Just a quick FR from a recent meeting with a curvy Mexican girl.

tl;dr- When a girl threatens to leave, let her. It is nothing more than a shit test, and trying to stop her is not what she wants you to do.

Body: Met up with a Mexican chick recently and was given a shit test I hadn't had in a while. (One of my old posts lays out the same shit test I had with an LTR and slayed to perfection).

Before meeting up, she kept telling me she wanted to meet in public, wanted our physical distance during the meet up because she isn't like that, "you could be a serial killer or a creep," blah, blah bullshit.

Anyway, we meet up, and she has the exact body type I like and it shows even better that when we originally met in this form fitting red spring dress she has on. She's nervous at first, but I can tell by the way she is looking at me she is attracted. We start talking and she opens up more and more, and I start teasing her, being cocky funny, making fun of her, etc. She is laughing the whole time then acts like she is offended when I started teasing her about calling immigration.

Her: "You want to be rude, I will leave. Don't joke like that, it's not funny, Mexican people have bad reputations but we are just normal people who want better lives" blah, blah, blah.

Me: "So, you're saying you and your family still send the truck driver that brought you here a Christmas card every year?" with a wink.

I can see her smirking a little, but acting butt hurt. Now mind you, she cracked Mexican jokes to me the first time we met, so I just went with it that night, being a cocky-funny asshole pushing the envelope, showing her IDGAF.

Her: "That's it, you're rude, I'm leaving."

Me: "Thanks for the beer."

Her: "I will leave right now. I will go."

Me: Smile and wave goodbye.

She walks away. I do not turn around, say a word, or act like anything happened.

5 mins later she comes up behind me and grabs my shoulders.

Her: Miss me?

Me: Who are you?

She laughs, sits back down, absolutely cannot keep her hands off of me the rest of the night (so much for the meeting in public because I could be a weirdo argument). In fact, shes all over me So much that I have to tell her to relax a little because I expected her to blow me at the bar there before too long.

The night ends with my DNA in her mouth in the parking lot.

Lesson Learned: If you ever, ever, ever get a chick saying something to the effect of "I'm leaving. I'm serious, I'll leave right now."

DO.

NOT.

ENGAGE!

Tell them you will see them later, and act as if absolutely nothing is wrong. You are communicating so many things this way:

  • You do not give a fuck.
  • You must have other girls to fuck, why else would you have a IDGAF attitude?
  • Because you have other girls to fuck, the jealousy kicks in and she doesn't even know who these other girls are. Jealousy is your best fucking friend. Women love a man loved by other women (preferrably high pecking order chicks in her social circle, if at all possible).
  • You're strong and you are not swayed by her emotions.
  • You must be masculine to be that stoic on a first date and not let a threat of leaving bother you.

I've done this several times, and every single time I've responded this way it's worked in my favor.

Her emotional whims do not affect you, and if she can't take a joke, she can GTFO, it will not bother your life one bit.

Rock on, brahs.