One of the TRP's stock phrases is the beautifully succinct "She's not yours; it's just your turn." This phrase is used as an illustration and reminder of female hypergamy, and the fact that you can only stall the mechanisms of how women operate, but never defeat them. For that reason, you should never be surprised when a woman branch swings or decides to leave you for whatever reason happens to catch her fancy. It's not your duty to try and win her back or obsess over why and how she left you beyond the point where it improves you. She left, and that's okay. After all, it was just your turn.

I'm offering you a corollary to that saying today. You're not hers, it's just her turn is a reminder to you that you're the prize. It's a fortifier for your abundance mentality. A woman's turn with you can end for any number of reasons, and much like with the original axiom, yours is not to pine over why it ended. Your purpose is to remember that in this game, you're the prize, and for a time, she got to play with the trophy that is you. And when it ends, you simply move onto the next player.

I try to tailor my posts here to the lowest common denominator, because let's face it,the 19-year old who is just entering the anger phase needs this many magnitudes more than /u/vasiliyzaitzev or anyone who already has abundance etched into their dating frame. I've always been sexually successful, and female attention is easy to come by, so for those of you who might not be able to automatically switch over to living with the abundance mindset, here are a few companions to this saying, that you can remind yourself of until you fully embody them:

  • Always be willing to walk away

  • Always engage the woman on your terms (frame) at all times.

  • Spin plates.

  • Never be the one looking for a relationship. If a relationship develops, great, but it is hr onus to initiate the transition from casual to serious.

  • Keep your options open, even in a relationship. No eggs in one basket. Boil them suckers and store them in multiple fridges, ready for consumption at a moment's notice.

Above all, remember that aligning your sexual value to one woman permanently in any sense is a losing endeavour. Always be cognisant of the fact that she's replaceable at any moment in time. After all, you're not hers...