Intro

I would consider myself an [upper 10% male,] (http://imgur.com/A8plSwf) though my ego could be talking for me. I live in New Hampshire, which is mostly rural. I would say this probably means my results are drastically different from those of you who live in the city. Over the course of 3 months, I garnered [1547] (http://imgur.com/SVpwSbZ) matches with girls I would consider 6 or above with a 30 mile radius. I tried what I consider 3 methods of approach, with mixing of strategies in-between to experiment.

Only 25ish% of the girls messaged were down for a date. This deals with the success of the strategies used after getting a date.

The Approaches

  • Overtly aggressive. I would either message first or respond with very strong interest with specific intent. Messages in this category were along the lines of "Make sure to bring a hot girlfriend with you, I'll only accept a minimum of two girls worshiping my cock" to "Your facial expressions scream anal on the first date." These messages were almost entirely sexual in nature and left absolutely no doubt about what I wanted. Going success rate for this category was about 5-10% Lots of girls unmatched me or tried to start internet fights. The skanks, however, loved it.

  • Moderate approach. This usually involved reading their profile's bio (if there was one) and a little push/pull. It employs both aggressive nature, but supplicates with surgical sensitivity. I'd throw in some cheeky lines "Can I bribe you for your number with a beer?" typically followed by a number. "If that's what a beer gets me, what's a fifth of vodka worth?" Shit like that. Lighthearted, not overtly over the top in nature. This approach usually gets you a date with a girl (expect anywhere from $5-10 out of pocket). Once you are face to face though, it's pretty easily to f-close or escalate if your game is decent. You cease to exist as another face on her phone and are real. That's most of the battle. This method probably got me in bed with the girl 25-35% of the time. By far the highest success rate of the methods.

  • Passive (beta) approach. This approach usually involved talking back and forth for a couple of days to get a number, if I ever got one. The girl gets comfortable with you, but is undoubtedly being railed by Chad while she's telling you all about her 8 hour shift at stupid-mart. Most of the time you become filler for her instagram, snapchat, or are the emotional tampon on call. This approach will get you in bed with a girl 2-4% of the time. It was the weakest of all methods in terms of getting what I wanted.

Takeaway

Going "full alpha" and never compromising will get you in bed with girls, but most will not actively accept being your personal slut if it's obvious that's what they are going to be. On the flipside, being a spineless beta is even worse.

The happy medium, or balancing act was the most successful in terms of getting girls into bed, or setting up future dates with them. Brushing up on game, keeping well groomed and having an atmosphere of fun all help. Expect to shell out a bit of cash on dates. Look at it like most activities that are fun; they cost a little money. Women are no different.

Also, if you meet them for drinks, get dirty martinis with either grey goose, titos, or belvedere. It was a smash hit on my tinder dates.