Flexing on Instagram?

electroloop · 2020-09-21T01:58:11+00:00

Define “hot” photos in the context of a LVM’s perspective.

I highly doubt a LVM will find a “classy” photo of you, dressed fashionable in a tasteful manner as a thirst trap.

Flexing on Instagram is so low brow, especially trying to post thirst traps for male attention. As a HVW, it’s not a good idea.

Mulkvistee · 2020-09-21T02:04:52+00:00

Block. The idea is for them to fuck right off into the void because they don't deserve an ounce of your consideration or effort. Free up that mental space for things and people who add to your life.

ModernDayOracle · 2020-09-21T02:06:22+00:00

Why do you care what LVM exes think? Don't let them live in your head rent free

finalbosskitten · 2020-09-21T02:06:55+00:00

I don't think any of us should make a hobby out of making randoms jealous, especially if it's just with our bodies. All you're gonna maybe succeed at is maybe making a few of them touch themselves. Up to you if you're into that, but are you really in a good frame of mind that doing this would be that good for you? It has winning the battle and losing the war vibes in terms of validation.

dntbfllikeidid · 2020-09-21T02:21:35+00:00

Are you new here? If you are you should 1st read the Handbook. This isn’t the Relationship Advice sub. We don’t encourage petty pickmeisha behavior around here, sis! Wrong sub 🤷🏼‍♀️

ps9939 · 2020-09-21T02:26:16+00:00

Why are these men still able to view your Instagram account? Why are you posting pictures for THEIR attention? Just a hard no all around.

cryptohobo · 2020-09-21T02:32:39+00:00

It’s a bad idea because it distracts you from doing something actually productive with your time.

lhatw · 2020-09-21T02:02:53+00:00

To be honest, depending on the type of man, they may not even respond to this and even if they did it shouldn’t matter because they are a LVM. They already know they lost. It’s a bad idea imho. If anything, they should be blocked. It hurts them more that they don’t even get to see you lol 😊

honeybeeroll · 2020-09-21T02:46:57+00:00

If these guys are LVM, remove them from your instagram then. Only reason to keep them around would be for male validation. FDS is about learning how to not want male validation, since the desire for it often makes women do stupid stuff or put up w/ crap we shouldn't.

You should never post pictures on social media with the intent to make a man jealous, to make him notice you, etc. Actually don't ever do anything at all w/ the intent to make a man jealous, notice you, etc. If you're a real catch, that will come across in the way you dress and present yourself, and men will notice, even if you are not aiming to get their attention. The handbook has a lot of good insight into this sort of thing.

eveninghope · 2020-09-21T02:36:26+00:00

Your approach to this is low value. Live your own life. If you're gonna post on IG, post. Assume these men don't give a shit about you bc they prob don't. Sure, maybe they'll see and think you look good, but they also see dozens of IG girls a day and think they look good too. Who gives a shit.

sewingmachinesavior · 2020-09-21T04:02:27+00:00

Please read the handbook. Doing ANYTHING bc you want to make a man jealous is not the right idea. Ignoring men is FAR FAR more effective than making them jealous. Jealousy is an immature emotion stemming from insecurity.

Title	Flexing on Instagram?
Author	Itiswhatitizzzz272
Upvotes	0
Comments	21
Date	September 21, 2020 1:47 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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