RedPillers, what advice will you give to your daughters?

alreadyredschool · 2016-03-01T18:47:10+00:00

Work out, have a healthy diet, skincare addiction is not wrong and focus on your hair, consider an IUD.

Believes don't have to be true to be useful or hurtful. Do away with negative mindsets about yourself, limiting believes won't help you. It is often helpful to blame yourself even if it wasn't your fault. You contribute to every relationship dynamic, don't forget that... and other heuristics

What would you tell them about men?

Some men are better than others, it's not wrong to have preferences.

What would you say they should expect from men?

Good sex, that's the base of a healthy relationship. Measure a relationship mainly by one value: How well you are treated and how happy that makes you.

If I were a girl I would try to find a good partner and LTR him.

Villaintine · 2016-03-01T18:55:35+00:00

Previous threads asking the same question, for reference:

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2c1l96/how_will_yall_raise_your_daughters/

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/29bylg/question_for_rp_dudes_how_many_of_you_have/

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2htyek/trp_men_do_you_have_daughters/

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3rjkyr/how_will_you_raise_your_daughters/

red-triad · 2016-03-01T19:33:28+00:00

I teach my eldest daughter (her sister is too young) to see through all the bullshit and politics. To form her own opinion, to not fall into the PC trap.

I encourage her to make her own choices, but most importantly I teach her that every choice has consequences and if she is not willing to pay the price then she should re-consider. To accept responsibility and not be a victim.

you_done_messed_up · 2016-03-01T20:17:49+00:00

I only have a preteen daughter.

What I'm currently trying to teach her is to try and solve problems without resorting to using her tears, getting herself wrapped up in a victim role and constantly trying to find other people to blame.

DaphneDK · 2016-03-02T04:34:35+00:00

I have teenage daughters. On the topic of sex I tell them that it’s ok to have sex, but sex is not a frivolous activity and don’t debase yourself. Treat yourself with respect, and don’t have sex with men you don’t know intimately and who don’t respect or care for you. I tell them to be feminine and not to try to out-men men. One (younger) I suspect may be into girls. I’ve told her it’s ok but to wait so as not to be locked down into an identity, and later if it’s not a phase, I’ll tell her not to make it the focus and identity of your life. Be a nurse who happened also to be a lesbian, not a lesbian nurse.

Another, who is older, really love kids. I told not to waste her life pursuing a useless barren career. Focus on finding a respectable good man, and have your kids while young and in university. Don’t put off for better career prospects. Work to live, not live for work. It’s such a stupid fucking lie feminism have saddled women with, that a career is the path to happiness. Whoever wished when he was old and looked back that he had worked more. No one ever, that’s who.

All of them I’ve told their mother to teach basic feminine skills. Like cooking and keeping a house. And they seem to be doing pretty ok: happy, respectful, helpful good in school, etc. Most people are not really those stereotypes you see on redpill and various female orientated forums. Just normal people you don’t read about in magazines and newspapers.

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LifterofThings · 2016-03-01T19:21:52+00:00

Would you want them to marry a RedPiller?

Sure, provided he's a family-oriented, LTR-positive RPer.

Beyond that, I will raise my children (male and female) to value their observations over their feelers, to think critically about information from external sources and to expect to take responsibility for their actions by enduring the consequences of said actions.

and if you were a woman yourselves, how would you behave nowadays?

I am a woman, and also an RPer. tbh, embracing TRP hasn't influenced my life greatly outside of my romantic relationship. Knowing how men actually think and feel about things doesn't make me feel stifled or oppressed, and I've never really balked at judgement from people I don't give a shit about. I am more crude and less feminine and have fucked a lot more dudes than TRP suggests I should, but the consequences of these things have been overall pretty acceptable.

Deferring to my bf and showing him respect through my trust and surrendering wasn't something that I'd done before this relationship, but it really puts very little strain on me personally (and this is coming from a serious control freak), and has improved our relationship greatly. I'm more attracted to him, and he loves and dotes on and protects me more than if I were trying to assert myself over him all the time (which I've totally been guilty of doing with other men).

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T0000009 · 2016-03-01T20:16:35+00:00

You're going to hear everything I've already told you, it isn't going to change sugar no matter how many men you ask.

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prodigy2throw · 2016-03-01T20:38:20+00:00

Well first I have to let her decide if she wants to be my daughter or son. Pretty rude to assume don't you think?

lauren_collins · 2016-03-02T04:01:36+00:00

alpha fucks beta bucks?

lolobviously · 2016-03-01T20:08:29+00:00

When you have your own daughters, or if you had any, what kind of advice would you give them? Be a virgin until you get married? Get laid with as many man you want? Find someone rich?

I have a teenage daughter, a high school junior. Overall, the advice her mother and I give her is:

Be nice. Don't be a bitch. Try to have a cheerful, positive outlook on life. Work on things you enjoy and present yourself as optimistic as you can.

Be pretty. Don't cut your hair short. Watch your weight. Wear decent and tastefully applied makeup. Do all you can to improve your physical appearance. Dress femininely, not like a guy. Wear feminine clothes.

Be available and open to boys who are interested in you. Be on the lookout for boys who are interested in you. Learn to recognize who is interested in you and who just wants sex from you. Be very very selective about who you have sex with. I'd rather you were a virgin before you get married, because I think that having sex before you get married will cause you a lot of problems, and will cause you and your eventual husband a lot of problems. You don't have to find a rich man, but you should find a man who you respect, and who loves you, who you are really sexually attracted to, and who has his shit together, and who has figured out what his mission is.

Would you want her to be career oriented or to stay at home?

Either one, whichever works best for her and her husband. I think that she'd prefer to stay at home if that can be done. I think that's best for everyone involved. That cannot always be done, though.

What would you tell them about men? What would you say they should expect from men?

Men are horndogs who want to fuck. If you allow men to treat you however they want to treat you, this is how they'll treat you. They'll use you for sex. If that's all you want from a man, if your expectations are that low, then that's all you'll get from men.

When men have a mission and have their shit together, you'll find one who you're attracted to and who you respect, and who you can make a life with. Being with a man is hard work. They need your appreciation and respect more than anything. Men cannot take ingratitude and bitchiness from their women. If you give a good man your respect and appreciation and gratitude, he'll work his fingers to the bone for you. He'll work himself into an early grave for you. He'll willingly and without a second thought put his body between you and anything that threatens you. He'll do anything for you.

But if you won't do those things for him, if you disrespect him and act like a bitch to him and show ingratitude, if you consistently and persistently refuse him, you'll drive him further and further away from you, until one day you'll wonder what happened to the decent guy you married.

Would you want them to marry a RedPiller?

Depends on the RedPiller. If he's a guy who really wants marriage, and he's got his shit together, and he has a mission, and he loves my daughter, and she respects him and wants him, RedPill and all, then yeah, I would be OK with them marrying.

Thing is, most RedPillers don't want to get married, so most of them would be out of the running for marriage to my daughter. Most of them wouldn't marry anyone, much less my daughter. A lot of them are pissed off, and even more of them are dealing with a lot of hurt, anger and pain from past rejections, problems and issues. They need to get all that shit worked out before they could be husbands. A lot of them don't have their shit together, they don't have their missions worked out, and they don't have enough money. They aren't (yet) suitable husbands for any woman. So no, most RedPill men wouldn't be right for marriage to anyone, much less my daughter.

How would you like your daughter to behave,

See above. Be nice to people. Be cheery and optimistic. Don't be a bitch. Don't act entitled. You're not entitled to anything. You don't have a right to anything from anyone. Be chaste. Be selective about who you have sex with. Keep the N under 5, lifetime.

Be ready and willing to accept a man you respect, whom you're attracted to, and who loves you. Figure all that out BEFORE you marry him. But once you accept him, he's yours, and you're his. Go with him where he goes.

Don't stay with a man you don't really want to have sex with, who doesn't love you, or who you don't respect. Do those guys a favor and don't go out with them or cut them loose. Keep your wits about you. Don't be stupid.

and if you were a woman yourselves, how would you behave nowadays?

Pass.

EDIT: Fuck you BP brigadiers.

hotsweetleather2 · 2016-03-01T18:52:57+00:00

what kind of advice would you give them? Be a virgin until you get married? Get laid with as many man you want? Find someone rich?

I would love to raise my daughters on strong morals and principles.

I would not allow my daughter to mix with the homosexual/lesbian/sex freak crowds.

As Machiavelli said.

"The first method for estimating the intelligence of a ruler is to look at the men he has around him."

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Date	March 1, 2016 6:37 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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