You can't even have more money then her now.

dumbwaeguk · 2019-09-06T07:35:20+00:00

Just a note that r/AITA is TA for getting pissed off whenever r/MGTOW crossposts one of their thread and locks them. First, because it's not the OP's fault that r/MGTOW decides to weigh in. Second, because there's no reason why MGTOW people shouldn't weigh in as a group. After all, r/AITA is predominantly women and pro-woman lefties, so the small influx of pro-man voters wouldn't do more than slightly balance the opinions, which is what people really need when they're figuring out where their opinion stands. It's not like r/AITA is real morality anyway, it's just "did I win this argument or not," so maybe they're afraid that people could win an argument with a worldview that doesn't conform to that of 20-something coastal liberals arts graduates.

CuntMonteCristo · 2019-09-06T08:14:14+00:00

Your money is our money and my money is my money

starkfuture · 2019-09-06T07:14:23+00:00

There is nothing fair in marriage. Being a lawyer he should have known that. 8 years in she can probably claim lifetime alimony if it is cuckfornia.

throwaway22558 · 2019-09-06T07:47:57+00:00

what the fuck is wrong with people? i mean in a perfect world, everything should be shared sure but obviously she didn't do that.

suddenly when the husband treats the wife the same way the wife treated the husband, its "keeping score" and asshole-ish? and both need counciling?

kill me. just fucking shoot me in the fucking face. get me off this fucking planet because people cannot POSSIBLY have this lack of self-awareness.

Adast_Adamov · 2019-09-06T07:26:50+00:00

People in comments say that agreement was okay before since gap between their wages was smaller and now it isn't fair. I disagree with that. Money mattered more when he was a student than when he became a professional.

Krazyrobus · 2019-09-06T08:26:08+00:00

Lol, holding women to standards they create and they can't handle it, what a shocker.

Tonyb33 · 2019-09-06T08:23:11+00:00

This is a classic woman’s behaviour. I have even been in a situation where due to my contacting I tend to get feast or famine. When I have been flush she always had a plan to spend the extra money, when I was out of contract she kept up a stream of bullshit excuses why money wouldn’t go the other way. You could actually see briffaults law in operation she knew when I was in contract I earned 4 times what she did out of contract she gave me support when savings ran low. You could almost see her calculate the likelihood of a new contract.

PhoenixRising-MGTOW · 2019-09-06T11:20:34+00:00

And why is it again that men continue getting in committed relationships?? All these relationships have to offer is abuse towards men. Pump and dump, watch porn, or get a whore. Why commit to a used up narcissistic, arrogant, entitled, mentality ill slut?? Why?

Gemjab · 2019-09-06T13:52:52+00:00

LOL, that's funny.

Actually the same thing happened to me in my first marriage, her family demanded that we had a prenup since:

they were a well off enough while my family was poor;
I was making less money than my future wife
I was putting myself through college

so the prenut called for:

separate finances: checking account, savings and debt
equal contribution to family expenses
in case of divorce no claims on future earnings or inheritances
specified that I was to bear the cost of my education on my own and it was not part of the family expenses

Well, when we divorced:

wife had accumulated a lot of debt I was debt free since I financed my education by working my ass off with multiple jobs (full time + part time); while gong to school part-time
I was making more then her, not much but some
I was about to graduate from college with good prospects for new job opportunities

So they tried to amend and reverse the agreement. The Judge, a woman, in the divorce looked at the separation agreement where I had no debt allocated to me and all the debt was to her; and where we split the common assets in half (whatever crap we owned in our rented apartment) and how I has savings (not much) and she had nothing.

So the judge asked me and I told her that it was her family's decision that we had separate finances, so we did. I put myself through school and contributed to the family expenses with no debt while having oower income; while my wife run up her debt while having less expenses and higher income.

The judge looked at my wife, asked her if that was the case, my wife confirmed it all.

it wasn't much, we had no assets aside from the stuff in our apartment, my savings were less than 10K and her debt was just about 10K.

Judge shook her head, and confirmed everything.

Later on wife's family tried to sue me for alimony once I was making a lot more money, but my lawyers told them that we would be willing to re-consider that if they were open to share future inheritance. That became a mute point, and we all went our own way.

misfits2025 · 2019-09-06T12:11:51+00:00

Shocking how when the script flips, she suddenly wants to renegotiate.

I say keep your money dude, and kick that black widow to the curb.

SologamousMonk · 2019-09-06T11:38:03+00:00

Again, so banal. If you can just play the 'Reverse the Genders' game and expect a wholly different shoddily-rationalized conclusion, then there is no good faith analysis occurring. It is just 'woman good, man bad' presupposed and then lazily and speciously supported post-hoc.

Burnvictim-Chad · 2019-09-06T12:20:33+00:00

He should be enjoying every moment of this. I'd throw it in her face every chance i could.

[deleted] · 2019-09-06T13:41:45+00:00

Jesus Christ. They're saying he sucks for adhering to the rules she set out that no longer give her an advantage.

My god I fucking hate this website.

shun2311 · 2019-09-06T12:09:08+00:00

Disgusting cunts locked down the thread

[deleted] · 2019-09-06T15:17:17+00:00

The comments are absolutely disgusting. (Not direct quotes but they read like that)

"She earned more and wanted to keep more for herself? That's fine!"

"HOLD UP, YOU ARE EARNING MORE NOW AND WANT TO KEEP THAT ARRANGEMENT? YOU FUCKING PIG"

Fucking simps.

selfism_mike · 2019-09-06T13:28:53+00:00

Yes, you can.

The world would be a happier place if men would pay more attention to what goes into bitches mouths, and less to what comes out of it.

FutureSquall · 2019-09-06T15:16:03+00:00

Of course the knights locked it down.

Stahlboden · 2019-09-06T15:29:09+00:00

You sow in your bed, now you reap in it

Ibelieveallwomen · 2019-09-06T16:41:56+00:00

Women are terribly short sighted and selfish.

lonewolfhistory · 2019-09-06T17:17:19+00:00

I honestly don't understand how he was the asshole? He wasn't keeping score or being petty, he was being consistent and fair. Can someone explain this to me, am I missing something here

michealjcaboose87 · 2019-09-06T17:44:33+00:00

I wondered WTF happen. r/madlad

Thermotastic · 2019-09-06T21:11:09+00:00

Women will use it as an excuse to fuck you over.

DrJamming · 2019-09-06T14:55:29+00:00

Yeah, cucked as hell. "It was a bad idea, you should stop". When she was on the good end of the deal it wasn't a problem. Now that things swung in his favour - NOW it's a problem and should be solved.

Thread is locked else i would reply to him "No you're not, and that's your problem. Start being an a-hole and enjoying your life!"

Zcuzz · 2019-09-06T15:08:41+00:00

NTA. I relate this to a situation I had once.

I was in a long distance relationship and the girl suggested we try and open relationship. Long story short, she got IRATE when she found out I was actually sleeping around. If she were honest about things, she would've just said she wanted to sleep with other people and expected me to remain monogamous.

Any person who wants to back out of a situation they proposed when it no longer favors them is DEFINITELY THE ASSHOLE.

[deleted] · 2019-09-06T19:27:00+00:00

I read a post or two from that sub once per day. Reiterates the fact that I made the right decision to not get married or live with another woman, ever again.

WanderlustYouth · 2019-09-07T17:55:42+00:00

God i hate cucks/women so much, here's the highest response:

"ESH. Is this tit-for-tat counting nickels really the way you want to approach your marriage? Get some couples therapy and talk this out. Talk about how you felt when she didn’t share with you and maybe she can share why it was important to her then but she feels differently now. Sounds like you both need to grow up."

Yeah had this been the other way around i HIGHLY doubt this would be the response. Also he's done nothing wrong, he's honoring the deal that SHE made, if the dumb cunt wants more money she better start working her ass off.

Title	You can't even have more money then her now.
Author	killerbee3900
Upvotes	153
Comments	73
Date	September 6, 2019 7:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/d0d8j9/you_cant_even_have_more_money_then_her_now/
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