On a biological level, she despises weakness.

Momo_dollar · 2016-03-21T19:35:53+00:00

Just to play devils advocate... You had the shits for a few days... She knew this, took care of you and still wanted to bang but half way through you get up to go take a shit... She's thinking wet runny diarrhea type of shit and then you return and she's no longer horny.....

Dude... you really surprised?

ColOfCloutties · 2016-03-21T17:59:13+00:00

Dude don't feel like you NEED to have sex every moment of the day just to prove your masculinity. If you are out with a stomach bug (with which I am very familiar), just don't have sex. Tell HER you're not feeling it. It shows that you have control in the relationship and as an added bonus may even get her hamster spinning "why doesn't he want to fuck me?"

That is a much better option that trying to have sex while you've got a turtle head poking out and you're dry heaving on top of her.

foldpak111 · 2016-03-22T00:39:57+00:00

When I was dealing with severe PTSD (non-combat related) and a physically broken body, my ex-girlfriend left me. My buddy was there every step of the way, though. At night, he would even tuck me in, make me a protein shake, chamomile tea, watch a movie after his personal war at work. Says a lot about women and a lot about men.

knitro · 2016-03-21T18:32:15+00:00

I'm going to ignore the fact that you are wondering why a girl was put off when you were shitting yourself, but in general the order of preference for sex for girls is something like this:

They get off, You get off

You get off, they don't

They get off, you don't

Neither of you do.

You might here a girl argue against this, and it might see counter-intuitive (the male order is definitely different) but you have realize that ultimately most girls are pleasers, and women can take satisfaction from knowing they were able to make you come, even if it didn't do for them that time. That's why it can actually be a good move to come fast on occasion (the classic 'quickie' - but I mean don't lead off with it), it strokes their egos knowing they got you off quickly (though god knows what you were actually thinking about) - not every time needs to be a 40 minute sweaty pound session.

You should also not necessarily expect her to come every time. Given how much more mental a girls orgasm is they can get thrown off from being able to from a variety of things, they're drunk, they're tired, they're hungover, stoned, mad at their mom, stressed about a friend, etc. Don't sweat it - enjoy yourself and like a rising tide it'll raise all boats.

yaysmr · 2016-03-21T19:30:17+00:00

I think the lesson to pull from this (and one I've experienced as well):

IF you lose face with her, do what is necessary to regain it immediately.

Chris_Phoenix · 2016-03-21T19:52:25+00:00

This is a perfect example of what AWALT really means. Even the good ones have the same female biomechanical wiring that dictates how they feel attraction, and by extension, love. This is why no amount of her personal beliefs about equality matter in the long run (and often time, get in the way of you having an efficient relationship with her where she remains attracted to you). Biology is king. I don't give a shit what you believe about how you feel about food, when you're hungry, you're going to listen to you body and eat

MattyAnon · 2016-03-21T20:22:26+00:00

but she actually believes in literal gender equality (i.e. she sees domestic abuse by women against men as a problem)

No, she doesn't. Say says this. But it is a lie. She says this to maintain her equality myth. But there is no way she will sacrifice one tiny shred of her female privilege for this so-called belief. Do not be fooled.

The second you say "buh buh but equality" she'll see you as weak, and you've already learned where that gets you.

Formatting tip: ** around your text to make it bold, not the word "bold" :)

Redpill_Hannibal · 2016-03-21T19:17:58+00:00

The desire of a woman is to put her orbiters in a small space of a size of living room, with a baseball bat dangling 2 meters from the floor, you know the one with nails that go right through it, and wait on tribune sipping coke till the start of a brawl.

She would reproduce with strongest/quickiest/sneakiest bastard that would have survived this Battle Royal.

And then, after a week or so, she would repeat whole ordeal, JUST TO BE SURE.

SecularNotLiberal · 2016-03-21T20:00:48+00:00

If you weren't feeling like having sex, then why did you consent to it? Should have just said no. Why are you letting her sexual needs supercede yours when you're sick?

Dustin_Bromain · 2016-03-21T21:44:49+00:00

I think it's honestly debatable if she saw you as "weak" or was just a little grossed out by you in your condition. And if she is actually seeing you as "weak" over a cold then maybe you should re-consider what you want in an LTR. My LTR becomes more caring and affectionate when I'm sick. Makes me food in bed and gives me attention no matter how gross I get.

VIICHYVALOIS · 2016-03-22T00:49:56+00:00

Body: Quick background, have been with current LTR for about a year. I see her one or two weekends a month because of geography.

I read your description of her. She sounds like an attractive woman with nice personal qualities. But please, for the love of all things TRP, don't commit to an invisible friend

Quoting from the link:

Understand me here – you have no relationship. You have self-assumed accountability, self-assumed liability and internalized responsibilities to be loyal to this person. You are entertaining a commitment to fidelity with an idealization, and ignoring what everyone outside of your LDR will regularly tell you is insanity. LDRs are one of the more insidious forms of ONEitis.

Sorry to be the one to link that to you.. stings like a bitch if you actually caught feelings for this particular one but, like the wise man says, you really don't have a relationship.

Moving on...

At this point, my TRP knowledge kicked in: You can't negotiate attraction. She's unnattracted to you right now. Why? You're weak, sick, and emotional. Not the stoic, healthy alpha she wants to fuck. Briffault's Law means she doesn't remember the past year of good dick from you, she only sees what's happening in the moment. Thus, the only way forward is to fuck her good.

CORRECT! Glad you laid that pipe. Quoting from Patrice O'neal, may he rest in peace, you gotta channel your inner scumbag. Glad you did, attaboy.

On a base, animalistic, biological level, she is disgusted by weakness. No matter how much equality she strives for or how much feminism she consumes, she will always be attracted to strength and revolted by the reverse.

AWALT. Not just her, all women are like that. Weakness, neediness, these are the traits in men that disgust women.

Five_Decades · 2016-03-21T21:45:31+00:00

Read this article by Rollo Tomassi if you haven't seen it yet. It describes what you just underwent.

http://therationalmale.com/2013/11/13/empathy/

TL;DR - women put themselves in a position of intense vulnerability when they mate with a man (they rely on his to protect and provide for them and the offspring for years on end, at least they did before the modern era). A man who is weak, fragile, sickly, vulnerable, etc. cannot protect or provide so a woman either goes cold or tries to pretend his problems don't exist.

benuntu · 2016-03-21T22:09:39+00:00

LOL, I think I can explain this one a bit easier. I don't care how hot a woman is, when she's had the shits for days, and shits in the middle of sex after I cum...yeah, I'm done!

Don't make it bigger than it is, it's normal.

Awes300meness · 2016-03-22T01:30:48+00:00

Despising weakness is also a narcissistic trait according to Narcissism Revisited.

masnera · 2016-03-22T06:04:55+00:00

Introspection- males are good at this...if you were the girl you're horny and the one that would be fucking you is sick? what are your thoughts? . What are your thoughts when fucking a girl that is coughing like a rabid dog?

syf3r · 2016-03-22T12:14:15+00:00

Imagine pre-civilization times: She associates with a weak man and it will be a death sentence to her and her future offsprings. The elements, wild animals, tribe politics will conspire against her. Food, shelter and safety will not be readily available.

She is a descendant of countless women who avoided weak men.

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blackhornatnight · 2016-03-21T20:36:04+00:00

I had quite the opposite experience, so any sweeping generalizations seem pointless to me. I underwent surgery to repair a hernia almost two years ago, and I was bed ridden for almost 3 days, pissing in a bucket, and then crying in the corner of the bathroom because I couldn't shit, and I was in so much pain. My LTR was there through all of this.

You know what she did that night? She sucked my dick for 30 minutes strait until I blew a massive load. She sucked my cock, with my bloody bandages only inches away. I don't think I had showered in a few days either.

For whatever reason, this brought us closer together, the experience of me being weak and vulnerable, and her being in control.

I'm not a "high value" male either. I rent a studio apartment in a shitty part of town, work in a job where I make 40 grand a year, and drive a 10 year old vehicle. I'd say I'm an attractive, educated, well spoken guy, but honestly, from what you read about here, this girl has literally no reason to date me, and if I were to rate her, I'd say she is an 8/10, that's from my personal attraction to her, and from how I observe other men looking at her and interacting with her. She has told me that at work men have approached her and strait up told her they'd love to eat her out and fuck her.

MonkeyDFreecs · 2016-03-22T14:05:46+00:00

As someone that has went through servere depression most of my teen years I went to mental health centers and mental hospitals most of the guys I met said that their girlfriends left them or found them less attractive when they revealed their depression or going to mental health places. (Some of these guys had abusive parents, had been raped/molested more than once, witnessed someone they were close to get killed right in front of them, attempted suicide more than once, addicted to drugs and alcohol to escape their depression, and etcetera.)

The last mental hospital I was in I notice the boys group was much more supportive of each other and formed a brotherhood even if we didn't share similar interest.

Meanwhile the girls group was always at each others necks and fights between them broke out often. I learned some of the girls were in the hospital because they were riding the cock carousel in school, one girl was pregnant, a 16 year old was sleeping around with 20 somethings because of her low self esteem, and several other reasons that weren't as severe as the boys.

Shit like this is one of the reasons why males commit suicide more. Sure women are biologically designed to act like this but how can you not hate them when all it takes is to cry one time in front of them and they'll see you as lesser no matter what you've done in the past and even the future or what you're crying about.

Gives guys even more reasons to just get plates and one night stands instead of LTRs.

landon042 · 2016-03-22T02:13:23+00:00

bad post, like others have said don't try it while you're sick.

She's unnattracted to you right now. Why? You're weak, sick, and emotional

Emotional? that's your choice, like it's a girls choice to act like a cunt bitch on her period because she does what she can get away with. When I was sick I told my girlfriend "it's nothing I can't handle" she sucked it. and that's basic advice while your sick

TopologyDough · 2016-03-21T18:34:09+00:00

You said that women can't remember the good things that you've done in the past. In general, when you are doing something back, you shouldn't be doing it because you expect something in return.

Title	On a biological level, she despises weakness.
Author	SilentDeadlyKiller
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Date	March 21, 2016 5:49 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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