Love when men get praised for the bare minimum...on a post about a husband making jokes that got his wife upset and irritated while she is in labor.

NoThisIs-Patrick · 2020-09-30T22:23:50+00:00

"She should've just been happy to have him by her side"

ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!! She's pushing out HIS FUCKING BABY.

"A lot of women these days don't get that at all."

So either, this person means women don't even have men by their side in this moment at all, in which case OH BOY! Are we supposed to be grateful when a man shows up for the birth of his own damn child? Wow! What the fuck! Just because most men are garbage doesn't mean this should be applauded all on its own. You don't ace a fucking exam just for showing up.

OR this person means women don't understand that they should appreciate he bothered to show up. In which case, fuck you and I hope you never breed.

Men literally don't even care about the pain of childbirth or the potential complications. And how dare she be swearing and screaming in pain! How dare she! How dare she need support instead of servicing the very penis that caused this pain for her.

Garbage humans.

CountingDownTheDays5 · 2020-09-30T22:18:21+00:00

I vote we create a device where men can feel the exact pain of labor, and see how they react. Men cannot even handle a common cold. You wife is pushing out a whole human and you complain because she is upset? And then women defend him I cannot.

Summerisle7 · 2020-09-30T22:57:17+00:00

I'm starting to think that in most cases it would be better to go back to the old ways and not have men in the labour and delivery room anymore.

LevelTurbulent · 2020-09-30T22:53:42+00:00

They're upset if a woman is in paint during labor because she's causing stress for someone else? Fuck that, she's the one going through it.

And giving birth is a small thing. Right...

2020-09-30T21:34:00+00:00

Ah yes a lot of excuses for men to be cunts. But being IN FUCKING LABOUR is apparently not a good excuse to maybe have 0 chill. What the actual fuck.

sweetpotatocupcake · 2020-09-30T23:10:08+00:00

I think what pissed me off the most is that one pick me saying if she just CoMmuNicaTeD (while giving labor!!!) He would have known to stop making jokes at her expense. Jeesus Christ.

dkwantsdk · 2020-10-01T06:00:16+00:00

This dude made his wife's labor about him and his feelings. Incredible.

Merryprankstress · 2020-09-30T22:56:04+00:00

A "yaw" is the twisting of a ship or aircraft around a vertical axis sweaty, not a person.

WildTenderness · 2020-09-30T23:32:12+00:00

Oh, I know exactly what post you're talking about 😭 she looked like she was ready to kill. Many men don't know how to offer actual support so they just make jokes like the clowns they are. Ugh.

Hhjjuuy · 2020-10-01T13:28:34+00:00

Stress can stall labour. It can raise your heart rate. It can do a million little shitty things to your body that is likely at its limit while giving birth.

His "jokes" are putting her life and the baby's life at greater risk. Because he feels "nervous" during somebody else's major medical event.

honeybeeroll · 2020-10-01T23:38:48+00:00

A woman needs to communicate that labor is horrific and she doesn't need any stupid shit from her man (or anyone) on top of the pain??? Any excuse for a man lmao

Title	Love when men get praised for the bare minimum...on a post about a husband making jokes that got his wife upset and irritated while she is in labor.
Author	sweetpotatocupcake
Upvotes	113
Comments	20
Date	September 30, 2020 9:27 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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