920 points21 points  (3 children) | Copy

Waitresses are friendly because they want bigger tips. She was probably tolerating your advances and not being rude because that's how they make money.

You'd be better off to take your LTR to a bar or club and have her pick up a woman to bring back for the both of you to enjoy.

[–]helaughsinhidden3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly

[–]itiswr1ttenRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've been running this game for awhile with a consistent OLTR. She does not do the gaming. See my post below

[–]stoicstephen6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just like everything else it's a numbers game.

You already have your LTR's interest in the matter, so what is missing is someone who agrees to the threesome.

Approach girls with and without your LTR (for threesomes is best if you game with her by your side, so you don't come off as a creep, but you can do it solo).

Go to places and venues where girls that might accept the invitation are present.

The game is still the same.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you want your LTR or marriage to last, do not include a third person.

Ever.

[–]Imaginary_Historian0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

... that she knows about.

Still, I agree that a threesome is a bad idea if one of the three is someone you care about (such as a wife or LTR.)

[–]Helpme1230000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’m worried my husband already bought one. He admitted to hookers so for what it takes to go to a steak house he can have a threesome. Which would explain why it’s so difficult even after becoming completely subservient and working on myself. But yeah. I guess I’ll leave it alone. He would never admit to buying one but if that was his fantasy and he was already doing it would it still be a bad idea. Trying to save my marriage....

[–]rnsbrum0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wtf did I just read



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