Women like nice guys, just not sensitive, over dramatic queens

[deleted] · 2016-07-31T13:52:20+00:00

[permanently deleted]

XXYukieXX · 2016-07-31T16:59:07+00:00

It's so simple, women like nice guys, but not because they are nice.
In the same way, you would like a car that has four wheels, but not because it has four wheels.

louplop · 2016-07-31T09:39:00+00:00

I have a question for you, I do understand what is a whiny man. But for you what is a feminine man ?

PM-UR-TITS-4-MY-DICK · 2016-07-31T19:53:28+00:00

The problem is that men are not educated like women are when it comes to relationships. This tends to create all sorts of extremes. The real funny thing is how condescending women are towards nice guys, TRP, or incels. As if there is nooo possible reason these dudes should be jaded. They're all just making things up, right? It's pretty easy to understand why some of these dudes look at women as meat bags. They get ridiclued for having problems and basically are forced to be that way.

gasparddelanuit · 2016-07-31T10:35:58+00:00

No, nice men are not particularly attractive to women.

This is confirmed again here (from 24:35), on a BBC Horizon documentary about online dating. The scientific evidence demonstrates that being nice is not an optimal strategy for attracting women.

aanarchist · 2016-07-31T13:29:37+00:00

in my experience, anything less than stoicism and indifference leads to her thinking you're a bitch.

i get it though, sensitive men who feel emotions unwelcome. tell me, where have all the good men gone?

gasparddelanuit · 2016-07-31T10:12:50+00:00

I think you're missing the point of TRP. It's not geared towards incels. It's for anyone male, interested in sexual strategy or optimizing their sex life. Most terpers are either married, in relationships or having sex already.

The point of TRP is to help men increase their individual knowledge and power base in the sexual market place, regardless of where they are starting from. It's not about just having sex or relationships, but raising awareness, mastering your environment, optimizing the sex and relationships you have, and the quality of the women you can pick up, on terms that are advantageous to men.

It's not about the bare minimum of being a beta bux or in dead-bedroom situation, but having the option of living the alpha life if you should so choose. I’m not even a terper and I understand this much.

Princeso_Bubblegum · 2016-07-31T12:41:43+00:00

Why do A LOT of women have a stereotypical 'gay best friend' then? If they hated this kind of man, how can they simultaneously love them? I swear the only reason such gay guys don't have these women in their pockets is because they are gay.

ifelsedowhile · 2016-07-31T14:07:04+00:00

1) women can be timid or have social anxiety problems and their chances to get a partner are a lot higher compared to men's. 2) women still like confident, stoic and assertive guys. they have a low tolerance for weakness and vulnerability in men, feminists included despite all their rhetoric about how men should be able to show their emotions etc. 3) you consider men who have anxiety issues or are socially awkward as over-dramatic and whiny but you wouldn't say the same thing of women with the same issues. that means you are a sexist. BPs along with SJWs and regressive leftists show little if any empathy for men because in their value system men hold institutional power so they have less right to complain.

Entropy-7 · 2016-07-31T14:43:12+00:00

Women settle. Show me a woman in her early 20s who has her man-for-life and I will show you an alpha male or a beta who is the same SMV or lower.

But to note, this comment does not apply to China, lol.

disposable_pants · 2016-07-31T19:00:44+00:00

Women like nice guys

Absolutely! They just aren't particularly interested in having sex with them.

If you actually go outside and look around, you should see a lot of couples walking around... They're usually normal men that don't act like whiny bitches... [women] are open to dating normal men.

How many of the men in these relationships don't get to have sex as often as they'd like? How many of the men in these relationships get constantly roped into doing shit they don't want to do? How many of the men in these relationships can't do half as much stuff as they'd like because their SO nixes it? Yeah, ordinary men can get into relationships, but those relationships are often on the fast track toward nagging wives, quitting poker night with your buddies because the wife says no, and dead bedrooms.

A bad relationship is often worse than no relationship. What's the point of getting laid occasionally if you're selling out your life to do it?

AutoModerator · 2016-07-31T09:09:03+00:00

Attention!

You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message.
For "CMV" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies.
If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
OP you can choose your own flair, just press Flair under your post!

Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion!

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

XXYukieXX · 2016-07-31T09:09:51+00:00

Iunno what flair to give this

XXYukieXX · 2016-07-31T19:22:15+00:00

There's a difference between a "nice guy" and a guy whose nice. At least on forums like this there are.

prostate-apostate · 2016-07-31T20:19:14+00:00

i disagree i don't think woman care if your nice or not , however you need to be somewhat charming , which means that you have to appear to be nice to the person you are trying to date , appearing nice towards someone you want something from doesn't necessary mean that you are nice person , to people whom you have nothing to gain from .

machimus · 2016-07-31T20:22:41+00:00

Oh great, another "nice guys vs. NiceGuys" debate.

lollygagyo · 2016-07-31T20:58:34+00:00

Wow. All of this homophobia + attempts to shame men for being feminine.

Watch your language, mister/missy. You're coming off as kind of hateful over there even if you don't realise it (if you wanna seem hateful, well, more power to you! You're doing an ace job.)

I like nice men -- everybody likes nice people. But if 'nice' is all you bring to the table, then I probably don't like you enough to fuck you or have more than two conversations with you. Most people are baseline 'nice'. It's not enough. You have to get a legit personality for people to actively want to interact with you.

This is true for men and women.

XXYukieXX · 2016-08-01T01:33:16+00:00

Women don't like nice guys. This thread and any other thread in similar vein are just attempts to rationalize their dislike. You can have your bad boys. Cool? Just don't bitch when you're over 30 and unmarried or a single mom or when a relationship with a bad boy ends "bad".

XXYukieXX · 2016-07-31T20:27:18+00:00

If you actually go outside and look around, you should see a lot of couples walking around. The guys aren't all buff, 6'2 men with tattoos.

At least 90% of the couples on my college campus involve the guy being at least semi-muscular and going to the gym a couple times a week.

Title	Women like nice guys, just not sensitive, over dramatic queens
Author	XXYukieXX
Upvotes	11
Comments	124
Date	July 31, 2016 9:09 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/4vgdin/women_like_nice_guys_just_not_sensitive_over/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/women-like-nice-guys-just-not-sensitive-over.273809 https://theredarchive.com/post/273809

Comments