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What they don't understand is that nagging only decreases efficiency. Once again, they are their own worst enemy.
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My mom was an abusive nag.
I decided to wait 3 minutes after being asked to do something before I'd do it. More than a reasonable amount of time. "Take out the trash!" - that can wait 3 minutes, hell it can wait an hour.
If she "reminded" (it's not nagging, it's just mommy "reminding" you, "all mothers are like this!") me, I'd add 2 minutes to the timer.
I had a stopwatch and everything.
Shit wouldn't get done for hours........
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Gods! That shit used to piss me off. My ex never lifted a goddamn finger around the house. I mowed the lawn, I cleared snow in the winter. I maintained the vehicles. I did laundry, took out the garbage and usually cooked when she didn't just order takeout while I was outside working.
But I so much dared to ask her to make me a sandwich after I got up at 0600hrs to replace the carb. on the mower before spending the rest of my morning mowing the lawn I was met with "I'm not your SLAVE!!!!"
Well of course not, if you were my slave you'd be mowing the lawn in the hot sun while I sipped shandies on the back deck and fucked around on my phone.
But the thing that pissed me off the most was when she would act like a "strong, independent womyn" and tell all her friends "WE mowed the lawn this morning and then WE fixed the car... I'm sooooooo tired." Bitch you didn't do shit. Your contribution to mowing the lawn was to walk over, tell me I should cut it shorter and then walk back to your shandy in the shade. Your contribution to fixing the car was to ask how much each part costs and then complain and ask if we really need to replace the brake lines. Now you're telling your friends you're "sooooo tired" after all that "work" "we" did. Don't take credit for my shit.
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Not gonna lie, you sound like one of the good ones so don't feel bad about literally not being able to "do the heavy lifting." Hell, I'm a 6'3", 230lb Marine Engineer who works on a 220' shrimp trawler. My Second Engineer (my boss, since I'm Fourth Engineer) is 5'3", 140lbs so obviously he can't lift as much as I can, but we're a team. You give us ANY job on that ship and we can fix that fucker because, as you say, we play to our strengths. If something heavy needs to be bolted up then I'll lift the fucker into place while he slaps the bolts in and secures it. If something needs fixing down in the bilge (ugly, dirty, foul-smelling place under the deck plates in the engine room where no one likes to go) where I physically cannot fit, he'll jump down there while I hand him tools and hold the flashlight. There's no "rank and privilege" when shit needs to get done.
But then I'd get home and my house is in shit state. The lawn is up to my knees because she, "doesn't know how to start the lawnmower." Bullshit, I've shown her, I've had her do it herself, but suddenly she forgets when it's convenient.
Then I walk in MY house and there's dishes piled in the sink, dirty laundry scattered everywhere, the floors are filthy and the bathroom looks like a bomb went off. So I'd get to work. Just spent six weeks off the coast of Labrador enduring Feb/March storms, working a minimum of 84 hours a week on four to five hours of sleep per day if I'm lucky and the ship isn't busting through pack-ice so it sounds like a battle is raging under my bunk complete with machine guns, grenades, mortars and the occasional heavy artillery strike. But yeah, let me spend my first two or three days at home getting my house into a livable state again. And don't DARE ask her for a sandwich, because she's "not your SLAVE!!!!!"
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I’m lucky that my current girl is better at using tools than I am. Seriously I could hand her the most complex ikea furniture, go have a beer or two and come back to a fully assembled wardrobe and bed.
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what model is this? a mazda what?
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I don't know much about cars - are there advantages to cleaning like this or is it mostly aesthetic?
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