CMV: A relationship with a woman who has had plenty of sexual partners is actually better.

Littleknownfacts · 2017-06-01T17:14:15+00:00

Guys shouldn't if only for one reason.. It makes men insecure. AND THATS OKAY!! Seriously, guys, your allowed to be insecure, your allowed to make decisions based on those insecurities. Insecurity is a perfectly valid human emotion that you are having for a perfectly normal reason!

If men are insecure about a woman's n-count, it doesn't matter how good of a person she is, because his emotions will cast a shadow on their entire relationship and thus decrease the chances for their success... Therefore wasting his time, her time, and a whole lot of emotional energy.

prodigy2throw · 2017-06-01T17:21:20+00:00

Truth is a lot of the disdain for sluts is ego. If I am a guy who's fucked dozens of hot women with very little effort, I probably wouldn't care if a girl I like had hooked up with some guy once or twice. That is, if she did the same with me.

Now if this girl had One night stands in the past but purposely made me wait a few dates for sex I would not be interested. I would feel she isn't as attracted to me as she was with her hookups. Who knows if that's actually the case (it's probably not). Doesn't matter what the truth is. My ego is coming into the mix and I can't look at her in the same way.

There's guys on asktrp who are butthurt because a girl they like had one hookup. And that's because they know deep down they'd never be able to pull off what that guy she fucked did. The only solution really is to fuck a lot of hot women and have a bunch of ONS.

[deleted] · 2017-06-01T17:18:54+00:00

I would agree if nearly every high n-count woman I've known wasn't a notorious cheater.

Doom_and-Gloom · 2017-06-01T17:47:37+00:00

She has already gotten most experiences out of her system. Logically this should mean that if she does choose to be in a relationship with you, she won't feel like she's losing out on anything and won't really be tempted to cheat.

What EXACTLY has she gotten out of her system? And it could also mean that she's looking for a provider and you're just the best she can get.

Given that she has experienced many different men's body types and penis sizes, if she chooses to stay with you then she's basically asserting that out of all the men she has experienced,

Hahaha!

Seriously though, see point 1.

Given that high count women aren't so valued in the SMP, you could hypothetically get a girl above your league if she is high count. She probably has problems getting into a relationship with Chad anyhow so it should be easier for you to take that role.

There's no such thing as a "low-value woman" in the SMP, demand for female sexual consent is as high as it's ever been and the supply has been steadily decreasing over the years. If you think by dating a less-than-ideal gal, you won't have to worry about other men trying to get with her, think again.

4.Obviously the sex will be better. If you're less experienced, then she can teach you exactly what you need to please her and vice versa.

I think a better term here would be "could". She could teach you, but it's my experience that women have little desire or patience to teach much of anything to the men in their lives.

officerkondo · 2017-06-01T18:41:26+00:00

Obviously the sex will be better

Why is this obvious? The much more likely scenario is, "yes, I used to love kinky sex and have wild threesomes with my roommate and my Chad but I'm just not that kind of girl anymore."

camelliafleur · 2017-06-01T17:55:15+00:00

You're probably better off with someone who's similar to you in beliefs and value systems. Slutty women are good with slutty men and so on.

Merger-Arbitrage · 2017-06-01T20:14:57+00:00

Oh lord, not this again. Pure claptrap.

Assuming "plenty" of partners is the top 10%-15% of women by partners (about 10+ @ age 30), then:

She has already gotten most experiences out of her system. Logically this should mean that if she does choose to be in a relationship with you, she won't feel like she's losing out on anything and won't really be tempted to cheat.

Wrong. Women who have a history of more partners are more likely to cheat. Large scale data sets show this. The causation is irrelevant. Its who they are that led to high partner counts and a higher propensity to cheat. These women simply are more likely to cheat on you. Period.

Given that she has experienced many different men's body types and penis sizes, if she chooses to stay with you then she's basically asserting that out of all the men she has experienced, she still likes the way you are physically. There shouldn't be any reason to feel anxious with a sexually experienced girl.

She could be staying with you for any other reason, too, least of which is your package.

Given that high count women aren't so valued in the SMP, you could hypothetically get a girl above your league if she is high count. She probably has problems getting into a relationship with Chad anyhow so it should be easier for you to take that role.

Promiscuous women should actually be highly valued in the "S" MP (sexual / casual). They are probably best avoided in the relationship market, though.

Obviously the sex will be better. If you're less experienced, then she can teach you exactly what you need to please her and vice versa. Do you really expect to find a virgin girl that's willing to play with your ass while giving you a beej? Just lol good luck pal.

Garbage. Of course a virgin might be less knowledgeable (there's also the internet/books to counteract that), but someone who had 1 partner for years could be way better in bed than someone who had 10 STRs. I'm not sure I want anyone playing with my ass, but that's just me.

Ultramegasaurus · Thu Jun 1 17:32:37 2017 UTC

Top cuck

wtknight · 2017-06-01T18:18:05+00:00

I suppose if what you value is getting the best sex, then it's better to be with a high n-woman who appreciates your sexual ability. However, many guys want more out of a relationship than just good sex.

WhiskersNT · 2017-06-01T18:24:46+00:00

Depends how experienced you mean

If you mean roughly as experienced as me, I agree

If you mean "giant slut" who's banged 500 guys, I don't

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[deleted] · 2017-06-01T18:46:49+00:00

If this were all true, I'd still disregard her in favor of girls who didn't reject me in high school. You could be hitting the nail on the head, but I still have an ego. Sorry girls.

mistresswhat · 2017-06-01T22:01:03+00:00

Given that high count women aren't so valued in the SMP, you could hypothetically get a girl above your league if she is high count. She probably has problems getting into a relationship with Chad anyhow so it should be easier for you to take that role.

This isn't really true in my experience. My very high number hasn't really been an issue. TRP tends to overestimate how much most men actually care, and guys who have done their own slutting around tend to care even less than the general population. Sometimes they even see it as a sign of compatibility, since you have the same kind of history and the same attitudes towards sex. Also, those guys often aren't too interested in having a bunch of dates before banging, so they tend to screen out low n-count women who like to wait.

I don't disagree with your other points, though,

greyjonesclub · 2017-06-02T02:43:38+00:00

Yeah another reminder to always lie to males I date about my body count

breakfasttopiates · 2017-06-01T18:45:54+00:00

Obviously the sex will be better. If you're less experienced, then she can teach you

I'm the man I'm the teacher. This is just a core part of my personality. I think its a good thing that sluts exist because like you say maybe some incel guys can punch up out of their league a bit.

But for us men who prefer to be the "teacher" I'll pass.

I don't even find the hot slut type interesting because growing up in poverty there were a ton of these types of girls around, they were my friends and family members in some cases. A cute and chaste/respectable girl is a refreshing sight in this day and age, probably through all ages considering being a slut has always been one of the best economic moves for a beautiful woman.

dohn_st · 2017-06-01T20:06:45+00:00

Will not change your view. You're very smart. Excited to see how your life turns out.

darksoldierk · 2017-06-01T22:16:59+00:00

She has already gotten most experiences out of her system. Logically this should mean that if she does choose to be in a relationship with you, she won't feel like she's losing out on anything and won't really be tempted to cheat.

On the other hand, because she is so experienced, it would be easier for her to cheat. She would likely know how to hide it better and probably wouldn't find it too difficult to justify it since she has slept with so many before.

Given that she has experienced many different men's body types and penis sizes, if she chooses to stay with you then she's basically asserting that out of all the men she has experienced, she still likes the way you are physically. There shouldn't be any reason to feel anxious with a sexually experienced girl.

Or, since she has already experienced other men, she just stopped caring about it. She could be planning on reducing the number of times she has sex so your penis size and physical attributes don't really matter to her anymore. Let me put it this way, lets say you are a car person and love speed. You spend 5 years of your life driving 10-15 different sports cars (assuming you have the means). You take them to tracks on a daily basis, race em with friends (legally, of course), and just enjoy them. After 5 years, it stops being so exciting. It's stops being fun. Then you settle down and buy yourself a Honda civic or van or whatever. It's not like you appreciate the honda civic or the van more, it's just that you aren't planning on driving fast from now on so you get a car that meets your demands from this point on. Every time you get in a car, you will always reminisce about that one car that you drove when you were younger. Similarly, women likely either consciously or subconsciously realise that they don't want to spend their lives on the carousel. They want a beta to have kids with and they start valuing that more, but they likely think back to that one guy they did in college or that one night that was perfect. Which is fine for the woman, but it's not fine for most men. Men don't want to be settled for, they don't want to be used for their money. They don't want to be the civic or the van, they want to be the sports car.

Given that high count women aren't so valued in the SMP, you could hypothetically get a girl above your league if she is high count. She probably has problems getting into a relationship with Chad anyhow so it should be easier for you to take that role.

Yeah, but who wants that woman? Seriously, you would have to be desperate to want someone that no one else wanted for more than a night or two. You would also be taking on a huge risk. Assuming she didn't want a relationship in the past, what's to say she won't change her mind one day and take your kids and money?

Obviously the sex will be better. If you're less experienced, then she can teach you exactly what you need to please her and vice versa. Do you really expect to find a virgin girl that's willing to play with your ass while giving you a beej? Just lol good luck pal.

I don't know what other guys expect, but for me, a part of the fun of sex is finding out about each other's bodies. A part of it is experimenting and playing around. Personally, I don't want someone who knows her body enough to not allow me or want me to experiment with it, and I don't want someone who knows how to please men enough to not want or need to experiment. I don't want a teacher to lead me, I want a partner to learn with me. Hell, in regards to a virgin, I doubt I'd be telling her what I enjoy. I'd likely let her get comfortable with sex then ask her what she wants to try and encourage anything that I can.

Title	CMV: A relationship with a woman who has had plenty of sexual partners is actually better.
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Date	June 1, 2017 5:05 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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