Older Feminist English teacher is harassing me. Don't know what to do.

cover20 · 2016-01-13T02:06:45+00:00

You have a clear case of retaliation here. Document it and use it, a little bit, before it goes away. It's all you've got.

If she's going to sit you separate and do all that other stuff allegedly because of some other stuff long ago, but actually right after you asked her a perfectly acceptable academic question, then a reasonable person (cops, the public, authorities in general including school admins who want to keep their jobs) will admit it looks like she's retaliating. She's not allowed to do that.

I would report this incident to her boss, the principal, something like that. Explain it in a way the retaliation is clear to see, in writing. Then, stop. Do nothing more. Don't "push your advantage" or "look for closure" or anything else. Shut up and expect fair treatment. I am 99% sure it will magically return.

Then keep your head down, do your work, don't make waves and document things as needed.

You have to make the case to authorities first. I know exactly what you did. You did not "use" SJW language, you "misused" it. And that is a big sin. However it is only a sin if the situation can be covered up. Hence you must document.

Just keeping your nose clean without the documentation step, in writing to an administrator, will not work. Because you've shown you're slick and clever by misusing SJW language, and that you don't stand in awe of the same things they do. She'll never like you, but like a girl who can cry "rape", she will understand that if you know how to make an administrative complaint, you know the game enough that she'd better pull in her claws and find a new victim to abuse.

Personal anecdote: I did this in college in a literature course. I used an argument from a couple of weeks ago, about a previous book we had read, to make a point against the teacher's tendency on this new book we were reading. I had the feeling in the pit of my stomach that I was doing something dangerous, as I did it. (But in engineering we are supposed to use principles in unfamiliar situations, it's called creativity.) Her only response was that I was "misusing" that argument. (She could say nothing more, because I was logically correct.) That very day I went to the registrar and dropped that course, because such "teaching" is worse than worthless. Fortunately it was early in the semester and I could pick up another course instead.

Troll_Name · 2016-01-13T01:31:46+00:00

First things first: you know your dad better than us. Is he right-wing? Inform him the instructor is a feminazi. Is your father a feminazi? Brush his ass off like the rest of the world does.

Is this high school or college? If it's college, drop her course NOW. Full time college instructors are bureaucrats with their own little domain to rule, if you want to get ahead in life then don't spend your life trying to fight them.

Thotwrecker · 2016-01-13T01:56:55+00:00

I will tell you exactly what to do. You're not going to like it, but I got wisdom on my side. I went to an super progressive, liberal elite school that had its head up its ass about these sort of things, and I shutted the fuck up and emerged with great recs, GPA, internships, and went on to a great job. By shutting the fuck up and doing what I had to. Sometimes, you need to just kiss the old, white SJW ass for show.

Apologize for causing a disruption and for anything that you may have said. Let her know you appreciate her providing a perspective on achievements that differs from what you've believed, and you'd like to learn more. Ask her for some recommendations for literature you can check out to learn more, and let her know you'll be a better participant in class.

Don't do it with a trollsmirk on your face. Fake the genuine contrition. Don't be smug. Don't do the "I'm sorry that YOU felt I was being out of line." Don't.

TRP means acknowledge status-realities. She is higher status than you. You have zero status as a freshmen college student. There is zero to gain by trying to resist. Just take this as practice in the art of "Doing as others do, but thinking whatever you'd like."

Write your ass off about some feminist shit. She is going to be looking for ANY excuse to give you a low grade or knock points from a paper. Produce perfect feminist essays. Every alpha in politics knows how to do this, and it's a great skill to know. I can sound off like a chief SJW if I have to. Your professor is teaching you something valuable.

Master this art, it will serve you all your life. Leading a diversity charge at my company to hire women and MITs (minorities in tech) has led to me getting a pretty nice promotion. So what if it's diluting the company and wasting time and money; I'm going to take the check and move on in 2 years, using my new position and salary to negotiate a fatter comp package.

I said you're not going to like this, but SUCK IT UP AND DO WHAT'S REQUIRED TO GET AN A. If you have to kiss ass, then pucker up. You cannot win by fighting her on this through little shit questions. Even if you have plausible deniability, you know damn well your questions and comments are going to rustle her jimmies. If her jimmies gets rustled, she will find a way to fail you. Professors, unless they are fucking their students or saying something racist / sexist against minorities, have unlimited power.

After you get an A, then you can complain to the dean of undergraduate education and whoever else if you really want, but I believe that's not worth the risk. They might be friends. Just leave it alone. Lose the battle, win the war.

Edit: If you are in high school, same advice. A "B" or "C" can minorly fuck your transcript. A "D" on an otherwise great transcript can take you out of the running for a top college or scholarship - it may not, but why risk it? Win her over; conquer her by being fulfilling the fantasy she has of "making men check their privilege" or whatever.

dr_warlock · 2016-01-13T04:47:28+00:00

Brother, I've been there.

In college I had to read the Epic of Gilgamesh to dissect how it's oppressive to women. Then I had to read Gate to Women's Country (feminist wet dream).

Next I had to watch a play of women who killed their husbands, went to jail, and danced and sang in their cells on how they are proud of it. In this class I thought I would risk telling it how it is on an exam, but realized that was mistake with an SJW teacher, so I went to him and trigger warned him on my response, claiming it might sound misogynist but I never meant it. We laughed, I faked a genuine smile. He has no idea he's speaking to dr_warlock, a major online misogynist and female oppressor. We part ways, my grade was saved. Idiot.

Then I had a class that made us talk about our feelings, create wedding vows, and watch a video on how to check my priviledge.

Not to mention professor remarks on why female CEOs arent common (a BUSINESS professor. PHD)

Another class the (male) instructor constantly bashed masculinity and mentioned sexism when he could.

You're going to be tempted to put people in their place or releive their ignorance. don't. The blue pill and SjW are legion. Keep your mouth shut. Rethink university while you're at it.

Stories_of_Red · 2016-01-13T02:20:42+00:00

Ignoring this sort of person is typically the best route, but once they put their bead on you, and start fucking with you. FIGHT BACK.

Go to the administration, with your parents, describe carefully WITH FACTS what happened. No hyperbole. No upset. Just who, what, where, when, how.

Then have your parents lay it out there explicitly: we think this woman is harassing our son because she is a radical, ideologically-driven political sort, not a good teacher. Are you, Mr. Adminstrator going to address this? Or do you need a call from a lawyer, and more aggressive policing of your schools conduct towards young men?

Yes, they will respond. And no, most likely you will not catch hell. Rather, they will call her in, she will deny everything, but she will also most likely tread much more carefully.

For your part, stop slapping ass in class. You are not twelve. Don't act like it.

pushtheskyaway1 · 2016-01-13T06:41:12+00:00

Note to all the guys out there, this is really a no brainer.

At university, you always write and do what the professor wants to hear. Is your professor socialist? Write as if you are. If they are feminist, write like one. The biggest lie of college is that you actually get to think for yourself.

College is not the time to take a stand. When you graduate with a good job and start making money then its another story.

College is a game and you broke one of the first rules.

IronMeltsinmyHands · 2016-01-13T08:27:04+00:00

have you read Sun Tzu's the art of war?

She's playing you like play-do. she knows she has power over you and is using that to her advantage.

In war, you need to batten down the hatches, get an army, fucking shoot to kill.

I'm sounding rather extreme. But I want you to know, this bitch will try to fuck you over. And if she has from you, a single thing, that rubs her the wrong way, you are fucked.

I had a teacher who fucked me over horribly. Pick on the short kid who gets bullied. Ok.

So I'm saying. Clean up your act. Play the part. Maybe even apologize so she let's her guard down. And then, send in your Trojan Horse.

Get something you can use to ruin her fucking life. ...

I might still be angry at the cunt who ruined my life.

[deleted] · 2016-01-13T07:32:17+00:00

Are you kidding me? You are in HIGH SCHOOL. It literally

DOES.

NOT.

MATTER.

What you should do is fuck her world up by using the retarded feminist logic turned back on itself. Always stay polite. Never be confrontational. Remember that YOU are the man and she is literally an overgrown child.

If you need some inspiration as to how to go about it, here is a helpful video.

ambitiousproject · 2016-01-13T15:01:12+00:00

sorry if i sound daft but can someone tell me what op is complaining about? the fact that he wasn't allowed to sit with his friends? that someone made a bs sexual harassment "report" against him that nothing is going to come of anyway? something else?

[deleted] · 2016-01-13T02:10:11+00:00

I like what /u/cover20 said, not that knowledgeable about it.

But document and save all your assignments, too.

LicksMackenzie · 2016-01-13T03:53:36+00:00

Is this college or high school? Bro it's 2016. You don't talk about this type of thing in public. It's not a discussion or a negotiation. My advice is lay low and have the best revenge by living a good life.

enkae7317 · 2016-01-13T07:10:00+00:00

I don't think I'm even going to show up tomorrow.

Bro if you don't show up you're admitting defeat. Now, why would you do that?

yomo86 · 2016-01-13T10:17:11+00:00

I suggest or at least try to outline an opportunity: If you have a SJW leverage you should use it. Let's say you identify as jewish, half-cherokee or some other in a perfect meritocracy unimportent stuff. Lie. Just lie. She is white. Got that. So she should check her privilege for harrassing you because of said unimportent shit. File a complaint because of that.

SJWs are hyenas they will feed on the weak but they will also be cannibals when the situation arise.

Law 44 is a unterated one: Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect.

notgivefuck · 2016-01-13T13:44:36+00:00

This month i was assigned to a group to research feminism for my English class. The unit is global issues and I got fucking feminism over real issues like human trafficking and terrorism. So I decided to use this as a golden opportunity to set the record straight in front of my whole class and step out of the closet to everyone that I'm red pill as fuck.

Come the day of the presentation, I offered "additional perspectives" and talked about the men's rights movement (didn't mention TRP of course) and talked about how irrational the feminist argument is. I stated that feminism is about more than equality and ending gender roles, it's an attempt to create an unequal compromise, by men, for women.

When I said that last thing, my crusty English professor stood up and said "you have no evidence to back ANY of that up" and she got very heated and red and upset. I maintained frame and moved to my next slide where I talked about the equal pay act of 1963, how women have equal voting and political rights, etc. ,finished my presentation, and ended up getting a shitty grade although all of my points were correct while the bitchy girls in my group just ranted about rape culture and how women don't get respect like men do - they got A's. Makes me livid.

tl;dr - Crusty feminist English teacher expcected me to be feminist and I showed her and my class what's up.

TRP_Lee_zard · 2016-01-13T09:16:05+00:00

Can I ask what is the situation with your parents? (What I mean is, would they stand on your side should shit hit the fan?).

I'm asking because you (and your parents) are the employer of the school, of the teacher - and maybe, just maybe it is time to switch schools (if possible).

It's something I learned in the workforce and relationships - if there's something in your workplace/relationship you don't like and cannot change it the best way to keep your integrity is to change the workplace/relationship - remember, you can fight (sometimes works), you can cave in (never works) or you can move on to a better environment that will let you develop yourself.

juliusstreicher · 2016-01-13T09:38:53+00:00

Go to school administration immediately.

EdmondDaunts · 2016-01-13T15:45:32+00:00

Bide your time for now. But remember that she most probably just craves attention and usually the cock, but obviously not from you.

So stay neutral for a bit then use charm. After a while if done properly you can say anything you like. Also, try and win round the class.

Social proof is powerful even for school kids, if that's what it is. If you are in college just change class.

killxorxbexkilled · 2016-01-13T18:44:53+00:00

Think of how many times this has happened and is happening right now....wow, man. THIS is the creeping fascism that's rotting our country from the inside out.

Hate that this is happening....I sincerely hope you come out unscathed and on top

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-01-13T18:49:37+00:00

Don't turn tail and run. Attend class. Look her straight in they eyes. Don't let her petty actions and pathetic abuse of power phase you. She is clearly violating the student/teacher relationship code so you need to document EVERYTHING and be prepared kick some legal ass in case she is a full blown bitch.

[deleted] · 2016-01-13T22:45:16+00:00

Get a bodycam, record it all in secret, wait for her to lash out at you for no particular reason (as extremists always do), then you will have video proof that she's over-reacting and targeting you.

foldpak111 · 2016-01-13T10:51:54+00:00

Drop out. The educational system is fucked. Learn a trade or start a business. I'm actually planning on going to college after the bubble bursts and the political correctness gets taken care of. So maybe 10 years down the road.

Title	Older Feminist English teacher is harassing me. Don't know what to do.
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Date	January 13, 2016 1:25 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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