Reference post: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/cwm38o/comment/eyh1nrq?context=3
I believe it’s pretty fucking simple. Wife isn’t attracted. As you can see from a previous post it hasn’t always been this way since dropping the Red Pill. I hit the six month plateau and made the big mistake of making this about her and not me. And it came crashing down big time. Since then working hard with my frame and doing everything for me. Continue on my path of awesomeness and increase my SMV. Gaming women including a 24 HB 7-8. Not fucking them just increase abundance. Nothing I mean nothing changes with the wife.
Read tremendous amounts of info on removing time and attention. The 2/3 rule is where it hit me. She never shows, or rarely, attention or non sexual affection. Btw, sex is there but borderline if not straight up “every wife is a rape victim” offers of starfish. At times I take it a caveman the shit out of her. She’s pissed I initiate and pissed after. It’s an absolute chore for her. Feels as though I’m literally at square one ie pre- red pill.
I’ve seen some effectiveness of removing my attention and time. In fact I keep coming back to just speaking to her concerning logistics only. She wants my attention again she has to earn it. I am not going to keep trying game and smother her with attention to no avail. In fact the ass slaps and teasing now not only pisses her off, which I come off as DGAF, but it’s makes her angry not in a fun way. If that makes sense.
My plan. Remove attention and time. Keep doing my hobbies, gym and friends and wait. What else can I do?
TLDR: Went from 6mo of great red pill gains to at the 9 mo mark seriously stumped on removing time and attention or continue with the same red pill/ alpha qualities that got me to where I then crashed. I believe just need to be doing me and not give one fuck if she ever comes around. Puke over.