http://nypost.com/2015/08/26/my-wife-was-addicted-to-ashley-madison/

TLDR: Quintessential BetaBux discovered his wife was on Ashley Madison and reveals all to a reporter. When you read the story through an RP lens, you can see clearly see how this happened. The guy expected a Disney marriage and instead witnessed feral hypergamy as we here describe every day.

|When I heard about the Ashley Madison security breach last week, the first thing I did was check out everyone who signed up in my neighborhood.

Ok... the guy was curious. Although I bet there must have been something else that made him investigate his own zip code, a splinter in his brain, something the hamster could not resolve.

|And then there was my wife of 19 years. Or soon-to-be ex-wife, I should say.

oops. fuck.

|Her profile, “attached female seeking male,” read: “Not looking to blow up my life … I am looking to stretch my wings a bit and fly a bit farther.

That is girl talk for: I want to get fucked like an animal by really hot guys and keep my husband around to pay for my lifestyle.

|My wife, to put it bluntly, was a cold fish in bed throughout our nearly two decades of marriage, so it was devastating to see her explicit fantasies laid out there so unabashedly. When we were together, she wasn’t into oral stuff, she wasn’t into kinky stuff — but on the site, she checked all the boxes: “I like to give oral,” “I like to get oral.”

We have seen this story a 1000 times. She isnt "low libido", tired from the kids, or stressed out. She is bored and not attracted to her husband. He is too familiar and safe, he doesn't generate tingles.

|Had you asked me two years ago if I ever imagined S would cheat on me, no less on a site like Ashley Madison, the answer would have been a vehement no.

Because he was plugged in and only saw what he wanted to see.

|We were a vanilla family, which was fine with me. We had two beautiful boys, now 11 and 16, and had typical dinners out and vacations up and down the coast of California and to visit S’ family.

Women dont want that. They say they want it, but really they want to chase a better man and be manhandled.

|In the fall of 2013, we were going through a rough patch.....We decided to go to marriage counseling.

NEVER works. The man shares his feelings and simultaneously kills attraction. He is told to communicate more when he should be doing the exact opposite. Therapy is an invitation to enter HER frame.

|Not that it was doing much good. She had started wearing fishnet stockings out for drinks with the girls

Not just the girls...Chad. And Brad & Thad and probably Luke.

|When you’re betrayed in this way, to this degree, you become traumatized and experience post-traumatic stress disorder symptoms.

Yea.. because you don't make a woman the center of your life. EVER.

The story is over with a divorce and new girlfriend. This guy should have hit the lows necessary to find TRP. Will we see him here?

|Now I understand what love is. It’s when someone appreciates you for who you actually are, and has your back. And when you’re not with them, you feel like something’s missing. And you can trust them with your life.

Nope. Not yet anyway.