Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (25 March 2017)

AnUndecidedPill · 2017-03-27T01:25:09+00:00

Would incel be taken more seriously by society if it were primarily women the ones being affected by it? like if there were millions of young women out there who couldn't get laid, struggled to find a partner, involuntary virgins, etc and if it was women coming together to form online communities to complain about how much incel sucks, discuss sexual strategy, etc.

If this were the case do you think we'd be seeing the same social backlash against these women the same way there's a social backlash against incel men, or would society be sympathetic and make their issues front page headlines and featured on shows like Oprah or Ellen to discuss the horrible plight of incel women?

thoughts?

cherokee02 · 2017-03-26T20:02:47+00:00

So idk if these things help but I have no experience really when it comes to relationships. I'm 20, i have very little experience. Pathetically I have had more success with girls online in the past. I'm a bit unique from incels in that I used to be very unnattractive in high school and became more attractive in college and after puberty. I could have sex if that's specifically what I wanted and I've denied girls advances before so it's not like I'm a typical incel, I don't feel desperation or anything, I'd just like some advice on where I can meet girls and talk to them and ask them out. I figure if you have your choice of women it makes life easier. I want a relationship because I grew up with a pretty bad family and so I value that much more than just sex or losing ones virginity.

I'm jobless and generally need to get a life going on and some hobbies. I feel like when you're in a cycle you can go ahead and meet people and it's much easier to get something going on. I'm pretty isolated from the world and pretty depressed. I go to community college in NYC but it's really a place for liberals and non whites who don't like whites so I don't feel to comfortable there most of the time. I do know quite a few girls and some friends that are women. But I never had friends growing up of either gender and generally I'm just directionless. Any advice is welcome.

TheGrayPillMan · 2017-03-26T11:44:27+00:00

Has anyone derived any tangible improvement in their life from these threads?

reepbot · 2017-03-26T11:31:26+00:00

What are PPD's opinion on Elliot Rodgers? What did you make of his so called manifesto?

darkmoon09 · 2017-03-25T18:46:40+00:00

The longer one remains incel the worse it gets to deal with. I don't care what anyone else has to say, a 25+ year old virgin is something that's just frowned upon even by the so called "sex positive" crowd. I understand that people try to pretend that it's not a big deal, but the fact is that it is a big deal because it's a sign of maladjustment: it's just not "normal" for someone to still be a virgin after a certain age, it gives the impression that something is "off" about you; for a guy this is practically a death sentence because it's an automatic indication of low-value, it's wearing a sign that says "women won't fuck me". Guys are supposed to be out there spitting game and getting laid, so a guy who fails at this is a guy who can't really be considered a man. If a guy can't get laid it must be because he's some unfuckable lame or weirdo with no game, for guys finding themselves in that situation it only further snowballs their anxieties and insecurities which feeds into the vicious cycle of hopelessness and depression. Hell, even voluntary virgins get frowned upon, Western society just expects you to be fucking at a certain point.

If you're a guy well into your 20s and still a virgin, do yourself a favor and treat yourself to an empathetic and understanding hooker. Seriously, just do it. Get that monkey off your back already. You owe it to yourself. There's no logical reason to continue to be sad and anxious over it if you can help it. It may not necessarily cure you of shyness or social awkwardness, but it will demystify sex and hopefully get you on the right path and the right mindset where you can approach and interact with women without the mental roadblocks and hangups of being a virgin, you'll hopefully be less anxious and more confident when talking to women. But it's really important that you just get virgin monkey off your back, I would even say that it's vital to self-improvement.

LittleWindowpane · 2017-03-28T02:10:19+00:00

"It gets better" is bullshit: you either move to a more hospitable environment, or get better at coping.

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Title	Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (25 March 2017)
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Date	March 25, 2017 6:04 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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