The sluttier a woman is the more alpha she wants her men

robertfrostt · 2019-06-15T06:45:05+00:00

Nope, you are wrong. You are likely confusing attention seeking women and actual sluts.

An actual promiscuous woman has lower standards than other women. She is more open to casual sex and will more easily be open to escalation and diving into bed after a night out. She's likely more flirty, fun, and very open in her behavior. In general they have a lower tendency to call men creepy.

However, given the rise of instagram and snapchat, there is another type of woman I call the attention seeker. This woman will put a lot of effort into her appearance, far more than actual sluts, such as going fitness crazy, wearing super tight yoga pants, lots of makeup, really coordinated outfits, maybe cosmetic procedures as well, etc. This type of woman however, is just doing this and seeking attention without sex. This is the woman you are likely thinking wants more alpha partners, which is correct.

To make it simple, the desire for more alpha partners is correlated with a woman feeling more validated, not promiscuous.

TheJim66 · 2019-06-15T08:41:29+00:00

All women are attracted to alpha traits.Doesnt matter if it's a nun or a whore.

From what I've noticed sluts are simply stricter on the looks side of the equation and have lower standards on everything else.

reluctantly_red · 2019-06-15T07:01:42+00:00

Sluts tend to be sluts because they're masculine-minded, and most women want a man more masculine than they are. So yeah, makes sense that sluts go for guys with strong alpha traits.

nevomintoarce · 2019-06-15T11:08:48+00:00

Sluts like and enjoy masculinity. What else is new?

Pastelitomaracucho · 2019-06-15T06:35:19+00:00

The problem is that sluttyness and alphaness are spectra. So forming a black and white picture is just not going to work out.

Each individual person has their own quirks.

Generally speaking, girls like alpha traits. If a girl is just simply in for the sex and she is shallow, she does not need more from the man of interest than what its on the surface: good looks, the confidence to close the deal fast, some wittyness and sense of humour.

If the girl puts more effort into getting to know men and appreciates deeper relationships, then the alpha traits will only be useful for you to put a foot in the door. After that, you need to be kinder, smarter, agreeable, relaxed, non judgemental and funny.

Tldr: be alpha for shallow sluts. For non sluts, be alpha first, but get some beta traits rolling shortly after.

diffdedbed · 2019-06-15T13:57:23+00:00

Most of my female friends are slutty. Their husbands are quite good guys. Everyone just really enjoys sex and new sexual experiences.

The type of slutty you are talking about would be more of a psychological make up that isn't going to be just defined by being slutty.

sexykavu · 2019-06-15T08:20:24+00:00

I dunno man, I fucked more sluts as a beta than normal girls lol. I'd say the hardest girls to bang are attractive women who have their shit together, because they tend to be the most discerning when it comes to the full package. Losers can bang sluts easy peezy

wtffellification · 2019-06-15T06:30:27+00:00

you wrote alpha so many times i almost got confused

you seem to think the more a man is alpha, the more “emotionally unavailable”.. what does emotionally unavailable mean to you?

[deleted] · 2019-06-15T07:48:42+00:00

In my beta years, I had two consecutive relationships with women at opposite ends of the spectrum (n over 100, and then no n at all). I was too domineering for the former and too soft for the latter

YMMV.

Stutercel · 2019-06-16T13:00:44+00:00

The laws don't permit the level a manliness necessary to satisfy a slut

rddxl · 2019-06-15T06:23:02+00:00

Yeah well, alphas are defined as men who are sexually attractive to women. Sluts are women who have sex with many men. Its pretty much tautologically true that women pursuing sex will have sex with men with whom women want to have sex. Nothing revolutionary here

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Emervila · 2019-06-17T21:28:19+00:00

someone has to be very redpilled and work pimp-like skills.

I don't know where this is coming from but recently seems like a lot of people thinks like being ALPHA is being red-pilled which is wrong, a blue-pilled can be alpha, most of them they are bc TRP teaches how to be one as in you are not alpha hence beta.

If someone is interested in forming a good connection with a non-slutty girl, should he try to act super alpha to attract her

Non-slutty as in non-promiscuous? they rarely fall for a synthetic Alpha but they can do it for a True Alpha or even a Beta Male able to show character but you always have to show confidence as a male confidence and security is key for gaming for any kid of male either alpha, beta, omega or sigma.

[deleted] · 2019-06-18T22:29:42+00:00

This post is a one dimensional caricature of humanity

pnadlerlaw · 2019-06-25T04:36:29+00:00

Depends on your definition of a slut or “slutty.”

In high school, my wife was poor. Tough times. She would shamelessly prostitute herself to older guys for alcohol, food, money, clothes, etc.

Prior to that, she was sexually molested by her female babysitter, and then drugged and raped by two male classmates.

So, not exactly a Disney movie.

When I met her (thankfully I had some experience under my belt), she was obviously uncomfortable externally, but I felt like it didn’t make sense. So she opened up to me about her history. And I didn’t judge. I couldn’t understand anyone who WOULD judge.

Once she got comfortable, we started getting sexually intimate. It was a slow process. At first, very vanilla, she didn’t feel safe and comfortable, and I could feel it. But maybe like 2-3 months into us being intimate, she started to feel more comfortable with herself.

She took lap dance classes. I told her I’m not really into strip clubs and strippers, but she did it anyway, because she wanted to feel sexy. We went on that random video chat with a stranger thing (chat roulette) and were just fucking around with stimulating sex acts or teasing strangers via video. That was fun and funny.

But then she got like really in touch with her inner slut. I would wake up to blowjobs and handjobs. I once was having a sex dream (which is very rare for me), and I wake up to her on top of me reverse cowgirl. She changed the lights in our room to black lights and would just put her ass in my face and let me enjoy her as she sucked my dick or jerked me off. She would have me cum on her ass and tits. She would just do and take initiative and want to get the feeling of being wanted and desired by me as her man, and pleasing her man.

To me, that’s slutty. That’s a slut. She’s not doing it for money. She’s not doing it for a relationship. She’s not doing it to get back at her ex or her friend. She’s not doing it because of a breakup or depression. She’s just doing it to get in touch with her female sexuality and enjoy interacting with male sexual energy.

This whole alpha/beta terminology bothers me, because the lycologist who first used those terms later retracted his previous publication upon finding that wolves 🐺 essentially behaved like a communist or socialist system, and the “leaders” were nothing more than the managers “responsible” for administrating the group. It was not power or authority, it was responsibility. Unlike dogs, other wolves fell in line because they feared the pack as a whole (and exile), not necessarily the leader or “alpha.” So, alpha/beta is just a pet peeve of mine.

I’m good looking. Come from a wealthy family. A lawyer. Make a comfortable amount of money. But I’m not a machismo arrogant dick just for the sake of it. Like, “oh he’s such an arrogant asshole, that must mean he’s so alpha and such a high value man.” If I ever am, it’s only defensively to draw the line and establish a hard boundary with someone, like telemarketers calling you on your cell.

Example:

“I’m sorry. Don’t want to waste your time, but more importantly, I don’t want you to waste my time. I just wouldn’t be interested.”

“I understand. Can I just ask you why you wouldn’t be interested?”

“Yes, it’s quite simple really. Because I wouldn’t be interested.”

Example:

“Great, I’m just going to reserve your order and send you over a free thank you package ...”

“Woah. Stop. I’m not asking you to reserve anything. If you want to reserve something for me on your own, that’s great, but I’m not asking you to. And I don’t want anything free. I want to think about it and not be pressured into a sale. If you try to pressure me into a sale, my answer is going to be no.”

“Umm, can I just ask why? What’s the holdback or hesitation?”

“Because that’s how I am.”

Looks and money. That’s what it’s all about. A bad attitude isn’t going to make up for you being broke or unattractive. And honestly, for girls who are just sexually honest and driven by their clit, it’s just about looks.

But at the end of the day, sluts are just little girls who want to feel safe enough to experience love and intimacy with a man in a raw and honest way without feeling unsafe, or guilty, or ashamed, etc.

Besides my wife, I think I’ve only dated three other slutty girls in my life. German/Irish, Greek and Ukrainian.

German/Irish girl wasn’t into me because I was “alpha” or “machismo” or bullshit like that. That’s all redpill bullshit to pretend there is some magic to picking up or having sex with women ... instead of just hitting the fucking gym. She fell in love with my face, my body was good enough for her, and she just wanted to get fucked. The end.

Greek girl, idk. Maybe she thought I was a bit of a bad boy for some odd reason. I definitely didn’t intentionally do anything to reasonably give her that perception. I think that’s just what she wanted, so she saw what she wanted to see. But I legit fell in love with this girl, but all she wanted was just sex. She liked the way I felt inside her, period. With that one, maybe she did end up having sex with other guys because she was looking for an abusive insensitive asshole. Idk.

Ukrainian girl was a hot mess. Again though, she just wanted the novelty of being with a “hot guy.” But she appreciated the fact that I was tender, soft, listened, cared about how she felt and what she had to say, etc. Even if she was playing amateur manipulation games at times, she realized I wasn’t playing, and she cut her shit out on her own.

Except for Greek girl, 3/4 of the “slutty” girls I’ve been with have only appreciated and felt MORE attracted and sexually comfortable with me when I’ve been emotionally honest, open, tender, caring (naturally, not putting on a show), and don’t game them or play hard to get or treat them disrespectfully or like shit.

So, in my experience with “slutty” girls, I’ve found that they just need a man’s complete love more so than other kinds of women. Just appreciate them and love them, and you’ll never have to watch porn or fantasize again.

Title	The sluttier a woman is the more alpha she wants her men
Author	rddxl
Upvotes	11
Comments	38
Date	June 15, 2019 6:20 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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