Red Flags in Women

onrappel · 2020-12-07T15:44:19+00:00

When her words don’t match her actions.

i-am-the-prize · 2020-12-07T16:24:28+00:00

Too much mean girl gossip, by her.

I get it: women talk. they talk at the same time, and they talk to validate ideas and their worldview, and talk for connection and talk and talk and talk. They can have frenemies. They have competition between thots. That's all normal.

But, when you realize, she talks shit about her friends, with you; she talks shit about her family, with her friends; she talks shit about her X, with Y - without fail; know that she is driven as a person that in order to exalt her own sense of self, she must put others down. She will do so to you, with others; if she hasn't already.

She is emotionally only plate-level-quality, do not LTR a woman who is unable to not talk badly about others.

TheRedPillRipper · 2020-12-07T20:04:51+00:00

Relationships with friends and family is huge. If she has poor relationships with people close to her; what could that indicate about her relationship with you?

Godspeed and good luck!

Stoic-Alpha-01 · 2020-12-07T17:19:00+00:00

If she uses her mother's surname... Daddy issues.

Jiu-Jitsu-addict · 2020-12-07T15:31:19+00:00

If she is a women, it's a red flag. I'm hetrosexual and love vagina, but women these days and social media have more red flags then a Chinese Communist parade. Everyone has lots of them.

Johnnyjakes1981 · 2020-12-07T20:34:05+00:00

Any woman who has been Alpha-Widowed, has children, over 35, not physically fit, has any type of personality disorder (NPD is a big no-no for me), substance abuse issues, lives on social media, constantly seeks validation from men and others, does not have a good relationship with her father (if still alive), I know that really narrows down the pool of options but, it's better to know what you're getting yourself into.

When a woman's actions are congruent with her words, you're off to a good start because, that's rare. I'm actually new to RP (a few months ago) and watching Rich's videos will provide you good information. If you haven't yet, read all of Rollo Tomassi's books in The Rational Male series. That's how I was introduced to RP. My life and outlook and understand of the world around me has changed dramatically for the better ever since.

throwsad39 · 2020-12-07T23:46:41+00:00

What's with all these weird responses?

mental issues
high n count
weird coloured hair
daddy issues
low IQ
Addicted to social media/sexual pics etc
uses dating apps

etc etc

SteveSan82 · 2020-12-08T02:35:18+00:00

Religious women. Women don't actually believe in anything. They just feel things.

hedged6161 · 2020-12-07T20:22:12+00:00

When a woman makes excuses to see her abusive ex.

jrr6415sun · 2020-12-07T20:07:24+00:00

what are the 20 from the book?

7TeenEdgelord7 · 2020-12-07T14:17:55+00:00

Acting very emotional about crimes (saying that these ppl x should be y) and generally ignoring their own ehtics and rules.

She(a friend of mine)is fucking with a dude which she only meet to play around and tells this openly. He is obviously doing the same thing. He dumps her because she is an annoying 12-13 who thinks that she is a 29 for a better girl. She decides to drown his longboard in dirty mud water lets it freeze and shatters it with her friends. Afterwards she runs to me crying how mean he is. I tell her that she is a lunatic because in her mind she is the only person allowed to quit a purely sexual realtionship and doesn't have to follow the rules and her own ethics.

BlueBrye · 2020-12-08T00:00:21+00:00

1 red flag lots of guys friends

Bonus red flag story. Brought a tinder girl home after a 3 hour first date. Said girl checks her phone and answers a call in my kitchen after we had sex a few times (standing there topless). (The phone call is from a drunk guy friend of hers trying to invite her to a hotel at 11pm) While I'm there the conversation on her end is "What are y'all doing?" - "whose all there?"- "so its just 3 guys and 1 girl?" "Is anyone else going?"-"Are y'all having an orgy?". (She tried to make the orgy comment sound like a joke, but I'm 99% sure it wasn't). I should also note in one of our sessions while we we're fucking she said verbatim "it smells like an orgy in here".

Sensitive_Jury_6336 · 2020-12-24T20:35:47+00:00

No female friends, no hobbies or passions. Apart from bitching and complaining.

Only has male friends.

Too close a relationship with mother.

No relationship with father, present or not.

Divorced.

Single mum. Worse: many baby daddies. Watch out for victim card here.

Expects you to pay for everything and never offers to pay.

Clingy, needy and doesn't give you space when you need it.

Moves too fast; too soon.

Feminist, BLM supporter, hates Trump but can not tell you why. Loves Greta.

Depending on age: not studying for a degree, not in a situation of building a career or has no possibility of creating a career of some sort, just the type of job anyone can pick up. It shows that she makes bad decisions in planning in life.

Has a degree but a useless one, like gender studies or the degree she has will not earn her a decent wage.

Not good at communicating and expecting you to read her mind.

A steady pattern of failed relationships.

Victim mentally with no sense of responsibility or inner perspective from past mistakes.

No sense of humour and takes herself very seriously.

Debt.

Tattoos, piercings and unnatural hair colour.

Superficial and wants nice looking this. They don't have to be the stereotype, for example is leasing a big black jeep for 500 quid a month (when salary is 1k), just to look 'cool'.

Stupid with money.

No personality.

Never apologizes for bad behaviour - should have put that up much higher! Along with unsupportive and unsympathetic to your needs.

Has nothing to offer, in reality, only sex. Think Long and Hard about this. As Cooper says, 'If she is only bringing sex to the table, get a different model.' Men want a hot girl, but hot girls don't often need to grow and learn as they get what they want by sex alone.

Be careful with cooking: it's nice to get a good meal, but what value does she bring that is specific to her, not just a chore you would prefer to have done for you.

Again, should be up in the top 3: disrespect, contempt and passive aggressive. Those backhanded insults are her real thoughts and personality.

Expect you to make her: happy, entertain her and provide fiscal security.

Has pets she can not care for.

Doesn't look after herself and watches shite on Netflix. No informative documentary or reading a book.

If she says thing like, 'I'm bored' - RUN. Boring people are bored.

Tries to control you a lot and micromanage you. Should be up higher.

Not happy for your success.

Doesn't like it when you go out with your friends.

Treats you like a child.

Argue about the same things.

Gosh, so many signs, but for both parties a girlfriend and a boyfriend, husband and wife will have flaws, but you should be able to work as a team together and be best friends who laugh together.

SATISFACTION IN THE SACK.

emerre_ · 2020-12-09T08:33:36+00:00

Another one: cracked phone screens

kclanton80 · 2020-12-07T21:57:12+00:00

Male Attention seeking behaviors.

jackcj787 · 2020-12-07T21:59:21+00:00

If a girls mom is crazy, the girl is also probably crazy or will become crazy

Title	Red Flags in Women
Author	emerre_
Upvotes	38
Comments	45
Date	December 7, 2020 1:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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1 red flag lots of guys friends