I posted a thread '90-95% of men are undateable' the reason why the number is so high, is because it includes men who watch porn.

The comment section is full of men stating these standards are too high and the list on exclusions are too long.

What is interesting, is when women are in bad relationships with men who aren't treating them with respect, meeting their needs, or harming them in some way, the woman is often blamed for 'being with him' and not 'vetting good enough' in the first place

How are women supposed to 'win' in these scenarios? if we end up with a bad man, it's our fault for not having standards high enough.

BUT when we have ANY standards, even basic ones, we are told we are asking for too much?!