Preface
Went to a Forró dancing party last weekend all alone, just enjoying myself and the music. I have been dancing Forró and Salsa for nearly a year now. The social dancing scene is growing rappidly in my city, luckily with a shortage of guys playing in my favor. I'm nowhere near the professional level, but there have been at least 5 girls who, when they see me at a given dance party, come around and ask me to dance. The usual setup is that the guy asks the girl out, so to experience the flip is very gratifying and assuring of the progress I made, in dancing as well as in lifting I presume (a good posture is very important for leading).
Towards the end of the evening, one of the girls danced with me 3 songs in a row, not letting me go. She is an HB7 by looks alone, but would boost her up to HB8 simply because of her joyful character and dancing skills. At the end of the song, she held my arms as to not go away to another lady yet to dance with and started chatting, talking about how comfortable she finds it to dance with me, unlike many other guys, etc. Also, in the small conversation window, she told me that she was considering getting a tattoo.
The fuck up
I find tattoos utterly disgusting, especially on women, and I rather deem it to be a mark of a slut. Don't really know why to be honest. I tilted my head and, with a voice of concern told her:"you really shouldn't do that!"
Her demeanor changed from being this vibrant, pleasant, sexy being, to a girl on the defensive. She then said "well it's really just a small one on the ankle, nothing major."
I continued with the same line of showing concern, like a subconcious schtick. She has visibly changed her attitude towards me. She gave me a thank you hug for the dances, and went on her way to dance with other guys for the rest of the night.
Lesson Learned
- She doesn't want to be saved
She was a safe score, yet I fucked it up because there is still a portion of blue pill inside of me; a portion that tells me to care for her, to be there for her, to guide her away from making mistakes. Should have shown excitement and moved on.
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