When talking about lifetime N-counts, I believe most people do not understand how quickly N-count adds up. There is a CDC or similar studies that show the average partner count for women is 4-5. This partner count is ridiculously inaccurate for modern times.

Second, lets look at some math.

Say a woman, goes out once or twice a month, and sleeps with a new guy every month, whom she met while going out. For every year she does this, it adds +12 to her N-count. If a woman goes through college and goes out/hooks up once every 1-2 months, at the end of 4 years her N-count will be 24-48. And she is only 22. Further, if a woman were to, between the ages of 18 and 30 sleep with a new guy once every 2-3 months, her N-count will be between 48-72. If we bump this number up to once per month, the N-count sky rockets to 120.

My view is that, an average N-count of 4-6 makes sense for a girl who does not have any casual sex and is a serial monogamist, such as what most BP women seem to be. However, if a woman engages in casual sex, even just for a phase of a few years, her N-count is WAY higher than that, likely between 25-40. Challenge my view.