This is a short post to just remind those who are still on the fence about being redpill. If you still have that magical idea of a relationship lasting forever and going into marriage and kids, etc., then you are still selling yourself a sad, miserable dream.

I dated this girl awhile back, and we started off great. That lust phase was strong. She was smaller back then too, kept herself up for me, made sure I was a priority. All she talked about was marriage and kids one day with me. I thought we were in love. Then the orbiters. The guys she kept around through text. The so-called "friends" that she's known for some time. I knew it was weird and suspicious that she kept herself busy on her phone all the time. I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt on many occasions. But giving yourself to someone on a deeper level will always make you vunerable, and gives away your power. Once the truth is verified, once you see the texts with your own eyes, you can just feel your heart die a slow death. You realize her words and her actions never made since, and never synced. She never tells you how she really feels, that she really loves someone else too. You realize how right you were to just fuck and pass, and never get too attached. You take the red pill.

This isn't to say that relationships can't work. Only if two people are always on the same page will it truly be effective. But if a woman still keeps orbiters around, it's for a reason. Women are natural attention whores. They thrive off having men desire them to boost their self esteem. So never take it to heart. Learn from it. If she gets paranoid about you talking to other women, but does the same herself when your back is turned, then she's exactly who she shows herself to be.

Women these days are more like men in that they're players, but they tend to be emotional players, rather than physical like men. We seek to fuck them, they want to "feel" loved and special, regardless of whether it's a man or woman. They are emotional vampires, waiting to drain you of whatever power you have in your soul. Give them a fraction of yourself, but never the whole of you.