Q4RP: Would you prefer an LTR with a girl who slept with 5 guys who were all less attractive than you, or 1 guy that was a true chad?

cxj · 2016-05-12T03:39:27+00:00

5 worse dudes. Hands the fuck down. I think some people realllllly underestimate the difficulty of competing with one dude like that.

Five worse dudes is probably my best case scenario irl actually.

Villaintine · 2016-05-12T01:53:13+00:00

I'd have to know the specifics of why she thinks she broke up with the ones she did, but I'd probably go with the latter because it seems like in that scenario she was initially overwhelmed by the sexual appeal but there was no long-term appeal, whereas the former- with my value being higher- that she's practicing hypergamy and branch-swinging. I'd be the eighth and so far the best pick, but I certainly wouldn't be the last and she'd swing from me just like she swang to me.

questioningwoman · 2016-05-12T02:24:39+00:00

5 lesser guys

LTRs work best when you are Chad

Heathcliff-- · 2016-05-12T05:30:05+00:00

You want to be her one and only Chad. Don't date an alpha widow, even if you are a better alpha you will be compared to her previous alphas in idealistic ways you can't compete with.

sleuthoftrades · 2016-05-12T05:20:12+00:00

5 guys.

With the five guys, yes her n-count is higher, but I would be more concerned about her cheating with an ex. Chad would just phone her up whenever they were in the same town "just to catch up".

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Nazrath2112 · 2016-05-12T02:19:03+00:00

Simply put, and just talking about your scenario without judgement, Fucking a chick that had a bunch of lower mountain trolls does nothing for me. Fucking a chick who also fucks the Rock does.

Said another way, would I be cool with the cast offs from being the Rocks buddy? You're goddamn right I would.

Entropy-7 · 2016-05-12T03:22:55+00:00

All things being equal (and they never are) I suppose I would take the higher n-count but that is because I went through the drama of having a girlfriend with a low n-count of Chad.

[deleted] · 2016-05-12T04:06:31+00:00

Second option always. Once you alpha a woman she longs for you forever, she can never get over you.

BPremium · 2016-05-12T04:10:39+00:00

Id choose the TLR that had 5 dudes. Competing against a Chad is the equivalent of a hole in 1 on a par 5. Yeah, its technically possible, but the probability is abysmally low.

prodigy2throw · 2016-05-12T05:58:06+00:00

First option. By far.

RandomSurf1 · 2016-05-12T06:23:18+00:00

If she was in a very intense emotional relationship with any guy for a long time its possible that it is her chad.

However I'd still choose the girl with one partner.If she was the one who left him and she didn't get dumped.

funchy · 2016-05-12T08:25:50+00:00

or just 1 or 2 guys, but they were extremely attractive guys (6'5" height, college athlete, total chad).

As a woman that's not my description of an extremely attractive man.

EDIT: For reference, the extremely attractive guy i have in mind would be someone like this

Not my type at all. On a scale of 1 to 10 he's like a 5: meh. I'm not saying he's not attractive to some people. He's just not what I am super attracted to.

And if he's playing a sport seriously enough to be on a team like that, his first loyalty needs to be his team right now. I'm not sure he'd have time to be a good boyfriend during the season. Which is fine if the woman is just looking for a quickie. But in your scenario, you make him sound like the ideal guy.

despisedlove2 · 2016-05-12T01:51:53+00:00

She slept with 5 guys? Exceeds 4. Ideally 2. You would have to be retarded to attempt an LTR with such a girl.

Source: several studies on likelihood of stability of pair bonding.

InformalCriticism · 2016-05-12T03:29:43+00:00

I'm resigned to the fact that the "it's just your turn" mentality is western reality. I think 5 guys is a bit much, just because you should kind of get your bearings after 3, depending on how old you were each time. I mean, 5 guys between 19 and 23 is kind of a high frequency. If you started young, how fast and hard were these changes? I mean, I have a 23 year old at ~3.5 right now, and that seems about right. If it was 5 after 25, that would be a lot more tolerable.

However, compared to the total chad option, she would have to be really worth it; I'm old enough to know that life is full of women; they come out with new models every year, right?

If those were the only options in my life, somehow, I might choose neither, nor. It's just too much effort to really handle those situations - cornered by hypergamy in the flesh on one side and alpha widow on the other? I consider myself lucky enough with a young fit chick who thinks I'm great, and I know she's not a goddamned psycho (yet).

Title	Q4RP: Would you prefer an LTR with a girl who slept with 5 guys who were all less attractive than you, or 1 guy that was a true chad?
Author	oilpainter777
Upvotes	4
Comments	83
Date	May 12, 2016 1:46 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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