My younger brother just started constantly teasing my girlfriend... how should I handle this?

vazeline200 · 2020-12-25T19:55:22+00:00

Such pussy passive aggressive responses. Just talk to him and tell him to stop.

spndxwra · 2020-12-25T22:03:12+00:00

welcome to the cold hard shit world. there are some good comments/suggestions in the thread but the raw reality is you cannot control other people... maybe for a time you can make them 'submit' but ultimately, peeps do what peeps wanna do..

if there is attraction there between bro/gf.. what can you do about it ? yeah not much. if she wants to fuk him, she will. nothing u can do about it except move on

...the truth others are not saying - women choose. always did. always do...

IamMrDirty · 2020-12-25T20:33:07+00:00

Here's the fuckin biggest advice I have for you that others don't mention

Your gf is literally just another girl in your life. when you break up with her (let's say she cheats on you with some random dick at the bar) Chances are she will hit up your bro or your bro will hit her up and they'll bang.

The BIGGER ISSUE you got is that your bro doesn't respect you by flirting with your girl cause that's exactly what he's doing(he's not dumb). Don't feel bad this is more common than you think.

So what to do? Well the first thing is mindset. You have fucked up along the way that your bro is not afraid to cross you (fuck u over) which means you need to shift that power balance into your favor

Start fuckin with him every silly bit. Tease him relentlessly and sure as shit dominate physically

Make sure that respect is there. If it's not then tell him straight up to fuck off. And if you are stuck with him in the house don't bring your gf around obviously.

Always be ready to walk away from the table, even for family

AlteredCarbon137 · 2020-12-25T21:42:29+00:00

How old are you two? If he is a teenager then having a talk won’t do anything, he will just tease you more. In that case you can just go with gay jokes like someone else suggested. Or stop bringing your girl over, he isn’t some random friend so a lot of rules don’t apply, brother to brother relationships are a little bit different. Either way, never get mad and actually lash out on him in private, because he probably won’t take it seriously and will bring it up in front of your girl and that’s a big minus in her head.

red__Man · 2020-12-25T21:15:42+00:00

he won't get anywhere unless she sees you as a more pussified beta than your brother, in this case she will fuck him

falecf4 · 2020-12-25T21:41:51+00:00

Dudes getting AMOG'ed by his little bro. Watch out, she's going to go slide into his bed one of these nights.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-12-26T02:06:53+00:00

If he starts being a real pain in the ass, I would needle him on a weak point. Such as ”you’ll have to excuse my brother; he hasn’t seen a woman in years. Other than in porn I mean.”

If your brother reacts strongly in the negative, I would ask him if he wants his teeth cracked. That may seem like an overreaction, but in my family it was always “kill or be killed.”

Lightways434 · 2020-12-26T01:13:53+00:00

Dude sounds scared of his little bro lol. Just pull him aside and tell him to stop or you’ll smack the shit out of him.. simple as that. What a pussified generation we live in

l1ght- · 2020-12-25T22:46:24+00:00

The fact you didn’t mention your age makes this entire thread useless imo.

HumbleTrees · 2020-12-26T02:10:44+00:00

Your gf knows what's going on. A quality woman shuts that shit down in a heart beat. If your gf is willing to entertain this shit FROM YOUR BROTHER and IN FRONT OF YOU, imagine what she's willing to entertain when you aren't there. Let that sink in. If you date low quality woman you'll get high quality drama, like this.

I think by "girlfriend", you mean plate. This one doesn't deserve the title.

Bungeeeeee · 2020-12-25T21:42:43+00:00

So your age is...? I don't want to comment at it as "highschool stuff, get a life, purpose and grow up" if you are like 17 and your brother 15 in which case you just get over it and learn from experience.

If you are like 23+, I'm gonna assume you didn't vet properly and are emotionally more invested than her, have unresolved insecurities, no purpose and this girl is more worth to you than she should be and you are going to break up anyway.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2020-12-25T22:19:52+00:00

Solution:

Keep leveling up, don't show jealous(that's the LAST thing you wanna do),amused mastery, abundance mentality,ignore,agree n amplify, or pressure flip ANY SHIT TEST(his or hers), and focus on LEADING HER TO YOUR AGENDA FOR ANY GIVEN INTERACTION.

Use charisma,strong eye contact,smile, and flirty sly teasing to bait her into going along with YOUR PROGRAM or just caveman the pussy With a slick tooth shit eating grin.

He'll look like a stupid confused child,she'll be turned on,and you'll look like the man while getting that fishbox.

Good luck G

HurricaneHugues · 2020-12-25T18:41:42+00:00

hmm....

Don't have your girl around when your brothers around.

or better yet...

Tell her your brothers gay and keep making gay jokes toward your brother.

Pezotecom · 2020-12-25T22:10:03+00:00

Have you ever told him how do you except friends and family to behave around your girl? If not, then you should do it. If you are clever enough it won't come out as insecure, and even if it does, who cares? jealousy today isn't the product of scarcity, it's the realization that your brother who can get lay literally just paying money CHOOSES to hit on your girl.

There are two takes on this : your brother needs to respect you, but he also has to understands your feelings first. AND your girl isn't (hopefully) retarded, so she also know what's up. Be careful with a girl who won't shut down someone as close to you as your brother. As other have pointed out, try to keep them apart for a while and whenever they start exhibiting a behaviour that you don't like, be rough.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-12-25T19:08:47+00:00

Stop bringing your GF around him.

Ask him why he's not approaching more women.

kncrew · 2020-12-25T22:57:33+00:00

How young? My 13 y/o bro did the same shit with my 20 year old girlfriend. Don’t be a puss and talk to him if it bothers you he’s your brother

Chi-Cam · 2020-12-26T00:54:02+00:00

One IF YOU aren’t happy, talk to your brother and set boundaries. You and him are blood act like it.

Two, look he’s your brother for crying out loud. You know him best. Does your damn brother seem like the guy to straight up sex your GF in front of you? If not. Why are you being so jealous for? If he is then why did you bring the girl there in the first place?????

Lastly, constantly making eye contact while trying to make someone laugh is normal unless you mean he is staring at her and is giving off sexual tension then I see.

Anyways, there needs to be more info and specifics to really know how we can help you. I’m not tryna to push you down but we just need a little more context and details to help you more. Reply back to me if you can, seems like this is really bothering you.

idevastate · 2020-12-26T02:22:35+00:00

What would a male of an animal species do if he saw this behavior? He'd make sure his little brother knew his place in the pecking order.

PurpleLemon4de · 2020-12-26T04:23:31+00:00

He’s younger than you stop being a fucking pussy. Confront him about it, push him around if you need to. The older sibling is supposed to be stronger, if he won’t stop messing around open up the good can of ol reliable whoop ass.

FamilyLegacyWealth · 2020-12-26T05:25:54+00:00

Family Over Hoes Bro, He's Your Brother Chill The Fuck Out And Have Some Abundance

A better title for this would be : "I have no Abundance And I'm blaming My Own Family For This"

HurricaneHugues · 2020-12-25T23:22:47+00:00

How old are you 3? Pull him in private and tell him that what he's doing is weak, shows a lack of abundance, and can lead to him getting his ass beat or even killed if he does it to other guys who are NOT you. Some guys are weak and super jealous and will fit into a rage git over shit like that.

MeshackAjax · 2020-12-26T01:37:27+00:00

Seems like your younger brother's more alpha than you. But seriously what's with this question man? Like you can't take care of your sibling, how do you expect you are gonna take of your girl in front of strangers hitting on her? Instead of crying on reddit, be affirmative.

Rock_Granite · 2020-12-26T00:33:27+00:00

If your GF is really into you, she would be shutting your brother down. Women who really want you will make it very clear by how they handle other men, including your brother.

In any event you are the older brother. Tell little brother to go away. When you lead the way on this your girl will feel freer to also tell him off.

yvnglucifer · 2020-12-26T02:21:05+00:00

Beat your little brother up pussy

MeshackAjax · 2020-12-26T05:57:44+00:00

Sounds like this is the first time your bro found a girl in an environment where he's not scared of getting embarrassed or get shamed if he talked to her, it just like your friend turning into a comedian when your girl is around.

Before confronting him or stop bringing your gf to your house. Teach your bro the RP, take him to a bar and make him approach some chicks, help him to get rid of the approach anxiety and teach him how to talk to chicks and get them. At the end of the he's your bro, not just a random guy in the bar who's trying to AMOG you, in such case you just have be entitled with your chick and move her elsewhere. Your bro is immature and does not know what will happen if he flirts with other people's gf until he gets his own.

If you confront him about it, he'll just bring it up in front your chick, cuz he just wants to look good in front of a chick. If you embarrass him in front your chick or beat him up, that will ruin your relationship with him and bringing any of your chicks home where he lives will be awkward.

Manuel_S · 2020-12-26T07:08:51+00:00

OP you have a problem with your brother.

A guy can certainly go after girls who have boyfriends, but only a piece of shit goes after the women of his friends - much less his brother.

Sorry man, girls come and go, but you have a close-to-home problem there in your relationship - and his character.

RPOpenUp · 2020-12-26T07:45:48+00:00

After two days of similar jokes, the idea that they can’t stand each other in a jocking way has settled. I’m not stupid, I know what men try to accomplish by doing this...

Then who's the fool here

NobodyP1 · 2020-12-26T08:09:15+00:00

Why does it matter it’s cute. Jealous of your little brother🙄

BurnYourFlag · 2020-12-26T20:10:55+00:00

Confront your brother about it and tell him you don't think it is acceptable and disrespectful to you as well. I run into casual disrespect from my relatives at family holidays and I always pull them off to the side and speak to them about it. Be firm not angry and control yourself. Make sure you maintain eye contact and don't let them joke out of it. If they continue to make comments point out every single one and ask what did you mean by that? In front of everyone.

If he don't respond to a simple that is disrespectful cut it out, then kick his ass.

HunchoTina · 2020-12-31T09:52:28+00:00

Bro, Shut That Shit Down!!

It doesn't matter if he hasn't seen any piece of ass for a while or none at all. The fact that he's doing this shows you that he does not respect you. Why you acting like he "suddenly forgot" that you're family? If you can't disarm own little brother, what of the AMOGs of the world? Set some fucking boundaries

yaboyebeatz · 2020-12-25T22:03:20+00:00

Tell your bro to chill and be dominate doing so. As for your gf, she’s going to do whatever she wants, you cannot control her and she does not belong to you. If you already understood female nature you would know how to handle the situation. Best thing to do is cut ties, no need to explain to her because you’ll start sounding like a beta bitch. You show her you don’t need her, and continue to do your thing. If she comes crawling back, you keep her around for guts and nothing else. Don’t let your emotions control you and most importantly, don’t let anyone disrespect you, family, friends and definitely your gf.

Greaterbird · 2020-12-26T01:30:45+00:00

If he's hot, bring him in for a threeway

plainbread11 · 2020-12-26T04:59:51+00:00

OP why tf are you scared of your little bro, like instead of being jealous/like an overbearing shit, work on your relationship and trust issues and solidify things with your girlfriend.

I’ve had my girlfriend around guys before and they’ve tried making her laugh and sure, she has. But at the end of the day, she comes to me. I have no fears. Be more like that.

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-12-25T23:11:31+00:00

Is he fucking her? No? Then shut the fuck up then 😂

Philmckrackin6916 · 2020-12-25T23:14:31+00:00

Ssshhhh

crew6dawg0 · 2020-12-26T02:25:16+00:00

Bang your bro in the butt infront of your girl, dump your girl, and ghost them both.

Title	My younger brother just started constantly teasing my girlfriend... how should I handle this?
Author	lestryx
Upvotes	107
Comments	66
Date	December 25, 2020 6:14 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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