Left over woman doesn't want to be called "strong" or "self-sufficient" she wants to be wifed up.

loneliness-inc · 2020-09-07T14:23:41+00:00

Waaaaaaaaaaaaah......

I'm all alone.... I don't like being independent. I want my communism for two.

Gentlemen, make no mistake. This is what every woman wants! They all want to be taken care of. None of them really want independence.

They want the power and authority of independence, but they don't want the cost. They'll dress it up in big ideals of romanticism or religion, traditional values or women's rights. They'll package and repackage this shit sandwich in contradictory ways until they find one that'll get you to bite.

The only consistency here is hypergamy. Women want to be taken care of and they want more, bigger and better. That's it. The rest is bullshit packaging to gain your investment, commitment and enslavement.

cant-stand_ya · 2020-09-07T03:36:09+00:00

She’s probably obese and has ridiculously high standards thinking she’s still the same hot 18 year old version of herself. It’s petty hard to believe that a woman can’t find dates/relationships these days.

EvilKlownz2 · 2020-09-07T04:17:46+00:00

Relationship early 20's then the carrousel until 30's

This weeks seems to be a bombardment of people I know getting engaged/having babies.

There it is. She is so concerned what other people are doing and she wants to be part of that. Not because she wants it, it's because of the judgement from those people. Now reverse the spot she is in. Married, kids, house and now her friends are getting divorced, now she will too. Girls like her CANNOT think for themselves. it's a hive mind.

Metroid_Zard · 2020-09-07T03:38:09+00:00

If you can’t keep a conversation w/ colleagues going beyond that line of questioning you are definitely the problem.

Redhood616 · 2020-09-07T04:47:03+00:00

Case #374738 of a woman who only wants to get married and have kids because all her friends are getting married and having kids.

And guess who will be getting divorced at 41 to hop back on the cc once all her friends start getting divorced.

ronoda12 · 2020-09-07T05:02:37+00:00

“Actively trying to date”

Translation: Actively trying to bang chad and tyrone

expendable_Henchman · 2020-09-07T03:08:23+00:00

Self sufficient = moving in with parents?

saberwarthog · 2020-09-07T06:27:27+00:00

Ohhhh, so now being strong, independent and having it all like a man is hard, Hun ?

Guess what ?
Welcome to the party sweetheart, you could have been really clever and choose a less perfect guy in your younger days, then you could have grown & created something together, but nope !
So now, as you have chosen to "have it all like a man", learn that lesson : life ain't easy for us, and as this 20th century philosopher said, "you can't always get what you want".

Me2Brah · 2020-09-07T11:21:56+00:00

Posts like this are music to my ears. I never thought that I would feel a gleeful sense of pride when I read posts about millennial women woes, but here I am.

It’s 12:19pm in the UK, I’m already drunk as fuck and I’m smiling like an idiot realising that at 28 so many men around me are getting married and having kids, and while I’m happy for them (genuinely) there’s no amount of peer pressure that would ever make me make the same dumb mistake.

Every man that goes his own way is another woman complaining that she’s still alone, and I sure as hell will drink to that.

malemedicine · 2020-09-07T11:22:31+00:00

It's amazing how many women comment on these posts with "never settle". 🙄

I'll settle for an average looking girl that is a decent cook, is clean, won't bitch at me for everything, enjoys sex, and won't always think she can do better.

These ones got shacked up young.

TXJohn83 · 2020-09-07T05:42:44+00:00

'equally wants to start a relationship' The bitch is an alpha widow, and she can't wrap her little mind around why Chad will not marry her, but Billy keeps throwing rings at her...

42252252 · 2020-09-07T06:16:45+00:00

"It's not a choice!!!1!1!11!!!11111"

Well her last paragraphs clearly stated that she CHOOSES to further waste time on degrees that not only don't increase her attractiveness towards men who look for a wife but much rather decrease your her chances of finding a man since she will have higher standards.

"there were some interesting points made that i need to sit down and ponder some more". I just assume by reading further that none of the "advice" given contained a dose of reality that she would need to appeal to a man for them to "wife her up".

Its a war on reality by this point, eh?

LotBuilder · 2020-09-07T08:08:48+00:00

She has at least 5 guys in the friend zone right now. Boo hoo

Old_snowboarder · 2020-09-07T07:06:12+00:00

'had no connections/luck' - Ah, the old 'I was just plain unlucky' ploy. Saves a whole lot of self examination.

Chgralac73 · 2020-09-07T07:24:43+00:00

yes yes, doubling down on work and getting second degree is totally gonna help with your fertility going down the drain. you go girl!

moroots · 2020-09-07T12:46:23+00:00

this is not a genuine plea for help. its a plea for pity, validation and attention

jchun92 · 2020-09-07T06:38:07+00:00

What I see is a normal woman who is trying to make her life better. Maybe she's obese, have too high standards, unattractive, etc. but it's irrelevant. Whether she eventually ends up with someone or not doesn't matter, it's her problem.

I think it's admirable to stay positive at the end of the day and live life freely in a manner you want even if you don't achieve your goals

martellthacool · 2020-09-07T03:51:19+00:00

LMAO 😂 I need a laugh.

slavetonostalgia · 2020-09-07T08:43:31+00:00

I mean, she doesn't mention anything about herself but there HAS to be reasons to her being single.

She didn't state a single one.

So she is just ranting, not seeking advice. Looking at the edit/update; her rant was answered with the words of encouragement(?), which is not going to help her at all.

Meh.

MrHistoryLesson · 2020-09-07T09:03:50+00:00

It's so sad people like this could go 10 years smoking meth yet still wonder why the hell their teeth are missing...

She states it isnt her choice to have children right now, yet every single thing we as people do is a choice, even if we dont do something. This woman probably did have suitors yet turned everyone down so she could be "free to to find herself on vacations" aka. Going to sunny beach etc. (Dono if you Americans go there - i bet you got nicer places in the Caribean to visit, either way, everyone fucks left and right.

Sake99 · 2020-09-07T10:16:44+00:00

Men ask for solution but woman seeks 'Who else went through this and did you felt'

user_miki · 2020-09-07T13:06:44+00:00

I wish people would stop calling me independent and self sufficient.

I think I need to take some of my own medicine that I constantly give to my students.

So she is a teacher a feminist one that parrot the mantra "Go girl ,you need no man, you are independent" while in hindsight she hates that, she needs people stop saying the same shit back to her.

Notice how attuned with the social environment they are.They feel pain or joy through social connection, if they are disconnected they don't know what to do.

This shows how women really need men, even when they don't realize it.They need men to anchor them in reality to show them direction.

UltimaterializerX · 2020-09-07T12:06:26+00:00

And of course she doesn’t tell anyone what she looks like.

🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

jonayo23 · 2020-09-07T14:04:17+00:00

Third paragraph demonstrates that most women have children just to be on the same page as their female friends, they don´t do it as an informed and well thought-out decision, they don´t seem to think for the long run and prefer to feel good for a little while... and after that they feel regret for years for getting pregnant from Chad, Tyrone or Juan and being left alone with the child... sad

dorballom09 · 2020-09-07T08:11:41+00:00

This is just normal mental growth. A kid will talk about his toys, a teenager will talk about his new games, a young adult will talk about his love-job prospect etc. Its perfectly normal for woman of her age to talk about their married life-kids-husband etc. She will face these type of situation in every girls group of her age unless she joins some hoe girls who don't want relation but only sex.

JZSquared · 2020-09-07T12:38:01+00:00

Women can't admit that their ludicrous standards are keeping them single and childless. They also can't admit that being married and having a family is natural and something that they're biologically wired to desire. Feminism has destroyed the female mind with their contrarian nonsense. They all find out the hard way that you can't fight biology eventually.

Criket · 2020-09-07T13:12:16+00:00

In résumé:

Sour milk had hit the wall and search fine wine.

Zingerius · 2020-09-07T15:07:01+00:00

Gets her life destroyed by career and studying. Wants to study more and focus on her career.

Like how braindead can you be?

someevilwhitemen · 2020-09-07T08:39:34+00:00

the future cat lady is a teacher !!!!!!

poor kids nowadays

neautika · 2020-09-07T10:36:30+00:00

If not physical. High potential cluster B disorder. ...trying to get functional again, get their source so they can get back out in the world and start fuckin it up again.

GoodBoi_JStack · 2020-09-07T14:47:57+00:00

Lol, #metoo is going to morph into a cat lady solidarity movement.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-09-07T15:19:34+00:00

"Waaaah!! I'm a broke ass living at home.. why won't some man wife me up?"

EndTimesDestroyer · 2020-09-07T15:51:59+00:00

This is what happens when you try to balloon your vagina with high volume incoming traffic, rather than high quality outgoing traffic.

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-09-07T20:05:08+00:00

Imagine a man writing this. Imagine a man whining like this

BluepillProfessor · 2020-09-08T14:34:32+00:00

Baby rabies!

Can you smell it?

Smells like old fish, sweat, and bad decsions.

Bing_Bang_Bam · 2020-09-08T01:01:29+00:00

Feminism and old worthless sluts like Jane Fonda sold everyone the independent womyn thing in the media for the last 50 years as a fucking lie.

Machomuk89 · 2020-09-08T23:39:26+00:00

I'd love to meet a woman who was 31 with no kids, but chances are she wouldn't meet my other 2 requirements. No addicts and I have to find her attractive.

Title	Left over woman doesn't want to be called "strong" or "self-sufficient" she wants to be wifed up.
Author	sleepyweaselisawake
Upvotes	353
Comments	110
Date	September 7, 2020 2:56 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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